I have been consulting for almost two years, but recently I have become very desperate. The pain is really hard to overcome.
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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
I have been consulting for almost two years, and it has been going well. I have also felt that I am getting better, but recently, when I touched on some wounds that have already been discussed, I became even more desperate. It seems that the pain is really difficult to overcome, and what I am looking forward to seems unattainable. My peace has once again left me. I am very desperate about this process. Even if I can embrace the child in my inner world, how can I embrace her if she is still a baby?
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Comments
I can relate to feeling like you're making progress and then suddenly hitting a wall. It's tough when old pains resurface and feel as fresh as ever, undermining all the growth we've worked for.
It's so disheartening when it feels like no matter how much we improve, some aspects of our past still manage to sneak up and hurt us deeply. I wonder if there's a way to find peace even in the midst of these struggles.
The process of healing is not linear, and it's okay to have setbacks. The fact that you acknowledge your inner child shows strength. Maybe finding ways to comfort her could be a step forward, even if she remains small and vulnerable.
Feeling desperate is a sign that you care deeply about overcoming your pain. Sometimes revisiting wounds is necessary for deeper healing, even though it's painful. Can you think of what might help soothe your desperation?
It's heartbreaking when it feels like the peace we once had slips away. Perhaps creating a safe space for your inner child, where she feels protected and loved, could be a path to regaining that peace, despite her age.