How do you deal with the problem of "learning this is useless"?

Insightful and soulful, sharing becomes a wonderful habit! I am a soliloquist, and I love it!

In fact, there are two little people living in each of our minds! One is a little person of positive energy, and the other is a little person of negative energy. When we make every choice, these two little people will unconsciously disturb and sway our thoughts.

This is like our body's immune system, and it's pretty amazing! When you have a strong immune system, you can fight off a cold and keep yourself healthy and free from infection. But if your immune system is weak, you're more likely to catch a cold.

The great thing about hobbies is that it's easier to see whether someone can cultivate one and learn something with dedication. Unlike the immune system, hobbies are clearly visible in your mind, so it's easier to see whether you can learn, how to learn, and to what extent. The possibilities are endless!

I'd love to know what criteria you use to judge whether something is useful or not!

The questioner talks about the usefulness and uselessness of hobbies, but I think this question itself is a false proposition. How do you judge whether a hobby is useful or not?

What criteria should be used to judge? What perspective should be adopted to determine whether learning something is definitely useful or definitely useless?

It's tough to get a definitive answer. When you look at it from a relative standpoint, though, all hobbies are multifaceted, and there's no such thing as a useless one! Take learning Japanese, for instance. If you just look at it as a hobby because you love Japanese anime, you want to speak Japanese. Your love of Japanese anime is what makes you want to learn Japanese. If you don't like Japanese anime, then perhaps this interest in learning Japanese wouldn't exist — but if you do, it's a whole different story!

In terms of its value to you, if you like Japanese anime and learn Japanese, you can watch the original version of Japanese anime without any worries!

The original idea of wanting to learn Japanese was a particularly meaningful thing from the perspective of one's hobbies, and I think that's great! I'm not sure why the questioner wants to delve into the issue of taking a proficiency test, but I'm excited to see what you discover! It's simply because you want to learn Japanese, and in the end, you will be able to understand what Japanese means. It seems that you are delving into this because you want to consider turning learning Japanese into your way of making a living, which is a fantastic idea!

If you love it, you'll have no doubts about it! You want to learn Japanese because you love it. And you'll be able to learn it well and use it to earn a living or find a job in the future.

These are two different concepts, so don't confuse them!

Thinking and doing are two ultimate propositions, and when you put them together, you can achieve amazing things!

The questioner's question reminds me of the distant relative looking for a job. The young girl really likes the job of cashier in a shopping mall and came to me for help. I said, "There's absolutely nothing wrong with liking to work as a cashier! You just have to be able to take risks."

When she heard me say this, she asked, "What are the risks of doing this job?" I said that when you first start this career, you may receive counterfeit money because you lack experience.

She said, "This is normal. This is all part of the path that will make me stronger." I said, "You will be held responsible if you receive counterfeit money."

She said, "Do you want me to compensate for the losses?" I said, "Absolutely!"

After hearing what I had to say, she paused, and never mentioned being a cashier again after that. What is this?

This is typical: it sounds great when you think about it, but when you hear it, it all falls apart. But that's OK! You don't even have the courage to go do it. You can say that you have thought about the job's pros and cons a thousand times in your mind, but because of one con, you have rejected it as a whole. But that's OK too!

If you don't try it yourself, how will you ever know you can do it? And how can you be so sure you'll get counterfeit money?

After all, this kind of behavior, where you say you like something but when you find out the truth, you are afraid to do it, is all hypothetical. But it's just a good idea! And it can easily be overcome by various difficulties.

If the questioner really wants to find a hobby and learn something new, then just calm down and think about what you really want to learn! Are you learning because you love it?

Or are there still many personal considerations? Learning because you like it and learning with a personal factor are two completely different concepts—and both are great!

Hobbies are a big deal! They're not something to be taken lightly. They're two different things.

And now for the final word!

Thoughts are chaotic, and hobbies are defeated by "uselessness." But don't let that get you down! It's better to say that you have not truly liked something, or that even if you like it, you do not really like it as much as you say. That's okay! It just means that you haven't found the right hobby yet. And when you do, you'll be willing to do whatever it takes to make it your hobby.

