17-year-old male, in the past two months, his emotions have become increasingly unstable. Does life have any meaning?

Dear Question Asker, I would like to begin by offering you some words of encouragement. I believe that your life still has meaning, and that your future is also very promising. However, I recognise that you are facing significant challenges at this time. It is important to remember that your life is in your hands, and that you have the power to shape your future. You are only 17 years old, and there are still all kinds of infinite possibilities in life for you. I encourage you to believe that there are no limits to your life. Please do not hesitate to contact me if you require any further support. Best regards, [Name]

After reviewing your inquiry, I empathize with your situation. You have endured significant challenges, including being bullied during your primary school years. At such a young age, you were subjected to bullying by other students, and there was a lack of intervention or support from those around you. It's possible that you were hesitant to confide in a teacher, and you continued to internalize the experience. Years have passed, and the impact of childhood bullying persists.

The family environment and atmosphere are also not conducive to your growth. There is frequent discord between your parents, who are often in a bad mood and angry. They have nowhere to vent their anger, so they take it out on you. At home, you have become a receptacle for your parents' emotions. This is an unfortunate situation. You are a child, but you are not protected by adults. You must learn to live like an adult and protect yourself. You are working too hard.

The positive aspect of your situation is that you are still young and have a bright future ahead of you. However, to achieve your goals, you must work hard and expand your knowledge base. By doing so, you can gain the confidence and resilience to protect yourself from bullying.

Dear Question Asker, I want to extend my support to you. The world and I love you!

Perhaps you could offer some comfort from a distance.

The questioner describes their situation as follows:

Over the past two months, I have found it challenging to manage the urge to self-harm.

I often find myself dreaming about the bullying I experienced in elementary school or the conflicts between my parents. When I see people gathering in a group and talking quietly, I sometimes feel as though they might be discussing me. Similarly, when other people's gazes fall on me, I often feel a sense of unease.

My parents' relationship is becoming increasingly strained, and unfortunately, their disagreements are often directed towards me. I'm still exploring my sexuality.

The questioner expresses some doubts.

I wonder if my life still has meaning.

If it is not too much trouble, I would like to offer some words of encouragement to the questioner.

If it is convenient for the questioner, they might consider visiting the school's counseling office for a brief chat. The counselor may be able to offer some guidance, and words of comfort can provide some limited support.

I believe the first problem mentioned by the questioner

If you harm yourself, it may be a sign that you have a lot of pent-up negative emotions that you need to release, and you may not yet have found a way to do so.

If I might suggest, being suppressed by the family environment, your father talking behind your back, and turning your aggression inward to release your inner anger and negative emotions might be some of the factors at play.

It is possible that we may encounter some imperfect families and parents who treat us inappropriately, but that does not necessarily mean that this will be the case in our own lives.

At the moment, while I'm still a student, I have my own commitments and responsibilities that prevent me from going out on my own. When you reach a point in your life where you're ready to take on more independence, you may find it easier to move away from these circumstances.

Furthermore, it would be beneficial to explain to the questioner that the choice of a romantic partner is entirely up to the individual and is not influenced by external factors.

It is important to remember that we can find our own happiness and strive to live the life we want.

Sometimes pressure can be a motivating factor in our personal growth.

Dear Question Asker, Thank you for your recent inquiry. Please let us know if we can be of further assistance. Best regards, [Name] [Title]

Thank you for your message. I appreciate the opportunity to offer some advice in response to your query. However, I must admit that it is quite challenging to provide comprehensive guidance in such a brief communication. Nevertheless, I am willing to engage in further discussion with you to explore potential solutions.

It is challenging to provide comprehensive advice in a limited word count, particularly when navigating complex circumstances. Nevertheless, I am available for further discussion and will assist you in exploring additional options when you feel overwhelmed.

It is imperative that psychological wounds be treated by a professional.

I am saddened to read this. You are about to enter your senior year of high school, and you have experienced peer bullying in elementary school, as well as long-term family conflicts with your parents. It is challenging to cope with multiple traumas and be wounded in multiple ways. You were originally able to maintain an outgoing personality, but now you are beginning to feel out of control. You hurt yourself, worrying about other people pointing and talking about you, and you are afraid of other people's stares. These have had a significantly negative impact on your physical and mental health and normal social functioning.

It is recommended that you seek professional assistance. Medical care for physical injuries is provided at hospitals, and psychological care is also necessary. If your parents are unable to provide this, you may wish to speak with your school psychologist.

Thank you for your message. I am writing to inform you that your case will be referred to a specialist for further assessment. I hope this information is helpful. Please do not hesitate to contact me if you require further assistance. Best regards, [Name] [Title]

Adolescence is a period of exploration of sexual orientation.

You indicated that the changes occurred within the last two months, suggesting that something significant may have transpired recently, causing you considerable distress. It is possible that this is related to the concept of "bisexuality," as referenced in your final sentence.

Adolescence is a period of exploration of sexual orientation. It is a normal developmental stage during which individuals may explore their sexual orientation. Feelings of dependency or romantic attraction to the same sex do not necessarily indicate a fixed sexual orientation. Sexual orientation is influenced by various factors, including family, social environment, and cultural norms. It is typically not determined until adulthood and is considered stable when it has been consistent for at least two years.

