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A senior high school student about to enter his third year, lacking motivation, scoring around 300 points, how to adjust one's psychology?

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A senior high school student about to enter his third year, lacking motivation, scoring around 300 points, how to adjust one's psychology? By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

How do you adjust your mentality in your third year of high school?

A prospective senior high school student, the holidays are almost over and I have no motivation to study. I only have a score of around 300 points, and my psychological ability has never been good enough. I especially hate my homeroom teacher, and she targets me as well. I want to change classes for this reason, but there is no way. I also failed to get into a good class. The learning atmosphere is poor, and the teaching ability of the subject teachers is also poor. They hardly pay any attention to us. Now that we think about it, I really don't know how to survive senior high school life. I am also unwilling to fail to get into a university. However, I don't know how to study because of my poor foundation. Now I don't want to go to school at all. How can I save myself?

Leonard Oscar Butler Leonard Oscar Butler A total of 4832 people have been helped

Hello question asker!

Your description reminds me of my own life in high school. You have anxiety and confusion, but you came here to ask a question, which shows you want to change.

Let me help the questioner:

I don't want to learn. My grades are bad. I'm not smart.

I didn't like the homeroom teacher or the environment. The teachers didn't restrict you, but you couldn't feel the learning atmosphere.

I wasn't happy with myself, but I couldn't learn.

Did I say something wrong?

It's normal to have conflicts. Change is painful at first, but it's worth it.

I'm 32. I didn't study hard before, and it's been especially hard to study recently. In the morning, I feel like crying because I can't do the exercises. I almost got expelled in my third year of high school. Later, I studied every day by rote, and I got in. It was the best junior college for me at the time.

The more important it is, the more you have to calm down.

When did you feel motivated to study?

The original poster said the homeroom teacher was targeting them. Is that true?

What do the other students think?

How will you feel if you achieve what you expect? What will you do to achieve it?

Who will notice your change first?

You need to learn by doing. I only started learning this year, and I've worked hard but lost knowledge. It's hard to learn, but don't give up. It's slow, but better than doing nothing.

I hope to help you with some psychological tips.

Adjust your mindset and unify your body and mind.

If you do what you say you will do and follow through on your words, you will see a big change in your confidence.

Keep your word. Do what you say you will do.

To be true to yourself, say what you feel.

Believe in yourself.

Believing in yourself is important. It affects your career, love life, etc. It makes you happy and gives you strength. Only by believing in yourself can you have the confidence to fulfill your dreams and love the people you love.

Confidence helps you move forward and succeed.

③ Self-psychological suggestion

Stay positive and avoid negative thoughts. Don't give up when you face challenges.

Repeat confident words to yourself. This is a very important form of positive self-suggestion. It helps you improve your self-confidence.

Psychological research has confirmed this.

Be yourself and don't let others influence you.

Don't stop studying just because you don't like your teacher or they're targeting you. Do your best to be yourself. The more they target you, the harder you should work to get away from it.

Think less and do more.

This also requires the student to be aware. A weak mind can make you feel helpless. To break this feeling, stop thinking and start doing. Practice makes perfect.

A wealth of knowledge

Knowledgable people can handle anything.

Persevere, have a good learning routine, and don't give up. Mistakes are good. When you feel like you're struggling, you're trying.

I believe in you. You can do it.

I love you, world.

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Kenneth Brian Howard Kenneth Brian Howard A total of 1274 people have been helped

Dear Question Asker,

You have indicated that you lack motivation to study. However, from your description, I can already discern your motivation. You have stated that you are unwilling to fail in order to gain admission to a bachelor's program.

Secondly, you indicated that you have a negative perception of your homeroom teacher and that she has a negative impact on your learning experience. You expressed a desire to switch classes, but there are no available options, and you are currently in a challenging situation. It is important to note that most teachers have a positive intent and strive to support their students' growth. If you believe there is a misunderstanding or a need for improvement, you can schedule a conversation with the teacher to discuss your concerns and explore potential solutions.

In regard to the suboptimal learning environment in the classroom, it is important to note that this ultimately depends on one's own actions. If the current situation is untenable, it is possible to request permission to remain in the classroom for self-study and depart early. Alternatively, if the instructor's pedagogical approach is deemed inadequate, it may be beneficial to seek the guidance of a tutor or enroll in online courses that align better with one's learning needs.

You may be reluctant to study at this time, but it is important to consider that you are approaching the final year of high school. If you apply yourself for the next 12 months, you can use this period to develop the skills and qualifications that will benefit you in the future. Many people find that they need to challenge themselves in order to achieve their goals.

To achieve success, you must adjust your mindset, unify your body and mind, and complete your study tasks every day as planned. It is essential to give yourself positive self-suggestions every day, as it may be challenging initially due to a lack of experience. However, with perseverance, you will see improvements.

Ultimately, it is essential to remain true to yourself and resist external influences.

The third year of high school represents a pivotal juncture. Despite a relatively modest score of 300 points or so, it is imperative not to abandon your efforts. By demonstrating dedication and commitment during the third year of high school, you can achieve a commendable score in the college entrance examination.

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Santos Anderson Life is a stream. Onward it flows. None can go back.

I understand how overwhelming and frustrating your situation feels. It's important to focus on what you can control. Maybe start by setting small, achievable goals for yourself each day or week. Celebrate the tiny victories to build up your confidence. Also, consider talking to a counselor or a trusted adult about the issues with your homeroom teacher; sometimes just expressing your feelings can be very relieving.

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Caroline Thomas He that is afraid of asking is ashamed of learning and he that is ashamed of learning is a coward and he that is a coward will never succeed.

Facing these challenges is tough, but remember that you're not alone in this struggle. Try to find a study group or a buddy who might be in a similar boat as you. Studying together can make it less daunting and more engaging. Additionally, online resources and tutoring could help strengthen your foundation. It's okay to ask for help and take it one step at a time.

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Blake Miller Diligence is the sword that cuts through the thorns of failure.

It sounds like you're carrying a heavy burden. It might help to shift your perspective slightly and look for aspects of school that you do enjoy or could grow to appreciate. Sometimes finding even one subject or activity you love can make a difference. If changing classes isn't an option, maybe there are extracurricular activities or clubs where you can thrive. Keep reminding yourself why getting into university matters to you and visualize achieving that goal.

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