Do you feel lonely no matter who you're with or if you're alone?
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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
No matter who I'm with or if I'm alone, I feel the same: lonely and helpless. It makes me unable to engage in deep relationships with other people, including having a boyfriend. The more deeply involved someone is with me, the more uneasy I feel.
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Comments
I can relate to feeling that way, it's tough when you experience loneliness even around others. It seems like forming deeper connections just brings discomfort rather than closeness.
Feeling lonely and helpless is really hard, especially when it impacts all your relationships. It sounds like getting close to someone makes you feel uneasy, which must be challenging.
It's such a strange feeling to be surrounded by people yet still feel alone and unable to connect deeply. The uneasiness from intimacy can make building relationships particularly difficult.
Loneliness can be so isolating, even when you're not physically alone. It's understandable that the deeper someone gets, the more uncomfortable you feel; it's almost as if there's an invisible barrier.
It must be incredibly difficult to feel this way, where being with others doesn't change the sense of isolation. Developing deep relationships feels impossible when closeness leads to discomfort.