Every day I read about security incidents, and yet I feel less and less safe. Why is that?

Dear Question Asker, When I saw your question, I was reminded of my own experience a year ago. At that time, I felt that there were a significant number of incidents involving the killing of women, which I referred to as "femicide." I was so affected by these headlines that I felt scared whenever I saw them, as if I might encounter such a situation one day. However, I came to realize that this would do nothing but make me overly nervous.

Subsequently, I came to understand that such malevolent occurrences do, in fact, transpire on a daily basis. The pivotal question, therefore, is not whether such incidents will occur, but rather how we choose to perceive them.

In the event of such concerns, one may wish to consider the following approach:

Firstly, it is important to reassure oneself that the probability of such an event occurring is low, that it is not necessary to experience excessive distress, and that the world remains a safe place.

Secondly, it is advisable to exercise caution when searching for this kind of information, as modern websites and apps employ recommendation algorithms. The more frequently we search for specific information, the more the system will assume our preference for that information and the more it will recommend to us.

Third: It is advisable to follow some official science accounts and take the initiative to learn about effective preventive knowledge. For example, if there is a concern about being cheated out of money, it would be beneficial to follow the police's anti-fraud science account. Similarly, if there is a concern about getting into legal trouble, it would be beneficial to follow Mr. Luo Xiang. Finally, if there is a concern about food safety issues, it would be beneficial to just follow the science about food safety. In this way, authentic and reliable information can be obtained, which will help to avoid a lot of unnecessary worries.

It is similarly advisable to devote greater attention to the acquisition of knowledge regarding personal safety precautions. For instance, it is prudent to erase personal information when disposing of express deliveries and to utilise distinct passwords for each online account. A wealth of information on this subject is available online, and it is therefore recommended to conduct research and to prioritise the acquisition of information that is beneficial to the individual.

Based on the original poster's description, I am filled with a sense of fear and terror. This is a challenging experience for me, and I also feel a sense of worry.

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The historical record demonstrates a consistent pattern of violence, crime, and misfortune. The questioner indicated that they have recently been experiencing a high frequency of unsafe incidents.

Has there been a recent occurrence that could be perceived as an incident of insecurity? At what point did you begin to observe such incidents?

It is first necessary to eliminate the possibility that the subject has experienced an unsafe event in their immediate surroundings. If this is not the case, it can be assumed that the world has always been this way, with its dichotomous nature and history of conflict and resolution.

The current state of affairs does not elicit fear and terror; rather, it is the changes that may have taken place in my inner world that evoke these emotions.

Naturally, if the individual in question has indeed experienced an unsafe event, this would constitute a different matter entirely. This is a distinct topic.

I am currently unable to provide a response.

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From a psychological and psychoanalytical perspective, this fear and panic can be explained with a reasonable degree of plausibility. However, the original poster has not provided any specific information, so the following is all theory, albeit theory that is grounded in a reasonable understanding of the subject matter.

I once read about a case in which a son took in his elderly father to live with him. However, the son was preoccupied with the fear that his father would die, and thus he forced himself to take actions to prevent this from occurring. In reality, there was no imminent threat of the father's demise.

Rather, the son himself harbors a wish for his father's demise, which is an unbearable sentiment, prompting him to desperately suppress it.

From a psychoanalytical perspective, it can be argued that we all possess an inherent propensity for aggression. This aggression can be conceptualised as a kind of physiological inner substrate. When harnessed effectively, it can manifest as creativity; conversely, when misdirected, it can result in destructive behaviour.

This bears resemblance to the nature of weapons, particularly in relation to firearms.

The concept of object relations posits the existence of two fundamental aspects of the human personality: the "I" and the "other." In the event of abuse, whether inflicted by an individual or a third party, the urge to retaliate emerges as a means of safeguarding one's well-being. This form of aggression, which may manifest as hatred and behaviors that engender feelings of insecurity, represents a crucial aspect of the human experience.

When an individual is driven by a desire to protect themselves while simultaneously experiencing a conflict between that desire and the impulse to harm those they love, a significant internal conflict emerges. How might this conflict be resolved?

