Laughing, I feel so lonely. What will I say to them during the New Year?

Dear Host, I am honored to respond to your inquiry. In your post, you described the New Year's reunion as a lively event, characterized by genuine laughter and camaraderie among you, your relatives, and friends.

When one experiences a sense of quietude and doubts that this aligns with their inherent nature, it is important to recognize that this assessment may not fully reflect one's true self. It is essential to acknowledge that despite appearing to be solitary and serene, one's true nature is that of a person who enjoys the company of others and finds joy in shared laughter.

Despite your outward composure, you yearn to interact with others in a spontaneous and jovial manner. Such profound internal strife renders it challenging to attain genuine happiness.

From the information provided, it appears that the individual in question is seeking to enhance their interpersonal communication skills. The Chinese New Year presents an opportunity for the individual to showcase their distinctive characteristics and gain substantial support and recognition from others, which may subsequently enhance their self-confidence. This is a typical process.

During this process, you are concerned about overexposing yourself, causing jealousy and harm to others. You must suppress your natural inclination and maintain a calm and composed appearance.

As a result of the gradual collapse of China's social credit system, incidents of people forgetting about justice when they see a profit are becoming increasingly common. It is relatives and acquaintances who are engaging in harmful behavior towards each other instead.

We elect to present ourselves in a manner that is calculated and cautious when interacting with relatives and acquaintances, adopting a stance of heightened vigilance and engagement.

In contrast, you have no inclination to engage with strangers and would rather express your thoughts directly. In such instances, it is advisable to seek the guidance of a professional listening or consulting platform that has undergone rigorous training and adheres to the ethical standards and legal frameworks governing psychological counseling.

A consent form and confidentiality agreement must be signed. The rights and information of the client are guaranteed to be safe.

Discussing one's inner thoughts and feelings with a qualified professional not only fulfills the desire and need to talk but also provides guidance and analysis from a trained perspective. This can help to strengthen one's ability to function independently, enhance one's personality traits, and validate one's emotional responses to future challenges.

I am gratified to engage in the act of dating, which commenced in the year 1983. I extend my sincerest regards to the world and to you, my esteemed reader.