Hello! I really hope my answer can help you.
It seems like you're a great kid! I'm so happy you were able to participate in the competition. But I know you're often plagued by pre-competition anxiety, and I'm here to help you with that.
Let me give you a big, warm hug first!
I have some suggestions for you that I hope will help.
First, you demand perfection from yourself. The fact that you can participate in the competition shows that you are also very good, which is great!
You're so focused on success and failure, and you're just so eager to succeed!
It's totally normal to be afraid of failure. We all are! But when you're too afraid of failure, it can make you nervous and lack confidence.
Secondly, you want to show everyone what you're made of through some amazing results.
Third, you are so wrapped up in your own world that it's hard for you to see things objectively and participate fully in society.
Fourth, you care too much about what other people think and want to be recognized by others, which is totally normal!
I really hope you can pay attention to the following points in the future!
First, accept yourself and be tolerant. We're all imperfect, and we can all learn from our mistakes.
Second, I'd really love it if you could read more celebrity biographies or just observe the outstanding people around you. It'd be so great for you to see what they do when faced with pressure and suffering.
Third, don't be afraid to face competition and pressure with an optimistic attitude. Believe in yourself, and participate in any activity that helps you gain knowledge. Even just participating is a kind of gain!
I also firmly believe that as long as I keep working hard, I will definitely succeed!
I really hope my answer can help you!
Wishing you all the best! The world is so beautiful, and I love you too!


Comments
I can totally relate to feeling anxious about making mistakes on stage. It's a tough cycle to break, but focusing on preparation and positive thoughts has really helped me gain confidence over time.
It sounds like you're caught in a difficult pattern. Maybe shifting your focus from avoiding mistakes to enjoying the process could help ease the pressure and reduce nervousness during performances.
I used to feel the same way. What worked for me was practicing mindfulness and breathing exercises right before going on stage. It helps to center myself and calm my nerves, so I can perform better.
I know how overwhelming that anxiety can be. Have you tried setting smaller, achievable goals for each performance? It might help to build up your confidence gradually and take some of the edge off.
Feeling nervous is natural, but it's great that you're aware of this cycle. Perhaps working with a coach or mentor could provide you with strategies to manage your anxiety and improve your performance under pressure.