I want to die, have no motivation, I really feel that this world is terrifying, what should I do?

Hello, question asker!

From what you've told me, it seems like you're feeling pretty down in the dumps. Is it the pressure at school and being scolded by your teachers that's making you feel this way?

I saw you say that although your grades at the key school weren't the best, you were surrounded by academic superstars. I can understand that you were quite good before. Is that okay?

It seems like the teacher is singling her out for her academic performance. This is really tough! The teacher scolded her in front of everyone during an online exam because she was talking to her friend about milk. The teacher also told her parents, which made her feel really embarrassed. Is this what happened?

The poor OP said she was scammed online for more than 600 yuan! I know that this is really hard for a student. What I don't understand is what the OP meant by being openly targeted by the school's early love group.

The OP said that she didn't want to have a wound on her arm. I really do think the OP has been actively looking for a solution, don't you?

First of all, I think it's really admirable that you've been so open and honest in your description. It's so clear that you've been facing your problems head-on and actively seeking solutions.

I'm really interested in learning more about what kind of strength supports the question owner. I'd also love to know how he has been able to persevere and come here to tell his story despite the situation being so difficult. This will be your resource.

The OP says that she feels like a burden to be alive, and I don't agree. I truly believe that the OP's feelings are genuine, but sometimes they're not what we expect.

The wonderful psychologist Adler once said, "Everyone has their own problems to solve."

I don't know all the details of what's going on with the questioner, but I'd love to encourage them to pay attention to when they don't feel this way. When they don't feel this way, what do they do?

Questioner, I'd like you to imagine what you would be like if you didn't feel this way. Think about the difference it would make, how you would feel, and who would notice the change in you.

Question owner, I know that when you posted this question, you must have been feeling pretty uncomfortable. So how are you feeling now? If you feel better, does it feel like everything is not so bad?

I really think it would help if you could find a professional counselor you can talk to, and you should definitely tell your parents how you're feeling. It's also a great idea to see the school counselor, and you could try getting some exercise or writing in a diary to help you feel better.

And finally, I just want to say that I believe in you, and I truly believe you can change the situation for the better through your own efforts. You are so unique, and I admire you for that!

My friends at Yixinli and I have always been behind you, cheering you on and rooting for you. Don't be afraid!

Come on, my friend! The world and I love you!

Dear Sir/Madam, Thank you for your recent correspondence. I hope this message finds you well. I am writing to you today to inquire about your recent experiences. Please do not hesitate to contact me if you require any further assistance. Best regards, [Name]

After reviewing your inquiry, it is evident that you are facing significant pressure, to the point of feeling overwhelmed. I empathize with your situation and wish I could provide a more tangible form of support.

We can provide you with the support and comfort you require.

The pressure on children studying at key schools is significant. It is a place where the best and brightest gather. As you mentioned, you are surrounded by academic elites. Your classmates and teachers must exert considerable pressure, which may result in feelings of inferiority, worthlessness, and isolation from teachers. It is not uncommon for children at key schools to experience these feelings. I also understand the feelings of anxiety-14546.html" target="_blank">depression, anxiety, anger, and powerlessness.

Furthermore, you have recently experienced a number of challenging situations, including criticism from teachers, parental involvement, deception, and exclusion. These circumstances, when accumulated, have significantly impacted your psychological resilience.

You mentioned that you have a wound on your arm. Could you please clarify how long this has been going on and whether you have discussed it with your parents or teachers?

You have indicated that you are concerned about the potential worsening of the wound on your arm. This suggests that you are experiencing a sense of burden associated with your current situation. From a psychological perspective, the pressure you are facing is likely contributing to this sense of burden, prompting you to seek ways to escape, hide, and avoid the situation.

If this is the case, we have a number of options available to achieve the goal of "escaping and avoiding."

For example,

If you attend a prestigious educational institution, there is likely a psychologist on staff. Schedule an appointment to discuss your situation and any distress you may be experiencing. There is no need to bear it alone. A psychologist is a different professional than your regular teachers. They will understand your concerns and may be able to assist you in resolving your issues.

Posting here for assistance is an effective way to help yourself. There are individuals here who understand and support you.

Consider a change of environment. You may wish to inform your parents that you find their behaviour unacceptable and request a transfer to a regular class or school. As a former student of a prestigious school, you will undoubtedly excel in a more traditional learning environment.

4, 5, 6... It is important to remember that there are at least three potential solutions to every problem. It is not necessary to resort to the most extreme option.

It is important to learn to love and understand yourself. Everyone has their own limitations. As long as you have tried your best in your studies, you can be satisfied with yourself. You are not alone in feeling this way among the academic elites. You can observe how they deal with their poor academic performance and communicate with them more.

Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses, including academic students. However, in the specific environment of school, people tend to focus on grades.

Teachers also pay special attention to children with high scores in order to enhance their own performance. However, in the long journey of life, we are not only competing on scores, but also on our ability to cope with life.

Please take the time to consider your own strengths and advantages. The more detailed, the better.

Please include the following details: appearance, skin condition, height, etc. Please list 10 things every day. After a month, you will be surprised to find that you have a great deal to offer.

It is important to consider why we would want to destroy something that has the potential to be a valuable asset.

It is important to allow yourself to make mistakes. It is inevitable that everyone will make mistakes in their lives, and it is not possible to do everything 100% correctly. The key is to learn from the experience and reflect on its meaning.

For example, you were reprimanded for consuming milk during an examination. This has already occurred, and the incident has been documented. There is no recourse at this juncture. What we can do is adhere to the established regulations during future examinations, thereby avoiding any further disciplinary action.

For example, you were defrauded of 600 yuan online. What is the takeaway from this experience? I believe you will be more cautious in the future and that this incident will serve as a valuable lesson.

What lessons have you derived from being excluded by a small group at school? Have you gained an understanding of the importance of carefully selecting one's friends and avoiding involvement with unsavory individuals?

It is important to take care of yourself, both physically and mentally. We should all recognise the value of our own lives and be aware that we do not live in isolation.

Your parents have invested in your education by sending you to a prestigious school, which indicates that they have high expectations of you. It is likely that they are also proud of you.

It would be beneficial to communicate more with your parents and let them know how challenging this period is for you. They will be able to empathize with your situation.

I hope these words will be of assistance to you. Best regards,