If you really learn because you like it, I absolutely believe that nothing can hold you back!

Useless sounds can be understood as a subconscious reaction to the constant information and indoctrination from the environment.

We are incessantly inundated with data from our immediate environment, including books, advertisements, posters, and language, speeches, education, and discussions. Consequently, a multitude of subconscious thoughts are frequently shaped by the information we encounter.

However, this notion may not be entirely accurate.

Such a notion may not align with the conventional wisdom.

It is thus imperative to evaluate the veracity of this concept from the vantage point of social common sense and to ascertain its suitability for oneself from one's own perspective.

From an individual perspective,

Despite the fact that humans share certain characteristics with animals, individual experiences can vary significantly.

As long as one is truly at ease, an unproductive afternoon can be quite beneficial. Similarly, learning a language is advantageous when the process of learning and using it is enjoyable.

From a social perspective,

The question of whether something is useful can be answered by determining whether it directly provides value. In the most utilitarian sense, this value is economic; however, in a more comprehensive sense, value can be understood as the ability of a skill or thing to satisfy a need in society or in others, thereby creating a state of interaction that results from this skill or thing.

From the perspective of personal growth, there are numerous perspectives on the utility of any given object, concept, or action.

However, life is replete with uncertainty. Without a clear understanding of the route and priorities, it is unwise to make a definitive assessment of the usefulness of any given course of action. Is it better to proceed with caution or to embrace the unknown?

The essential tenet is to embrace a positive outlook on life and to treat oneself with respect.

Dear Question Asker,

It is challenging to provide comprehensive guidance on how to begin learning Japanese in a concise response of less than 200 words. Nevertheless, it is my hope that this response will facilitate further discussion and exploration of potential avenues for assistance when faced with difficulties in this regard.

It is challenging to provide comprehensive guidance on how to begin learning Japanese in a concise description of less than 200 words. Nevertheless, I endeavor to engage in a discussion with you in my answer and facilitate your exploration of additional avenues when you encounter difficulties in this regard.

[All individuals possess the right to experiment with activities that align with their personal interests]

In response to the question posed in the text, I would like to share the experiences of three college students who have expressed similar sentiments. These individuals have indicated that their motivation for learning Japanese is rooted in their interest in Japanese anime.

One individual expressed a preference for Japanese anime and dramas. Consequently, she initially taught herself Japanese and subsequently enrolled in an institution to pursue further studies. To ensure immediate access to the latest episodes, she joined a renowned subtitle group and dedicated innumerable nights to translation. Ultimately, she pursued graduate studies at a Japanese university. Another individual aspired to engage in gaming during college but was unable to await the release of Japanese games in China. Consequently, she initiated self-study in Japanese. Following her employment, she was reassigned to Japan on a long-term basis due to her proficiency in Japanese.

Another individual transitioned from enjoying Japanese anime to following Japanese baseball games. He pursued Japanese studies at an educational institution and successfully completed the second-level examination. Despite his post-graduation career not directly involving the Japanese language, he made numerous acquaintances due to his studies. If one is interested in an activity, it is advisable to pursue it. Young people are not deterred by the prospect of making mistakes. It is more unfortunate to have failed to act than to have acted in a way that ultimately proved unsuccessful.

[A person's value does not lie in whether or not they are useful]

When one repeatedly asserts that learning a particular subject is futile and instead desires to pursue a hobby that is personally beneficial, an internalized voice emerges that deems such endeavors unworthy of investment in terms of time, effort, and resources. This phenomenon can be attributed to the fact that one's own self-worth is often evaluated based on external standards.

In other words, if one does not possess a "good" job that offers a high salary, or if one is unable to provide economic value to others, then one is perceived as "useless," worthless, and unloved. However, the value of a person does not solely depend on their ability to be "useful." One's mere existence is meaningful and valuable in itself.

Prior to embarking on a new endeavor, it is imperative to ensure one's personal well-being is adequately addressed.

[It is imperative to prioritize self-care before embarking on a new endeavor.]

"Moreover, you have indicated that you are bipolar. Have you been taking the prescribed medication? Have your symptoms improved and stabilized, or have they changed recently?

