He seems to have a ambiguous partner, I'm not comfortable confessing, what should I do?

My dear, I can fully empathize with your complicated feelings right now. It's totally normal to have such a rollercoaster of emotions! The deep love you have for him is accompanied by unspeakable unease and doubts, which really breaks one's heart. Your feelings for him are so sincere and deep that every slight change will touch your heartstrings and leave you unable to calm down.

I can see you're wondering if he really is having an affair with his colleague. I know this doubt is hopping around in the back of your mind, making you unable to stop checking his Moments for an answer.

I totally get it. I can imagine how scary it must be to think that your feelings might be wasted, especially when they're so strong. I can relate to the anxiety and unease you're feeling because I can see how much you care about and love him.

You bring up the distance between you, which can make things tricky in any relationship. Long-distance can bring up all kinds of unknowns and variables. You're excited to see him again and to get to know him better before getting emotionally involved.

This hope fills you with hope for the future, but at the same time it makes you more sensitive and vulnerable. I can see how you might be afraid that your expectations will be dashed and your feelings hurt.

You brought up your own conflict and struggle. You want to ask him about the ambiguity, but you don't feel qualified or courageous enough to face the possible answer.

You're questioning yourself, the relationship, and even his feelings for you. I can feel this struggle and pain, because they're etched in your heart and can't be erased.

At the same time, you also mentioned how your own anxiety and doubts are affecting your studies and life. It's totally understandable! You're having trouble concentrating and finding it hard to stop thinking about it all.

This emotion has really taken over your whole body, and you're struggling to find a way out. You're trying to find answers by looking at his friends' social media, but you know it's not going to help because you can't control what he's thinking or doing.

My dear, I know you are feeling a lot right now. It's okay to feel confused and complex. Your likes, expectations, doubts, and anxieties are all intertwined, and it's natural to feel this way.

But I want to tell you that no matter what the outcome, you must believe in your own value and strength. You are a kind, sensitive, and courageous girl who deserves to be loved and cherished, and I know you will be!

Every feeling you have is real and deserves to be respected and understood. There's no need to try to suppress them – just learn to accept and understand them.

Your feelings are your inner voice, and they're there to tell you what you truly need and what you're thinking.

At the same time, I really hope you can give yourself some time and space to deal with these complex emotions. There's absolutely no need to rush to find answers or make decisions.

Take a deep breath and relax, my dear. There are so many ways to feel happy and relaxed! Why not try painting, tasting good food, chatting with friends, or something else that you enjoy?

I know it can be tough, but these things can really help you to distract yourself and make you feel more relaxed and happy.

I really hope you can be brave and face your own feelings and needs. It's so important to express your feelings and thoughts, even if they make you feel a bit uncomfortable.

Because only through being yourself and sharing your thoughts and feelings can you truly understand what you and others need.

And remember, no matter what happens, you've got to believe in yourself and your abilities. You're an amazing girl with so much potential and so many possibilities!

No matter what the future holds, remember that you can face and overcome any challenge with courage. Your future is full of hope and beauty, so believe in yourself and keep moving forward!

I just want you to know that you're not alone in your feelings. Lots of people experience similar struggles and doubts in love, and you're not alone either!

You're not facing these challenges alone, my dear. We're all right here with you, ready to listen to your feelings and walk this journey with you.

Love is a wonderful thing, isn't it? It makes us feel so alive and full of warmth. But it can also be a bit confusing and painful sometimes.

But these experiences are all part of our growth process, and they'll help us understand ourselves better and value the people and things that really matter to us.

So, my dear, don't be afraid to feel and experience. Every feeling you have is precious, and they will bring you closer to your true self. You've got this!

No matter what the future holds, believe in yourself and face every challenge in life with courage, my dear friend.

In the process, you may shed tears and feel heartache, but these are all part of your life's journey. They will make you stronger and more mature, and I know you'll get through it!

You're not facing these challenges alone, my dear. We're all right here with you, cheering you on!

I hope you learn to love yourself more and cherish those who are truly good to you during this experience. And I really hope your future is full of sunshine and hope, and that your path to love becomes wider and wider!

No matter what, always believe that you deserve the best love and life! Your feelings, your struggles, and your pain are all real and deserve to be understood and respected.

In this complex world, every emotion you feel has its meaning and value. So, please don't rush to get rid of them. Take your time to accept and understand them. Let them become the driving force and source of your growth.