An alternative perspective is the function of projection in psychoanalysis, whereby individuals project aspects of themselves that they find difficult to accept onto the external world. It is not the case that they wish to make others feel insecure; rather, they perceive the external world as being insecure.

In such instances, individuals may engage in the exploration of potentially unsafe events, thereby releasing their accumulated aggression. From this perspective, they may experience a sense of internal relaxation during such moments.

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It is pertinent to inquire as to why individuals perceive harm from others. Given that the negative aspects have been externalized, it is curious why the affected parties still experience distress.

This is a distinct topic, and for the time being, we shall conclude our discussion and direct our attention to the subsequent episode.

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After reviewing your description, I have a better understanding of the question you wish to ask. In light of this, I will provide you with a solution.

From the issues you outlined in your description, it is evident that you are currently experiencing anxiety regarding your personal safety. This is likely due to the perception that the current environment is unsafe, leading to a fear of being victimized. Consequently, you may feel concerned and fearful about your surroundings, unsure of what the future holds. This can also extend to unpredictable situations, as there is an underlying worry that the things you fear might actually occur.

Indeed, the issue you raised can be addressed using psychological theories. The initial stage of psychologist Erik Erikson's eight-stage theory is the psychological conflict between basic trust and distrust. This is the decision to either trust or doubt the people and world around you. In essence, it is about feeling safe about yourself and the people and things around you.

In this regard, I have also summarized some methods to help alleviate the current situation, and I hope they prove useful to you.

(1) Despite the occurrence of adverse events on a daily basis, the overall safety of society is superior to that of many other locations. Therefore, it is advisable to remain calm and avoid excessive anxiety, as this may exacerbate the current situation.

(2) It is advisable to relax and proceed at a measured pace, avoiding undue pressure. This will help to avoid negative feelings in the moment and ensure a more productive approach.

(3) It is advisable to learn more ways to protect yourself, so that you can better protect yourself when you are in danger.

(4) It is advisable to engage in activities that are of interest to you, rather than exposing yourself to unsafe situations for an extended period. It is important to have trust in the fact that there are still a significant number of good people in the world.

(5) It is advisable to avoid places with few people and late-night establishments as much as possible. Additionally, it would be prudent to learn more self-rescue techniques, as it is uncertain which will be more beneficial: learning these techniques now, or waiting for an incident to occur.

I would like to take this opportunity to extend my personal regards to you and the world at large.

Please accept my best wishes for your success.

Good morning, my name is Gu Yi. I am a consistent and calm individual.

Your attention to detail has led to an increased awareness of potential risks.

Dear Questioner, Thank you for your inquiry. If you examine the world through the lens you have provided, you will find that these phenomena are indeed present and occur with regularity. However, if we simply consider this perspective, the world may appear less beautiful, which is understandable given your current outlook. It is important to note that you have consistently demonstrated resilience and success over the course of many years.

When we use our phones to browse various web pages, posts, and short videos, big data remembers our preferences and pushes these to us. This increases the probability of us brushing up on these events. Because the data of each account is different, the push we receive is different, and the evil and pessimism we see has already been magnified.

It is important to acknowledge that there are instances of malice and unhappiness in the world, and that we cannot predict who we will encounter next. However, it is crucial to understand that we are all ordinary individuals. Our responsibility is to live our lives to the fullest with dedication and commitment. We are neither the one in ten thousand who is fortunate nor, with a certain probability, the one in ten thousand who is unfortunate.

Use your own energy to attract positive outcomes.

It is accurate to conclude that the true and false evil deeds you observe have an impact on you. It is important to understand that these are other people's experiences and lives, and there are valuable lessons to be learned from them. This is the underlying meaning of the story. However, it is also essential to recognize that we cannot punish ourselves with other people's stories. Your excessive worry is a form of distress to yourself.

❀Awareness of the world's many things leads to the understanding that life needs to be cherished and that we need to live our lives well. We can conclude a story about someone else after listening to it. It is beneficial to reflect on it because it demonstrates our capacity for critical thinking. However, it is not advantageous to allow the message conveyed by the event to influence us excessively, as it will not contribute to our personal growth.

In this world, your actions will be rewarded or punished accordingly. This is called creating good karma. It is important not to blame yourself for the actions of others. Life is inherently risky, so it is essential to appreciate it fully. Therefore, it is vital to have positive expectations and believe that good can only be achieved through good.

