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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
Hello! I'll give you a warm hug from afar first.
I'm glad you've reached out for help. I hope my input can provide some support and assistance.
From what you've said, it seems like you're not very assertive in your intimate relationships and that you want to be loved, valued, and cared for. Of course, this might be influenced by some of the ideas you grew up with, like that girls should be reserved and not be too active in front of boys, because that would make them easily unloved. So, in an intimate relationship, a girl should be more in a state of being pursued.
What are your thoughts on this?
You've got to focus on preparing for the exam, but you also want to focus on falling in love. You've got a pretty good impression of this blind date, so you can take the initiative. For example, you can show your concern by sending him a sincere greeting every day. If he still shows indifference even though you've taken the initiative to express your concern, then you'll know whether this person is suitable for you and whether he cares about you.
If he doesn't care about you, you might as well stop trying to impress him. After all, he's rejected your efforts to show him you care.
If you reach out to him with a genuine gesture of care and greeting, and he responds in a timely manner, it could mean that he's not the most expressive person. He might appreciate a more proactive approach from you. If neither of you takes the initiative, you might miss out on a wonderful, intimate relationship with someone who truly cares about you.
It's not easy to meet someone who really makes your heart beat. You can start over at work or school, but it's not easy to meet someone who's right for you. So, preparing for an exam isn't a good reason to neglect your intimate relationship. If you feel this person is really important to you, you might as well be brave.
In an intimate relationship, it's better to be wrong than to miss out.
Hi, I'm Lily, the little ear of the Q&A Museum. The world and I love you.
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I can totally relate to the mixed feelings you're experiencing. It's like being on a rollercoaster, hoping for that call or message while trying to focus on everything else in life. Studying for exams and managing daily tasks is already overwhelming, adding the uncertainty of waiting for someone to reach out just complicates things further. Yet, there's still that little hope he'll contact you soon, maybe with New Year's wishes. In the meantime, I guess it's best to keep busy and prepare for all possibilities.
It sounds like you've been really busy with exams and household chores, leaving little room for anything else. It must be tough to juggle all that while also thinking about personal matters like relationships. Waiting for him to make a move after expressing vague interest is challenging. But perhaps this break gives you both a chance to reflect. If he does reach out again, especially with something as thoughtful as New Year's greetings, it could be a sign worth considering. Until then, staying focused on your goals and plans seems like the way to go.
The anticipation of hearing from him feels almost like waiting for exam results nervewracking yet hopeful. You've put so much effort into preparing for your exams amidst all the household responsibilities. It's understandable to feel a bit uncertain about where you stand with him. Still, if he contacts you again, especially during the New Year, it might show he's genuinely interested. For now, try not to let the waiting distract you too much from enjoying the holiday season and whatever comes next.