Feeling disappointed with achievements, how can one realistically accept one's mistakes?

Greetings! I extend a warm embrace from afar as a gesture of support and encouragement.

I am gratified to observe that you have sought assistance, and it is my hope that the information I am providing will prove beneficial to you. Based on your account, it is evident that you are experiencing feelings of insecurity, inferiority, and self-disapproval.

It is evident that this aspect of one's inner self is not subject to conscious awareness.

An individual's relationship with the world and with others is a reflection of their relationship with themselves. Consequently, when an individual possesses an inward sense of inferiority, a lack of self-confidence, and an inability to accept and acknowledge this lack of confidence, it will manifest in their actions and interactions with others. This manifests as a belief that one is unable to perform well and assume responsibility, and a tendency to seek external validation and approval from others. This, in turn, makes the individual particularly sensitive to the attitudes and evaluations of others, as they rely on these external sources to define their sense of self.

It is important to identify the underlying needs that contribute to feelings of anxiety and fear of change. For instance, the desire to be accepted, affirmed, encouraged, and recognized, and the fear of being rejected, disliked, criticized, and blamed.

When one is able to discern the underlying motives behind these inappropriate behaviors and manners, one may become more accepting and understanding of the emotional state being displayed. This allows for the possibility of responding and satisfying the emotional needs in an appropriate manner.

For example, it is important to discard the expectation of a perfect self-image and to adopt a realistic view of one's capabilities. It is also crucial to learn to accept oneself, to cultivate self-confidence, and to enhance one's sense of self-worth in order to increase self-confidence. Furthermore, it is essential not to define and evaluate oneself based on the results of one's actions, as the fact that one did not perform well on a particular task does not necessarily imply that one is a bad person. Rather, it suggests that one was not adequately prepared for the task at hand. Additionally, it is important to recognize that the task may not have been one that one truly loved or was particularly adept at, and that it may not have been a choice or decision that one made of one's own volition.

The pursuit of growth is of greater consequence than the attainment of success. When an action is undertaken solely for the sake of love and willingness, without any ulterior motive, the outcome is likely to be more readily accepted.

I am Lily, the youngest member of the Q&A Museum. I extend my love and appreciation to the world, and I hope that my presence here will bring joy to you all.