Regardless of one's sexual orientation, whether it be "gay" or "bisexual," there is no distinction between right and wrong, nor should there be any form of discrimination.

[The meaning of existence is defined by the individual]

The conflict between your parents is a problem they need to resolve, and you are not at fault. You are not responsible for solving this problem. In one year, you will transition from a teenager to an adult, and you will also graduate from high school and enter your next stage in life.

Your future still holds a multitude of possibilities. It is essential to define for yourself what kind of person you want to become and how you want to live your life. This may be a challenging period, akin to the darkness before dawn, but it will soon give way to a brighter future.

Ultimately, it is my hope that the individual in question will seek professional assistance and regain control of their life.

You seem lonely, hurt, and helpless.

I can feel your helplessness and frustration. Relax.

I'm cheerful in front of my classmates and I've never harmed myself.

You say you're cheerful in front of your classmates, but is the voice in the background saying you're not cheerful at other times? Is your cheerfulness in front of classmates an act?

Be aware of your emotions and deal with them.

You say you often dream about being bullied in elementary school. This may mean you still have unresolved feelings about it. Dreams are the subconscious mind's way of processing emotions.

Seeing your inner needs.

(Every time I see someone talking in a group, I feel like they're talking about me. Every time someone looks at me, I'm scared, but I act happy. Even if someone yells at me, I act like I don't care.

When I read this, I feel complex. You are inferior and insecure. You also use this state of escape to deal with things you don't want to face.

You say that no matter what you do, they will always say you are ugly and that your father says nasty things about you to your mother.

I understand why you've been cutting and biting yourself. You've been holding back too many emotions. You've tried hard to please your classmates and parents, but they still don't approve of you. You want to be seen, understood, and approved.

You're only 17, so it's too early to define yourself as bisexual. You're still exploring, so don't define yourself too early. Allow yourself to explore. All of this makes you doubt yourself and think you're bad. You have resentment and emotions that no one can understand. You seek balance with self-harm. You might think, "The body is your own, and this is the only thing you can control. You can be in charge. You're in pain, you're confused, so you'll question whether your life has meaning."

Here are a few tips.

Here are some tips that might help.

Stay optimistic.

Be confident in yourself. Overcome difficulties to relieve anxiety. Learn to express aggressiveness. Without this, you will be lifeless. Those who can display this energy are controversial, but they are full of vitality.

2. Take your mind off things.

When you're feeling down, don't stay home. Get outside and enjoy nature.

3. Talk to friends more often.

We all face challenges in life. Having someone to listen to us when we're feeling down can help us feel more relaxed. If you're not ready to talk, writing or talking to a tree can also be helpful.

4. Self-care.

4. Self-care

A person can recognize, understand, and care for themselves when they are feeling depressed. This helps them face painful experiences more wisely.

Self-care helps you feel better. It gives you a sense of security and strength. When you take care of yourself, you feel better.

Finally, I'd like to share a passage I like:

(Be your own therapist)

Life is a mirror. Smile and it will smile back.

Your attitude affects your quality of life.

If we stay positive,

Life can be happy.

I hope this helps.

I hope you're happy.

First and foremost, I empathize with you, the inquirer, for the experiences you have endured.

I have encouraging news for you: you have already begun to move out of a very unfavorable situation. The opposite of extreme is extreme.

I will now respond to your inquiry regarding the meaning of life.

The answer is no. Meaning is added and found by oneself.

It's comparable to faith: everyone converts after being convinced. As for you, whether you want to find the answer is up to you.

Finally, I would like to address the challenges you have faced and the underlying reasons for them. Your perception of these challenges as unacceptable and negative is a result of your discriminatory mindset.

It is a fallacy to assume that bisexual people are inherently unhappy. Similarly, it is incorrect to assume that individuals born with missing limbs or without parents are less fortunate. In fact, there are many examples of people who have experienced worse circumstances yet still lead fulfilling lives. A simple online search will reveal a multitude of such individuals, whose lives are often more fulfilling than those of the general population.

I will explain why. It is because your happiness depends on how others see you, which ultimately leads to self-negation. You have consistently sought external validation.

How do my parents and classmates view me? What actions can I take to receive praise from them? What steps can I take to influence their perception of me? I must emphasize that attaining these goals is unattainable. Furthermore, no individual in this world has ever achieved them. This is your primary concern.

I believe you have attempted a variety of approaches, only to encounter setbacks. It's a pattern of "a hundred tries, a hundred failures."

The most effective route to success is to focus on your own development and growth, while also supporting and enabling others to do the same.

You dislike it when others interfere in your business, asking, "Why do you think you can change others and interfere with them?"

You are entitled to pursue your own objectives, but you are mistaken to do so with the intention of influencing others. You cannot change others, and this is causing you distress.

It would be beneficial to abandon this underlying concept and simply pursue your desired course of action.

In conclusion, should you require further clarification regarding your grade, please do not hesitate to contact me directly so that I can provide you with a detailed explanation.