He said that as long as I think of him and send him a message, he will reply, but he hasn't replied.

Good day, my name is Strawberry.

From your repeated expressions of sadness and the frequency of your separations and reconciliations, it appears that the gentleman in question may lack an understanding of his own emotions or may be employing psychological tactics to instill a sense of insecurity in you.

The questioner indicated that they were engaged in an online relationship with the individual in question. After five days of online dating, the relationship ended. During that period, how was communication conducted? Was it solely via text?

Please clarify whether voice and video communication was also involved. If so, it is possible that your initial impression of each other was influenced by fantasies, and that you formed a positive impression based on these fantasies.

One month after the dissolution of the relationship, the questioner initiated contact with the respondent to discuss the possibility of reconciliation. During the subsequent month, the questioner did not provide any further insight into the emotional state of the respondent, which leads me to conclude that the respondent was not particularly distressed at the time. Subsequently, the respondent and questioner reunited, and after a period of two days, the respondent initiated another separation. In each instance of separation, the initiator of the separation was not identified. However, based on the observed behavior, it can be concluded that the compatibility between the two individuals was not optimal. This is evidenced by the fact that the behavior exhibited does not align with that of a genuine romantic partner.

He stated that if I wished to contact him, I could send a message, but he did not respond.

1. Embrace the reality with an open mind.

The other party's actions suggest they view you as a mere source of entertainment. It is unclear what their true character is, but their behavior indicates a lack of understanding of the responsibilities inherent in a relationship. Your relationship seems to be more akin to a casual arrangement, characterized by frequent separations and reconciliations, which is not a mature approach.

You were visibly distressed after he deleted you because you had invested a great deal of emotional capital in this relationship. The other person had provided you with hope and promises, but also let you down. It is not sufficient to merely profess love; it must be demonstrated. What the questioner needs to understand is that, in reality, he has not given you anything. Try to feel it in your heart. In this relationship, in fact, you have not had much interaction, and what there was was only contact for a few days.

2. Define your objectives.

Online dating is not an unreliable method of meeting potential partners. There are instances where individuals have met their true love through this medium, although such examples remain uncommon. However, due to the virtual nature of the internet, it is not possible to ascertain the physical appearance of the person on the other end of the connection or to confirm their sincerity in pursuing a friendship.

In the current digital age, many individuals with malicious intent are aware that many people seek to establish friendships through social media platforms. Consequently, they utilize these platforms to gain trust by demonstrating concern and empathy, ultimately gaining the trust of their targets. Therefore, regardless of whether it's online dating or real-life dating, it's crucial to invest more time in getting to know someone's character.

Through this online relationship, can the questioner ascertain his preferences? Why is the questioner still amenable to being with the other person after so many separations and reunions?

There are a number of reasons why we may be inclined to pursue romantic relationships. However, based on my personal experience, I advise the original poster to exercise caution before accepting a relationship. Not all relationships are conducive to personal growth. In some cases, they can even lead to a loss of confidence and self-doubt.

3. Terminate the loss in a timely manner.

From the description, it is evident that the other person is not an appropriate match for the questioner. The limited time spent together has led to expectations that may not be realistic. Unfortunately, these expectations have not been met, resulting in disappointment.

His behavior also indicates that he is an indecisive individual who is unable to maintain a healthy relationship. Therefore, it is advisable to address the situation promptly and effectively. It is essential to allow yourself the necessary time to process the situation and grieve the loss. It is also important to recognize that the other person is just a transient figure in your life, and their actions are teaching you valuable lessons about how to navigate future relationships more effectively.

I hope this information is useful to you. Best regards,