I broke up with my boyfriend. I don't feel his love anymore. Should I continue this relationship?

Good morning, host. I am honored to answer your question. Before answering, I would like to inquire about your age. Are you currently enrolled in an academic program or employed in a professional capacity?

From your description, it is evident that the mutual attraction between you has diminished, and you have begun to experience a sense of fatigue in the love/how-can-a-woman-manage-relationships-with-both-in-laws-and-parents-in-law-after-marriage-why-is-it-so-difficult-14622.html" target="_blank">relationship.

The majority of passionate love affairs tend to lose their initial fervor and intensity when couples enter into marriage. It is important to recognize that we are all ordinary individuals, and that our lives are best suited to the ordinary. The passionate love affairs and sweet married lives depicted in movies and dramas are often presented for the sake of ratings. If we were to live our lives in a manner similar to that depicted in movies and dramas, both men and women would likely experience significant fatigue.

You initiated the dissolution of the relationship, yet on the day of its termination, you exhibited a degree of reluctance, indicating the persistence of an emotional connection. It is evident that, in the context of your daily interactions, certain manifestations of his affection no longer evoke the same level of enthusiasm. In this scenario, it would be beneficial to engage in a candid discussion with him in a private setting. What are the underlying issues pertaining to your emotional needs?

The ability to adjust one's emotional needs through detailed communication is contingent upon the information provided. Based on the information available, there is no fundamental conflict of interest between the two parties. Adjusting one's communication style and, if necessary, attempting role reversal can facilitate a deeper understanding and strengthen the intimate relationship. It is important to note that good love does not occur instantaneously. Setbacks are inevitable, but persevering through them can equip individuals with the capacity to navigate challenges and disagreements in the relationship, laying a solid foundation for communication in the future. In a relationship, there is no reason to fear problems. As long as both parties engage in problem-solving, it can serve as a powerful driving force for relationship growth.

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Hello, question asker! I am the answer giver, Enoch.

The questioner is ready to move on from a relationship that has left him feeling unsatisfied. While he is sad about the love/over-a-year-since-the-breakup-why-cant-i-stop-seeking-my-ex-boyfriend-12587.html" target="_blank">breakup, he is not yet ready to cut off contact with the other person. He still hopes for messages from them, but he knows that this relationship is draining him and that he needs to let it go.

The questioner didn't say why she no longer feels her boyfriend's love, but it's clear from her description that he doesn't understand her or know how to love her. He may say a lot but do little, or he may not love her in the way she expects. Either way, the relationship has disappointed her and exhausted her.

If the questioner separates from the other person, they will undoubtedly feel the pain of separation again, as if they have suddenly lost something. This is like a saying in the Three Kingdoms: this kind of relationship is like tasteless chicken ribs, and it's a shame to throw it away.

If you truly feel it's not a good fit, don't waste each other's time. Have faith that you'll meet the right person in the future. Instead of consuming each other, focus on improving yourself and going after someone who's a better match.

Hello, dear questioner!

I totally get the feeling of loss you're talking about after a relationship ends.

From your description, I can sense that you are the insecure party in a relationship, or perhaps you are the party with low self-confidence in a relationship. This is totally normal! You especially need the other party to give you the correct feedback in a timely manner.

So there's a great saying: Love is as he is, not as I wish. The good news is that you can treat him the way he wants to be treated and he'll feel your love!

In your relationship, your boyfriend gives you feedback every day, saying he loves you. While this is great, you still feel aggrieved. It's obvious that the way he verbally expresses his love isn't what you want. This means you can't really feel loved.

So although you can't be sure how much your boyfriend loves you, you can feel that the value of his love for you is very low.

Even so, ending a relationship is still saddening. After all, no one can really be indifferent when facing loss, even if the relationship is one that you want to end. This is normal, so give yourself some time. And then, you can start anew!

It's time to start thinking about your future! You have the exciting opportunity to decide whether to continue being with him or end the relationship and start a new life.

If you choose to give him another chance, then you get to have a good talk with him about the way you want to be loved! If he still "loves you" in his own way after knowing your desired way of being loved, then it means that he may not really love you that much.

If you're ready to move on from the relationship, the best thing you can do is give yourself some space. Stay away from him for a while and give yourself time to heal.

If you can, there's absolutely no need to keep in touch with him! That way, you won't have to worry about one of his messages making you waver again.

Talk more to family, friends, and colleagues who can listen, find someone to support you, or do more of the things you like! You've always wanted to do them, so go for it! Distract yourself with all the things you love to do.

Wishing you all the best! Sending you lots of love from the world!

Hello, my name is Yu Ting, and I'm a psychological counselor.

It seems like you're facing a bit of a dilemma. It's totally normal to feel this way! It sounds like you're not sure if you should continue this relationship because you're not feeling the love you once did. It's okay to feel this way. We've all been there!

Let me try to understand what you're asking.

It seems like you're feeling pretty unhappy right now. Maybe your boyfriend isn't meeting all of your expectations, which has made you feel like he doesn't love you anymore. It's totally understandable to feel this way! You've even developed a bit of a resentment towards him. But here's the thing: after you broke up, he sent you a message, and you're still really happy and want to continue being together. It's clear that you have so many fond memories of the past two years and that there are still many parts of him that you love.

I can see you're really struggling right now. It's so hard when we're torn between two options, isn't it? On the one hand, you feel like he doesn't love you and that continuing the relationship is draining you. On the other hand, you're reluctant to break up with him. I know it's a really tough decision to make.

Let's find some solutions together!

I know it's a tough decision, but I think you can compare the parts of him that make you nostalgic with the parts you're not so happy with. That way, you'll see which is more important to you. Then, you can weigh up the pros and cons and make the choice that's right for you.

If you're feeling aggrieved or like you can't make a decision right now, we can try taking a little break. Not making a decision is also a great choice!

When there are problems in a relationship, it's always a good idea to take a moment to focus on our relationship with ourselves first.

It's so sad when you love someone and they don't love you back. It can feel like you're trapped in a loveless relationship. It's not that the other person doesn't love you, but that you've lost the ability to feel love. So, it's really important to focus on your own happiness first. Learn to love yourself, and you'll find that you don't need others to fill the gap in your heart. When you love yourself, you'll attract more love from others.

Summary: It's okay to feel unhappy in a relationship. We can find ways to make ourselves happy first, and then look at the relationship through the lens of our own happiness. Love can only add to the happiness in many cases, and

When we're not feeling happy in a relationship, it's so important to focus on making ourselves happy first. Then, we can look at the relationship through the lens of our own happiness. Love can really add to our happiness, and it's not always easy to ask it to fill the void in our hearts. We often hope to find that missing part in our other half, but when we do, we might end up feeling disappointed and hurt.