Mom made the person I hate the most teach me. I cried all night and still feel uncomfortable, what should I do?

Hello! I'll give you a hug.

Your mother doesn't understand you, and you feel hurt and betrayed.

Your mother wants you to be educated by someone you hate because she doesn't know you hate this person the most. You can tell your mother you want someone else to educate and guide you, but you just can't accept this person.

Discuss this with your mother.

Try to understand why you dislike this person. We dislike others because we dislike ourselves.

Keep an emotional diary to understand your emotions better.

I'm Lily, the listener at the Q&A Center. I love you.

Hello, I'm happy to answer your question. I can see you're sad and disappointed. You want to accept your life by jumping into the river.

Please add a few words about your age and gender. From what you've said, I think you have a problem with that person, not with what they've learned. You seem young. In your world, good people do good things and bad people do bad things. You can't understand that good people can also do bad things and bad people can also do good things.

Your mother is teaching you, even though you hate her. You think it's okay for people you like to teach you, but not people you hate. Have you talked to your mother about this? Maybe you said your mother will respect your advice and that you're trying to feel better. If you want to die, all your efforts will be in vain.

We are responsible for our actions. The healthier and happier we live, the less it will affect us. Think about how you can solve the problem without letting it affect you. This is your progress, and it is also what your mother wants to see.

I have an appointment in 1983. I love you!