Best regards,

Good day, dear questioner!

My name is Yi Ming, and I'm a heart detective coach.

I have taken the time to carefully read your question, and I believe this may also be a problem that many people are facing.

I would be delighted to discuss this further with you for your reference.

1. Regarding the information cocoon:

It is not difficult to find information about security incidents online.

It is not difficult to find security incidents online.

It would seem that security incidents do indeed occur.

I believe that the beating incident in Tangshan some time ago attracted so much attention from people because it resonated with their fundamental concerns about safety.

However, when we continue to view this type of information, our phones may automatically suggest it to us or we may unintentionally open it and browse through it.

This may potentially lead to some degree of distress.

This brings us to the concept of the information cocoon.

An information cocoon can be described as a phenomenon in which people's areas of interest are habitually guided by their own interests, which could potentially result in a kind of self-imposed isolation.

If we are not careful and make autonomous choices over the long term, there is a possibility that we may unknowingly create an information cocoon for ourselves.

As a result, we may inadvertently overlook certain aspects of life, such as courageous actions, acts of kindness, social stability, the rule of law, and heartwarming events.

This is somewhat akin to the notion of two sides of a coin.

It is important to remember that good and bad things have always existed. If we focus on the negative, we may inadvertently overlook the positive.

It is also possible that the impact of negative events may have been overstated.

2. It might be helpful to remember that safety and a sense of security are two different things.

I'm not sure how old you are.

Have you ever had the misfortune of experiencing an extremely unsafe event in your life?

Could it perhaps have caused you some trauma and impact?

It could be said that an adult's sense of security is not necessarily based on objective facts.

It is our perception and judgment of the facts that play a role here.

For instance, during our upbringing, our parents frequently underscored the importance of safety and provided numerous examples of unsafe situations. As a result, we may frequently perceive the information or feedback from our surroundings as negative.

It would be beneficial to consider that many people focus on instances of violence and cheating, while overlooking the fact that many people have ultimately protected themselves in such encounters and that perpetrators have been punished appropriately.

Feelings of security may be broadly defined as follows:

I believe that physical safety, financial safety, and emotional safety are all important aspects of our sense of security.

Perhaps it would be helpful to take a moment to reflect on what our sense of security is mainly focused on. For instance, it might be worthwhile to consider whether we feel that our physical safety is not guaranteed.

In addition to the information you may have read online, it would be interesting to know how often people around you encounter these things.

In the event of such an encounter, how might one go about protecting oneself?

It would seem that some information sources prey on people's insecurities or sell anxiety in order to attract traffic.

Perhaps we could consider ways to rebuild our sense of security by adjusting our perceptions and practices.

3. It may be helpful to consider letting go of complete control, trusting yourself, and strengthening your inner strength.

It would be fair to say that absolute safety is not something that can be guaranteed.

It would be unrealistic to expect anyone to guarantee our absolute safety.

I believe that it is only when we have inner strength that we can truly believe that we will be helped no matter what happens, and that we can all work together to create a safer environment for ourselves and others.

For instance, if we have never considered causing harm to others, it is likely that most people are of a similar disposition.

Perhaps we can trust others with principles.

It would be fair to say that only a very small minority of people are completely insane.

And we can all play a part in helping such people.

For instance, there are public security organs, many kind individuals, our own families, and friends who are willing to offer assistance.

In the meantime, we can offer assistance when we are able to do so.

For instance, in yesterday's news, we heard about a man who caught a girl who fell from a building with his bare hands. It's heartwarming to know that such acts of kindness happen every day.

We can also observe everyday people helping others in difficult situations, as well as numerous kind individuals assisting in the search for missing children.

Perhaps we could consider ways to enhance our interactions with others and establish better interpersonal relationships, which might help us to feel less threatened or in danger.

If I might make a suggestion, perhaps we should proceed at a gentle pace.

If I might make one more suggestion, it would be to try to enhance our interactions with others and establish better interpersonal relationships. This will help us to feel less threatened or in danger so easily. Thank you for your attention.

I hope this message finds you well. Please accept my best regards.