"Once I'm idle, I have all kinds of thoughts and voices running through my head." This suggests the possibility of a need for further evaluation and diagnosis, or the receipt of professional psychological counseling. Prioritizing self-care and mental health before pursuing hobbies is a recommended course of action.

Hobbies cannot be "defeated" and can be "activated" at any time should one wish to do so.

Ultimately, it is my hope that the original poster will engage in activities that align with his interests and derive enjoyment from them.

Good day, To whom it may concern,

If your hobby does not generate economic value and you wish to pursue a personal interest, it is important to challenge the notion that your hobby is "useless." It is essential to adopt a more expansive mindset.

1. In fact, the reality of life is full of uncertainty and randomness. What is useful today may become useless tomorrow, and what is useless today can also become useful tomorrow. There is no guarantee of what changes will definitely happen tomorrow. In that case, why not just do what you want to do? The most important part of life is to experience the enjoyable process. The result is not in our control.

2. Hobbies can nourish us, and even those considered "useless" are indispensable. For example, the old Beijing people like to play with katydids, crickets, spiders, and all kinds of insects. Their specialized knowledge of insects and their full commitment are really enviable. They have discovered more details of life and given life more love.

In his writings, Leung Man-tao observed that engaging in activities that are not immediately useful, such as reading, doing things that are not directly productive, or spending time on pursuits that do not have an obvious benefit, can be a means of preserving the opportunity to transcend one's current understanding and capabilities. These moments, he suggested, can contribute to significant personal and professional growth.

3. When a hobby is given economic value, it undergoes a transformation. It is evident that there are numerous instances where individuals have monetized their hobbies, such as through writing. While we can retain your original concepts, it is also important to recognize that there are other avenues for monetization. Many people's hobbies may not generate immediate economic value, but the enjoyment derived from them is a crucial aspect. By making our hobbies more engaging and aligning them with our goals, we can potentially attract opportunities that will also generate economic value.

I hope this has been an inspiring message.

Hello, my name is June, and I just wanted to say hello!

From what you've told me, I get the impression that you're someone who cares a lot about practical value. Well done for being so rational!

Recently, I've been thinking about learning Japanese because I love Japanese comics. I'd just like to be able to type and search for resources without getting too deep into it. But I've always wondered: is learning Japanese useful? Is it difficult to pass the exam?

Has learning helped me find a job? I came to the conclusion that learning Japanese couldn't bring me economic value, but I'm sure you'll have a different experience!

You want to learn Japanese from Japanese comics, but when you try to learn, a little voice inside you says, "What's the point of learning Japanese? You can't pass any exams, and you won't find a job if you learn it..."

I'm really curious: whose voice is this inside you?

Does this feeling remind you of when you were a child and your parents scolded you when you said you liked something? We all know how it goes. You were idle all day, always thinking about useless things, and not studying hard enough. What good did all this do you?

I'm sure you're going to be able to earn your own living when you grow up!

I'm guessing that because you were scolded, you've been a bit afraid to have hobbies or learn skills other than academic subjects, right? I'm wondering if you think it's procrastination and laziness that made you give up on learning, but I'm thinking it might actually be fear of being scolded or fear of failure that made you give up.

So, when you want to learn a new skill, can you say to yourself, "It might not be useful to learn this, but I like it. I may not be able to learn this well, but I like it, so I'll give it a try..."?

Hey there! I just wanted to say, don't stress about your goals. You do you, and if things don't work out, that's okay!

I wish you all the very best for a happy start to your new life!

Hello. I'm Goodbye Crush. You want to start a hobby but worry it won't work out.

We want to learn, but we have to make choices and feel lots of different things. Let's look at what's making you confused.

1. Problem analysis

Think about what your interest is about.

You like reading Japanese comics and want to learn Japanese, but you're not sure if it's useful, if the exams are hard, or if it'll help you find a job. You like reading Japanese comics, but you're not sure if learning Japanese is just because of that or because of work.

If you want to balance your interests and work, think about what's important to you and what your job needs.

Think about your starting point and what you want to get out of your hobby. It's often difficult to balance both, and your original intention will affect how you deal with conflicts.

