Ask my dad about his thoughts, and he gets impatient and angry, telling me not to ask him?

Hello, host!

I understand how you feel. Your father doesn't understand you. I hug you and hope this brings you comfort.

From the host's description, it is clear that Dad does not want you to be like Mom, and Mom does not approve of some of Dad's behavior.

This has affected the host's views and relationships with the opposite sex. This is not the host's problem.

These reasons are caused by the influence of a certain original family.

The host was full of joy and wanted to share your thoughts with your father.

His father unexpectedly met with cold water and even anger, saying, "Just like your mother."

He feels sorry for the host when he encounters such treatment, and it is definitely not the host's fault.

He doesn't accept some of Mom's behavior.

He projected his own negative emotions onto the host.

The host confidently stated, "The relationship with the same sex is very good."

It is not possible to establish a long-term and stable intimate relationship in love.

The host also wants a long-lasting intimate relationship.

The inability to establish a long-term, stable intimate relationship

This is why the relationship with the father is also important.

Research definitively shows that

The relationship with the father undoubtedly affects the child's future relationship with wealth.

The relationship with the mother undoubtedly affects the child's future relationship with marriage.

There is, without a doubt, a solid basis and reason for it.

The host has no control over the relationship between his parents.

The relationship between the landlord and his parents can be improved.

We can't please everyone, even if we are a family.

You must not compromise yourself to please others.

This includes parents, friends, and lovers.

The overly compliant personality type, which tries to please others, may seem to have achieved peace on the surface.

Suffering is self-inflicted, and this goes against the principle of loving oneself.

You must love yourself before you can love others.

You can only love others if you love yourself and are strong enough.

You must want your career to go well in the future and your marriage to be happy.

You must reconcile with your parents first.

Your parents were unable to give you unconditional love when you were growing up.

As an adult, you have the power to accept and tolerate such parents.

Reconcile with your parents, and you will truly liberate yourself.

You will always be able to love yourself and the other person, no matter what kind of opposite sex you encounter in the future.

Don't let others sway you.

I guarantee you a happy life!

I am Warm June, and I love you, the world, and I love you too!

Hello, question asker!

It's totally normal to have some of the same worries that your parents have about each other. It's natural to want to establish an intimate relationship, but it can be tricky to know how to do that.

I know this is a tough issue, and I'm not trying to solve it all in one Q&A session. I'm happy to do some analysis and sorting to help you out. I'm here to stimulate discussion and help you find some direction.

First, let's take a look at how your parents interact with each other. Ideally, it would be great if they could model a child-to-child relationship. Unfortunately, they're both a bit self-centered, and when they disagree, they both think they're right and reasonable, so they never give in.

Over time, this can sadly lead to feelings of mutual disgust or resentment, which only makes the conflict worse.

In this situation, it's so important to remember that the child's development can be greatly affected. Both parents are very important to the child, so it's vital to ensure the child has a happy and healthy upbringing.

However, the parents are always at odds, and the poor child feels confused and doesn't know who to listen to. And at the same time, both sides have to carry a heavy burden because they don't want to betray either side.

So the poor child's heart is often in a state of being pulled in different directions, at a loss.

This situation can also make it tough to form close, intimate relationships. It's hard to know who you are and what kind of life you need when you're not sure how to get along with other people.

My advice to you is to take it slow and not rush into an intimate relationship. It's so important to first become ourselves before we can have a good relationship.

I just want to say that we shouldn't avoid relationships just to become the best version of ourselves. We can do both at the same time, but it's really important to become yourself first.

I'm not sure how old you are, but from what you've told me, I think you're probably ready to leave your parents and live independently. It seems like your parents have strong views and ideas, and they want you to choose one over the other. I can imagine it's difficult for you to decide.

It's totally normal to feel like making decisions is a challenge. It can really take a lot of energy, and it's understandable if you feel like you're still figuring out who you are.

I really think you should consider leaving your parents and living independently if you can. It's so important to remember not to let their views and ideas affect you. You're an amazing person, so I know you'll find out what kind of person you are if you just give it a try!

It's so important to ask yourself these questions: What are your needs? And what kind of life do you want to live?

It can be tough to get to know yourself, but it's worth it! You can learn a lot by yourself, and you can also get a lot out of seeing a counselor. I think you should give it a try!

Hi, I'm Haru Aoki, and I just want to say that I love you, the world, and everything in it!

It is commendable that you seek comfort through physical contact and are able to request assistance when faced with challenges. I would like to share a few insights that I believe will be beneficial for you.

It is not uncommon for issues to arise in our interactions with our elders. It was a prudent decision to communicate your views to your father. As children, seeking our parents' advice is not only acceptable but also beneficial. Therefore, you should give yourself credit for this action. Regardless of your father's attitude, you did take the initiative to communicate.

If your father has a negative attitude, it is important to accept this and to be understanding of the imperfections of your loved ones. Our elders are accustomed to speaking in a somewhat half-hearted manner and using emotions to solve problems. However, as the masters of our emotions, we can respect their ideas, but elders need to express themselves more clearly. One way to show your concern and goodwill towards your father is to buy him a pack of cigarettes and a bottle of wine. It is very important for family members to accept each other, and this can make our family more harmonious.

It is not uncommon for children to exhibit traits similar to those of their parents. Reflecting on your mother's admirable qualities can instill a sense of pride in you.

From your description, it seems that your parents did not have a positive relationship. This is not a reflection on you. Instead, focus on identifying the positive qualities of both of them, as their strengths are important.

If you are unable to establish a stable intimate relationship, it may be due to your negative perceptions of men formed during your relationship with your father. These perceptions may make it challenging for you to settle down. It is important to recall and appreciate the positive interactions between men and women.

The concept of balance between yin and yang is a suitable approach. Our society is becoming more open to same-sex relationships, but traditional support for heterosexual relationships remains. This is aligned with the natural order.

It is not productive to attempt to change others. Instead, focus on making changes to yourself.

It is important to understand and feel the power of nature both cognitively and from a normal perspective. Furthermore, it is essential to be determined to adhere to and achieve this.

It is crucial to strive for self-improvement and to cultivate a sense of confidence and positivity. Staying connected to positive energy sources and allowing yourself to continuously grow and evolve is essential.