Those who prioritize self-interest may experience anxiety, depression, fatigue, and an inability to adapt to the social dynamics of academic or professional settings. Conversely, individuals who prioritize the well-being of others and demonstrate adaptability may exhibit a shift in perspective that involves a reduction in self-importance and an increase in positive energy.
The process of self-growth and change entails the development of the capacity to genuinely love others, to adapt effectively to the diverse individuals and circumstances one encounters, to regulate one's emotional state, and to avoid or mitigate negative emotions.
Genuine love for others entails a desire for their happiness and the capacity to mentally accept, forgive, and pardon all individuals, including those who are weak, regardless of their abilities or circumstances. If mistakes or shortcomings exist, they can be rectified. Everyone possesses the inherent right to happiness, irrespective of the nature or quality of their relationships, whether they are close or distant, and regardless of whether their actions are right or wrong, productive or destructive, and so forth. It is a universal aspiration for others to be happy. People can provide mutual comfort and even joy to each other. It is beneficial to love and accept oneself and others, to tolerate shortcomings and deficiencies, and to be kindhearted. In other words, it is advantageous to others or society to not despise or reject ordinary people and to not be jealous or intolerant of those who are outstanding.
If one does not have a positive relationship with the majority of people, it can result in the accumulation of negative energy and emotional issues. In order to increase the likelihood of finding and maintaining healthy relationships and careers, it is essential to develop a capacity for genuine love, adaptability, and the ability to regulate one's energy field. Additionally, sharing and exchanging experiences, ideas, and interests with others, including through online platforms such as Douban communities, can facilitate the formation of positive connections.
Concurrently, one should endeavor to cultivate a contentment with the modest aspects of life, including one's romantic endeavors.
Negative energy can affect one's physical health. To maintain bodily comfort and health, one may engage in a full-body massage. A head massage encompasses the forehead and face, which also possess meridian pathways. To perform this massage, utilize deep and firm hand movements, and employ a firm massage comb to press the stomach. It is advised to refrain from pressing the stomach on an empty stomach and then engaging in physical activity, such as walking.
Individuals who experience negative emotions or thoughts and behaviors may experience physical and mental discomfort and impairment. They may also encounter unhappy people and situations, interpersonal conflicts, emotional and marital disharmony (which can also affect one's magnetic field), and even challenges in academic or professional settings. This is due to the accumulation of negative energy when an individual is excessively self-centered or driven by self-interest. The more self-centered an individual is, the more their magnetic field will be out of alignment with others. To achieve a more fulfilling and meaningful life, it is essential to learn how to truly love others and adapt to their needs, correct one's energy field, resolve conflicts, improve one's emotions and interpersonal relationships, and effectively address the aforementioned challenges. Additionally, when individuals learn to truly love the people and things in their lives, they will not be overly attached to love, experience reduced negative emotions such as separation anxiety and pain, and will not feel a lack of happiness inside. Only through this process can one's life become truly fulfilling and meaningful.
If necessary, they can also facilitate growth and change in those around them.
The extent to which an individual is overly self-absorbed varies considerably from person to person. There are a number of psychological motivations that drive this behaviour, including the pursuit of self-satisfaction, competition for self-satisfaction, the suppression of self-deprecation in order to please others, the willingness to blindly give in order to receive, and a fear of losing.
Individuals who are overly self-absorbed may display a number of behaviours that are characteristic of narcissism or inferiority. These include a tendency to pay excessive attention to oneself, which can cause stress and worry, social phobia, and a preoccupation with one's own emotions and thoughts.
Individuals who are overly self-absorbed often place a significant amount of importance on the opinions of others. They may also struggle to accept their own shortcomings and inadequacies, striving instead for perfection. They may also engage in behaviours that force, control, or take possession of others, or force others to satisfy their needs. This can result in feelings of resentment and dissatisfaction.
Individuals who are overly self-absorbed may also experience difficulty forgiving themselves or others. They may find it challenging to let go of negative emotions and move on from past experiences. This can lead to a tendency to brood over past events.
The process of self-growth and change entails the development of the capacity to love others genuinely, to adapt effectively to diverse individuals and circumstances, and to regulate one's emotional state in a manner that prevents or mitigates the experience of negative emotions.