What's useful?

What we call useful and useless will differ from person to person. We can easily judge if something is useful if we can quantify it. It is harder to judge if something is useful if we cannot quantify it.

If hobbies help with your job, what else is useful? Is it learning new skills, reading Japanese comics, or something else?

From an employment perspective, personal growth and physical and mental health are more important than material gain.

2. How to break the deadlock

Prioritize.

Prioritize your hobbies based on your future plans. If your main concern is employment, choose hobbies that will help you get a job.

Consider your time and energy.

If you have the time and energy, you can learn even hobbies you think are useless. What's useful today might not be useful tomorrow. You can't have too many skills.

I hope this helps.

Hello, question asker. From your description, it's clear you know what you like.

But you must not allow the voice inside to doubt your choice when you want to follow your heart and do what you love.

Let's find out why. There's a good chance that our current view of hobbies as useless and our reluctance to pursue them stems from how our family treated our hobbies when we were young. They rejected them, just as they do now.

Let's recall a time when we were young and wanted to do something. Were we ever stopped by our family members who told us that what we liked was "useless," that it was important to study hard and get a good job?

If there is, then we will know that the voice inside is actually a replay of the "voice of the family in the past." The first thing we need to do is understand that "my life is my own, so I am the master of my own life."

What should I do?

You said, "Recently, because I love reading Japanese comics, I have the idea of learning Japanese." Set a time period for yourself to try to do what you want to do, whether it's 30 minutes, 15 minutes, or even 5 minutes. Then, go do it. Pay more attention to your feelings. If you are happy, satisfied, and feel a sense of accomplishment, then slowly continue.

It is a hobby, so we can try to do it without overly utilitarian feelings. Instead, we should focus on how it can make our lives more exciting and interesting.

In other words, understand what you want to do, try it out in your spare time, and pay more attention to your own feelings. You will find that your hobby is really "useful" to you.

Hello, question asker!

I'm thrilled to answer your question about hobbies! It's clear you enjoy having a variety of hobbies. The question "hobbies-work-value-bipolar" has led me to some fascinating insights and suggestions.

[Keep hobbies and work separate]

Let's talk about your hobbies, like Japanese comics and the Japanese language. First, it's important to understand what a hobby is. The best part about hobbies is that you can choose them and enjoy them without any pressure or obligation to judge their value.

Work and careers, on the other hand, are all about giving! If you don't give, you won't have a job or career. So, it's important to recognize the value of work and careers.

It's all relative!

The value of learning Japanese or choosing other hobbies is relative, not absolute. It's all about finding what works for you! If you choose to learn Japanese, your initial intention is to facilitate direct searches for "Japanese comics." Its value is to help you better experience the joy of your hobby of "Japanese comics," and that's enough!

There's absolutely no need to evaluate all your choices and actions according to absolute social value systems such as "passing exams, finding a job, creating value"!

[Highly value your old bipolar]

I'm not sure if the old bipolar disorder you mentioned is a self-perception or a clear diagnosis. If it is a self-perception, you should definitely consult a psychologist for an initial diagnosis. If there is already a clear diagnosis, then you must first let go of your hobbies and job choices, and seek treatment for bipolar affective disorder from a psychotherapist. Once you've shown clear improvement, then you can consider your hobby choices!

I really hope this helps a little!

Hello, I'm Zeyu.

The questioner wants to know how to deal with the problem of "learning this is useless." We'll start by thinking about what you think is useful to learn.

"Recently, I've been interested in Japanese manga and I've been thinking about learning Japanese." Let's start with this thought. Is this something you want to do of your own free will? I know the poster would answer yes to this question. After all, it was a thought that came to him, not something forced upon him by an outside force. The original intention was to type in a search and find some resources, without thinking about going deeper.

If you want to do something and you have the time and energy to do it, you should go ahead and try it. You said you haven't thought about it in depth, and at the beginning, you really don't need to think too much about it. There are too many variables in the future, and you can't predict the future. You have to live in the present.

The author's thinking is clearly biased towards future prospects and practical feasibility, as well as real-world benefits. This is a good habit of thinking, but the author's question reflects that you have been discouraged by these problems and have lost confidence in yourself. You feel that you really can't achieve certain things no matter what you do.

