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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
Hello! I'm sending you a warm hug from afar.
A person's relationship with others is often a projection of their relationship with themselves. We must accept those parts of others that we also have within ourselves. We cannot avoid, suppress, and deny these parts of ourselves. When we cannot accept many parts of others, we must first realize whether we accept this part of ourselves.
We must face the inner self's lack of self-acceptance-yet-still-struggle-to-accept-the-past-self-9544.html" target="_blank">acceptance with courage. By doing so, we can let go of the fight against the inner self that is not good enough. This will give us the strength to truly grow, because change begins with acceptance.
Let me be clear: nobody is incapable of getting along with others. Nobody can exist in isolation. People are the sum of their relationships. Why can't you take the initiative to try to establish relationships with others? It's largely because of your internal inferiority complex and lack of self-confidence, and your lack of acceptance of yourself. When you have too much internal rejection of yourself and you are not very aware of this part of yourself, you will unintentionally project the emotions of not accepting yourself onto others, thinking that others will not accept such a self either.
The key to changing your interpersonal relationships is to learn to accept yourself better. Make a list of your self-acceptance strengths or cultivate self-confidence and enhance your sense of self-worth by keeping a gratitude journal. In your spare time, cultivate more interests and passions for yourself so that you can have more and more control over the things you can do.
I am Lily, the little listener at the Q&A Center. The world and I love you.
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I can relate to feeling out of place and struggling with social interactions. It's tough when you're not on the same page as your peers. Maybe focusing on what you enjoy, like your studies, is a way to stay true to yourself while preparing for the future.
It sounds like there's a lot going on for you. I wonder if talking to someone outside of school, like a family member or a counselor, could help you sort through these feelings and find some clarity.
Feeling isolated in class must be really hard. Sometimes, small gestures can make a difference. Perhaps you could try starting with a simple smile or a nod at your classmates to slowly build connections.
The pressure from exams and social issues can be overwhelming. Have you considered joining a club or an activity that aligns with your interests? It might help you meet people who share similar values and ease the tension.
It seems like you're carrying a lot of weight from past experiences. Reaching out to your desk mate again might not be easy, but maybe a heartfelt note expressing how you feel could open up a dialogue and mend the relationship.