To truly love others is to wish and give others happiness, and to mentally accept, approve, or forgive everyone, regardless of their individual merits. If there are mistakes or shortcomings, they can be corrected. Everyone has the right to happiness, regardless of the nature or quality of the relationship, whether it is a gathering or a parting, whether it is right or wrong, gain or loss. It is hoped that others can be happy. People can bring mutual comfort and even joy to each other. It is beneficial to love and approve others and oneself, to tolerate shortcomings and deficiencies, and to be kind at heart. That is, it is beneficial to others or society, not to despise or reject ordinary people, not to be jealous or intolerant of outstanding people.
If one does not get along with most people, it can result in the accumulation of negative energy and the emergence of negative emotional problems. In order to truly love others and adapt to people and situations, it is necessary to correct one's energy field in order to facilitate the discovery and establishment of loving relationships and careers. Additionally, it is possible to share and exchange one's observations, thoughts, feelings, and interests with others in real life and on the Internet, including books, movies, music, and other forms of media, through platforms such as Douban communities.
Furthermore, it is advisable to cultivate a positive attitude towards romantic relationships and to embrace the simple pleasures in life.
Negative energy can affect one's physical health. Maintaining bodily comfort and health can provide a full-body massage. A head massage includes the forehead and face, which also have meridians. The head should be massaged with deep, firm strokes, and the stomach should be massaged with a firm massage comb. It is important to note that the stomach should not be pressed on an empty stomach; instead, one should engage in some form of exercise, such as a brief walk, to facilitate digestion.
If one is afflicted with negative emotions or thoughts and behaviors, one's body and mind will not feel comfortable and healthy. One will often encounter people and things that upset one, interpersonal conflicts, emotional and marital disharmony (which can also affect one's magnetic field), and even problems in one's academic or career life. This is because when one is too self-centered or self-absorbed, negative energy accumulates. The more self-centered one is, the more one's magnetic field will be out of tune with other people's. One must learn how to truly love others and adapt to people and things, correct one's energy field, resolve conflicts, improve one's emotions and interpersonal relationships, and better solve the above problems. In addition, if one knows how to truly love the people and things in the world, one will not be overly attached to love, reduce negative emotions such as separation anxiety and pain, and will not feel a lack of happiness inside. Only in this way can one's life become fulfilling and meaningful.
In addition, they can facilitate growth and change in those around them.
The extent to which individuals are self-absorbed varies. This is due to a number of factors, including the psychological motivation to seek self-fulfillment, to compete for self-satisfaction or to suppress self-depreciation and ingratiate oneself, to blindly give in order to gain, and to fear losing. When individuals are overly narcissistic or inferior, they may experience stress and worry, social phobia, and a tendency to become caught up in their own emotions and thoughts.
Individuals who attach significant importance to what others think of them, who do not accept their own shortcomings and deficiencies, who demand their own perfection, who are obsessive, controlling, possessive, or who demand that others satisfy them may experience resentment and dissatisfaction when they cannot let go of themselves to forgive and forgive.
Those who prioritize their own interests may experience anxiety, depression, and fatigue, as well as difficulty adapting to the social and situational demands of academic or professional settings. Conversely, individuals who genuinely care about others and adapt to their environments tend to have a more positive self-perception and greater energy reserves.
In conclusion, it is essential to strive to the best of one's abilities, to act with benevolent intentions, and to refrain from causing harm to others, as nobody desires to endure suffering. Even if one is unable to fully adapt to the individuals and circumstances within one's academic or professional setting,
Those who genuinely care about others and are able to adapt to different situations will inevitably experience a sense of self-disparagement and a subsequent replenishment of their positive energy. In essence, one should strive to do their best, act with benevolent intentions, and refrain from causing harm to others, as nobody wishes to endure suffering.
Comments
I can totally relate to your struggles and the conflicting desires you're experiencing. It's a tough spot to be in, wanting to spread your wings but also being cautious about your mental health.
It sounds like you've been through an incredibly challenging journey already. It's important to acknowledge how far you've come. The fact that you're considering these big life decisions shows growth and courage.
Balancing career aspirations with mental health is tricky. Perhaps you could start small, with internships or shortterm projects in law firms to test the waters without fully committing. This way, you can gain experience while monitoring your wellbeing.
Your desire for independence and to pursue a meaningful career is commendable. Maybe there's a middle ground where you can find a supportive environment that understands your needs while allowing you to grow professionally.
Considering your background and the impact it has had on you, it might help to seek out a mentor or counselor who can provide guidance tailored to your unique situation. They could offer insights on navigating career choices while managing mental health.