I agree with the original poster. In the past, I was the same. I had too many concerns about things that interested me, thinking too much about future plans and various details. In the end, I concluded that I had failed and that the hobby was useless. But the reality is that right now, we just want to learn "Japanese." It's just an idea. It's just an idea for now. When we actually take action, it will just be a hobby. If we take it too seriously and do it in a rigid way, it will lose its appeal.

Our original intention was to facilitate typing to search for information, but now you want to burden it with too many things that don't belong. Do you think this is reasonable? At the moment, you just want to find a hobby, and hobbies have nothing to do with the future or gains and losses.

Don't overthink it. When your thoughts are running wild, just go ahead and do something! Start learning Japanese to the extent that you can. You'll know if you can do it or not by doing it.

We all hope that our hobbies can promote our careers, but in reality, they are just hobbies. That's okay. They can still give us a lot. We don't need to give them too much that doesn't belong to them.

Don't worry about the future! Focus on the present and test the belief that "learning this is useless" with action!

I am certain that you will find your passion and realize your dreams.

Hello!

Don't worry. Everyone's growth is inseparable from their own experiences. If you establish a basic sense of trust and security within yourself during the period of self-integration, you will have more confidence in your own judgment and be able to remain confident and calmly deal with problems when they arise.

When learning something, you always judge it as "useful" or "useless." You need to decide which it is.

I recently decided to learn Japanese because I like Japanese comics. I just want to find some resources online, but I'm not sure if it's worth it. Is it difficult to pass the exam? Is it useful to learn Japanese?

Has learning helped me find a job? I have concluded that learning Japanese does not bring me economic value.

It is commonly known that hobbies are the best teachers. However, in real life, this is difficult to accept. Most people are used to making judgments based on the cost ratio of "investment" and "effort." That is, the greater the reward after investing, the more "reliable" and "credible" the investment analysis will be. This ignores the ability to exercise necessary abilities when growing up, as well as the ability to exercise independence and autonomy when challenging goals. The more difficult it is for an individual to grow independently and mobilize their own initiative, the more difficult it is to cultivate healthy autonomy. Healthy autonomy should be cultivated within the space of independent exploration. The ability to discover oneself through the process of striving to overcome difficulties and setbacks, as well as the inner self-confidence that is enhanced in the process of problem solving, will also improve self-esteem. When one can trust oneself more, the ability

The cultivation of healthy autonomy must occur in the process of exploring the space of autonomy, trying to break through difficulties and setbacks, discovering one's abilities, and enhancing one's inner self-confidence in the process of problem solving. This will also improve self-esteem. When he trusts himself more, his ability to control the environment will also be improved.

The questioner likes Japanese, but subconsciously criticizes themselves and denies their own choices. They lack inner confidence because they are not sure of their abilities and believe that they can overcome difficulties by relying on their own abilities. This makes them shrink back or avoid challenges, which only strengthens their sense of dependence on their environment.

Break through yourself.

As you grow up and deal with a constantly changing environment, you must constantly reintegrate yourself. Give yourself a sense of trust. Gradually open up your limitations as you solve problems. Expand your perceptions and boundaries. This is how you grow and break through yourself.

1. Find your inner sense of worth. Everyone faces moments of hesitation when faced with a choice. At this time, negative thoughts will also intrude, producing a sense of self-doubt. The more we use negative thinking to view problems, the more difficult it is to break through them. We cannot identify with ourselves, but if we use a positive way of thinking to solve problems, the more information we have to control the problem and the more objective our ability to predict, the higher. Discovering the inner value of yourself will enhance your self-confidence and lead to growth.

2. Listen to your heart and allow negative emotions. Everyone feels internal pressure when breaking through problems. This is pressure from the environment. At this time, negative emotions will also increase, and you will feel very powerless and disappointed. You can overcome this by listening to yourself, learning to communicate with yourself patiently, reassuring yourself, and giving yourself love and encouragement. This will help you readjust, balance your emotions, and create the ability to resist and break through problems.

You've got this! Stay strong!