What do you really think true love is? Do you know what kind of person you want to spend your life with, or are you still searching, hoping that someone will suddenly appear, fulfill all your desires, and then be with you?
Love is beautiful and pure. It's free from financial worries and the distractions of responsibilities. Love is spontaneous and emotional. It's an encounter where you're swept away by the moment and the outcome doesn't matter.
Marriage is a commitment and a responsibility, a legal relationship that both parties must stick to. It's about loyalty, unlike falling in love, which you can break up with whenever you want. But it also means responsibility, a rational union.
American psychologist Sternberg, who came up with the theory of love, says love has three main parts: passion, intimacy, and commitment. Passion is the sexual side of love, an emotional fascination; intimacy is the warm feeling you get in a loving relationship; and commitment is the decision to stick with the relationship or a promise.
Love isn't just a feeling. If it were, it would disappear when we face challenges because we can find that feeling in different people. The most common reason for infidelity is that we don't feel it anymore. But true love is more than a feeling. It's a responsibility, a mutual sacrifice, and a mutual achievement. True love isn't a moment of inspiration. It's a long-term commitment, a mutual sacrifice, a mutual achievement, and mutual respect.
These days, people let their emotions run wild, getting married when they fall in love and getting divorced when the passion fades. This kind of love is often a form of narcissism. Many people explore different lovers in search of love, only to feel increasingly lonely in the end. The reason is that narcissistic love can never last.
It's impossible to find someone who meets all your expectations. We all love someone who's cute, but if you still love them when they're not as cute as they used to be and you're willing to accept their flaws, then that's true love. And to do that, you have to have a forgiving heart.
If we want to find someone to love, we have to be able to love others and understand what love really is.


Comments
I understand your concerns. It can be tough when you feel like you're not connecting with people on a deeper level. Maybe it's time to focus on building genuine connections rather than just going on dates. Try engaging in activities you love, and meet people who share those interests. That way, you might find someone who appreciates you for who you are.
Feeling this way must be disheartening. Sometimes, we need to change our approach. Have you considered joining clubs or groups where you can interact with others who have similar hobbies? It could increase the chances of meeting someone you truly connect with and who feels the same way about you.
It sounds like you've been through a lot. Perhaps it would help to work on your selfconfidence. Confidence can be very attractive, and when you feel good about yourself, it shows. Consider talking to a counselor or therapist who can provide support and guidance. They might offer valuable insights that can boost your confidence and social skills.
You're right; it's challenging when feelings aren't reciprocated. But don't lose hope! Sometimes the best relationships come unexpectedly. Keep an open mind and try to enjoy the process of meeting new people. Remember, quality over quantity. A meaningful connection is worth waiting for.
I can see why you're feeling worried. However, instead of focusing on the numbers, perhaps concentrate on personal growth. Develop yourself, explore new interests, and become the best version of yourself. When you're happy and fulfilled individually, it becomes easier to attract someone who appreciates you for who you are.