Broke up with my boyfriend after four years of talking, so sad, what should I do?

Hello, my dear friend. From your description, I can understand the kind of pain you are feeling. It reminds me of the saying, "No one wants to leave someone who makes them feel comfortable. Leaving is often to stop the pain." I hope my sharing can help you...

I can see you're feeling a little down because you've poured so much of your heart and soul into your relationship. It's natural to feel like she's become a part of your everyday life. You've been together for four years, and while you know each other well, you haven't quite reached the end of the road yet.

From what you've told me, it's clear that you've worked through some of your own issues to be able to truly love him.

That's why, when you part ways, the other person can become an obsession that you just can't let go of. The memories of being connected to them can touch the tender part of your heart, which is why you're suddenly overcome with sadness.

Let's take a closer look at the man.

You mentioned that he comes from a single-parent family, where the mother is in charge. If you have a disagreement with her mother, he will only criticize you, not his mother. This just shows how great their relationship is! From another perspective, it could be a sign of a "mama's boy." His mother makes all the decisions, and whatever she does is always right.

We all have our own ideas about love. There are so many different kinds of love out there! But the most important thing is that a man and a woman who love each other will like and appreciate each other. If someone always belittles you and wants you to change, it might mean that they don't love you enough or don't know how to love you.

It's so important to know that a person who truly loves you, whether or not they come from a single-parent family, will be there for you both when there's a fight between the woman and her mother. After all, one party is the person you want to spend your life with, and the other is your parent.

If you can't do this, it might not be true love. It could be a sign that you're trying to control the situation.

So, my dear friend, if the one you love gives up on you, please let go of yourself.

Many failed relationships are the result of us wavering, not being sure of what we believe in, and not being able to let go of what we should. When we can't stick to our principles, we end up hurting ourselves and the other person, and the other person will completely look down on us.

This also shows that we all have to learn to grow and change in our emotions. This is just the way emotions work! It's not something that's needed because of another person's betrayal or other demands on us.

Mutual respect is truly the most beautiful and fitting conclusion to a love story. Two people who are together truly understand and respect each other.

Take a moment to reflect on your own thoughts and feelings. The world is a big, beautiful place, and it's important to remember that you can't let one small thing stand in the way of everything else.

There's a lovely saying that if you shed a tear when you miss the sun, you might just miss the stars too!

I just wanted to share this with you in case it helps, I really hope it does!