I truly believe you have the strength and wisdom to face all this and find your own answers and happiness. Please know that I'll always be here for you, ready to support and encourage you whenever you need me.

Because in my eyes, you are such a brave, strong, and kind girl! You deserve the absolute best in the world!

Hello. I can tell from what you've said that you're feeling a bit confused and troubled about this current situation. First of all, I want to give you a hug and hope that my answer will be helpful to you.

I've been thinking about this, and I don't think he'll pay any attention to me if I bring it up with him. I found a clue last week, so I confronted him, but maybe I asked the wrong questions. Apart from school and work, he never replies to me because he has dozens of classmates who talk to him and consult with him every day. He thinks that my other random stuff is not as important as theirs. So he just replies to other people first and then forgets about me.

I'm not sure what to do. I can't seem to control my thoughts, but I don't think it's appropriate for me to bring this up with him. I thought I should meet him first before considering it because online photos are often edited, and I don't know if he's edited his photos.

What should I do? I'm really struggling to control my emotions. I'm thinking all sorts of things and I really want to blow the whistle on this thing. You mentioned twice here that you don't know what to do and can't control yourself. It can also be seen that you are currently in a very complicated and entangled state, and it can also be felt that you seem to be a little insecure. Is it possible that you don't clearly feel the other person's feelings for you as just a teacher-student relationship or something else?

I get it. This is a tough situation to navigate. Many people have been in similar spots.

Take care! Try to give yourself some time and space to feel these emotions, rather than rushing to find answers or solutions.

In a situation like this, the best thing to do is stay calm and think clearly. Try not to let your emotions affect your daily life or studies. We can talk about the relationship between the teacher and his colleagues, as well as your expectations and concerns about it. Hopefully, this will be helpful.

Since we picked this teacher because of his great teaching and reasonable price, we should focus more on our studies. After all, our initial goal was to prepare for the entrance exam, not to develop a relationship.

It's important to set clear boundaries in a teacher-student relationship, especially when personal feelings are involved. We can continue to ask him for help with our studies, but we should try to avoid getting too involved in his personal life or expressing emotions that go beyond the student-teacher relationship.

We can also think about whether your feelings for the teacher are real or if they're based on feeling dependent on him or lonely. Sometimes people get close to someone who's helped them, but that doesn't always mean it's romantic love.

If you're struggling to control your feelings for him, it might help to take a step back and give yourself some space to adjust. Also, try not to check his social media too often, as this might make you feel more entangled.

Try to use this time to focus on self-growth, whether it's learning, working out, or trying out new hobbies, so that you can become more independent and confident.

If this starts to affect your daily life, you can ask friends or family for support, share your feelings with them, or think about seeing a professional counsellor.

There are always uncertainties in life, including in our relationships with others. We must learn to accept this and try not to let it affect our emotions.

If you want to, you can talk to your teacher about how you're feeling, but be ready for any outcome, including the possibility that they might not respond.

It's important to take care of ourselves emotionally and physically, and not let outside influences affect our inner peace. At the same time, we have to accept that everyone has their own life and choices, and even if the results aren't what we want, we have to learn to respect them and move on.

I hope you can find a good balance soon and focus on what matters most to you.

I hope this helps. Have a great day!

Hello, classmate. I can see the confusion you are facing right now. I'm here to help.

I have something to say, and I think you should hear it.

You're preparing for the postgraduate entrance exam.

You need to put more energy and time into preparing for the entrance exam!

Your teacher doesn't like you, and it's one-sided.

Otherwise, you will fail the exam and lose out in love.

The mentor is likely to be older than you.

When you first see him, you will undoubtedly feel that he is the ideal father image for you.

You will feel a sense of respect and admiration for him when you meet him.

You then misinterpret your feelings of respect and admiration for him as love.

I want to know if there's any possibility of what I said.

In psychology, there is a term for this: it is called "empathy."

Seek help from a professional counselor if necessary. Let him help you deal with your "transference" part.

You will find an effective solution to the problem you are facing as soon as possible.

That's all I have to say on the matter.

I am confident that my above answer is helpful and inspiring to you, the questioner. As the answerer, I can assure you that I study hard every day.

Here at Yixinli, the world and I love you. Best wishes!

I am confident that this will help you.