Regarding views on marriage and love, how can I find out what my partner's views are?

Dear friend, I understand your feelings. You may be at a stage of self-exploration and seeking direction. It is natural to feel confused and uncertain when facing such profound life issues as love and marriage.

You want to get to know yourself better and establish a deep and meaningful connection with your partner. This takes time and patience. Your exploration and reflection on your views on love and marriage is essential.

Everyone has a unique view of love and marriage. These views influence our emotional choices and relationship development.

You may be experiencing an internal struggle between wanting to clearly define your needs and expectations and worrying that this will limit the possibilities or that you won't be able to find the "perfect" partner. This feeling may make you feel anxious and uneasy, but you can overcome these challenges on your path to growth.

You will feel understood and your efforts will be respected. In the process, you will discover unexpected insights about yourself and you will adjust your expectations as needed.

These are all part of growing up, and you will get closer to the real you with every exploration and reflection.

In psychology, views on love and marriage are defined as a person's set of beliefs, values, and expectations about love, marriage, partner relationships, and family life. These views encompass multiple aspects, including an understanding of love, expectations of partners, and identification with family roles.

Knowing and understanding your views on love and marriage means gaining an in-depth understanding of your emotional needs, values, and life goals, and how these factors influence your choice of partner and relationship.

You must take the first step in exploring your confusion: self-reflection. Think about what love means to you, what you want from a relationship, and what your idea of the perfect relationship is.

In times of confusion, it is essential to calm down and examine your inner world. Keeping a diary to record your thoughts and feelings or finding inner peace through meditation are both effective ways to reflect on yourself.

Talking to trusted friends is also a great way to gain new inspiration and see things from a different perspective.

Read and learn. It's a simple yet effective way to broaden your horizons. Books are the crystallization of human wisdom. By reading books in fields such as psychology and philosophy, you can draw wisdom from the experiences of others and understand the views of different cultures and individuals on love and marriage.

Attending workshops or talks and exchanging ideas with others is an excellent way to learn and grow.

Emotional communication is the cornerstone of a healthy relationship. Sincere communication is essential in a relationship.

Use "I" statements to express your feelings and needs. This will reduce misunderstandings and conflicts and promote mutual understanding and empathy. At the same time, listen to the other person. This is an important part of emotional communication.

Guide your partner to think together. This is an effective way to enhance mutual understanding. If your partner has not yet realized the need to sort out their views on marriage and love, you can guide her thinking by asking questions.

For example, you could ask, "What do you think are the qualities of an ideal partner?" or "What do you hope for our relationship in the future?"

Ask her what she hopes our relationship will become in the future. This will help her start thinking about her needs and expectations. Guide her to think about her needs and expectations. This will help both of you understand each other's views on marriage and love.

This kind of interaction deepens mutual understanding and promotes the further development of the relationship.

Attending a relationship workshop or counseling session is an effective way to learn how to build and maintain a healthy relationship together. It can also strengthen the common language and goals of the couple. Everyone's growth path is unique, and there is no fixed model.

Remain open and honest, and keep learning and growing. Give yourself and your partner time to explore and understand each other's views on marriage and love.

Don't fear confusion. Use it as a catalyst for growth. Explore in confusion and grow through exploration. You will find your own path.

You will understand each other better and work together to build a harmonious and satisfying relationship. You will find your way in the midst of confusion and reap happiness from your exploration.

Hello, question asker! You're not alone. Many people go through this stage of confusion and exploration of views on marriage and love.

Don't worry. We'll sort it out together and find your answers.

You seem uncertain and confused about love and marriage, which is understandable given the many different ways people understand and expect these concepts.

Ask your partner open-ended questions in a relaxed chat to find out how she feels about marriage and relationships. For example, ask her what she thinks about marriage, what her ideal family is like, or how she understands the roles of both partners in a relationship.

Such questions will help her express her thoughts naturally, without feeling forced or judged.

If she hasn't yet realized or sorted out her own views on love and marriage, you can guide her thinking by sharing your own experiences and thoughts. Tell her your expectations and views on love and marriage, as well as the state you hope to achieve in a relationship.

By sharing and listening to each other, you will gain a deeper understanding of each other's thoughts and expectations, and thus establish a stronger emotional foundation.

Start exploring your views on love and marriage by looking at your own experiences, family background, and friendships. Think about your romantic experiences, what you value in a relationship, what you expect from your partner, and what state you want to achieve in a romantic relationship.

Your family background and upbringing undoubtedly influence your views on love and marriage.

As you become more aware of and refine your views on love and marriage, you can describe your thoughts and expectations in more specific and clear terms. For example, you can say, "I hope my partner is someone who can understand and support me," rather than simply saying, "I hope my partner is a good person."

This more specific description will help you understand your own needs more clearly and make you more goal-oriented when looking for a partner.

Guide your partner in self-reflection by sharing relevant articles, books, or psychological knowledge to stimulate her thinking. For example, recommend that she read some psychological books on love and marriage, or share some relevant articles and cases.

These resources will help her understand her needs and expectations more deeply, and provide more material for your communication.

Keep an open and respectful attitude during mutual communication. Respect each other's thoughts and choices. Don't force your point of view on your partner.

Express your thoughts and feelings. This will help your partner understand your needs and expectations. Through sincere communication and understanding, you can get to know each other better and establish a stronger emotional foundation.

Finally, I want to be clear that marriage is a process of continuous exploration and improvement. Don't rush for results. Give yourself and your partner enough time and space to think and grow.

I am certain that you will find commonalities and differences between you and establish a deeper emotional bond. I wish you the best in your journey of exploring your views on marriage and love!

Hello, question asker. It's like meeting someone in person when you read their words.

From your description, it seems like we're talking about views on marriage and love. This is a broad topic, so it's important to focus on specific points to avoid confusion.

Let's chat and refine it.

You said you're confused about your relationship and partner preferences. I'd like to know more.

What's your current relationship status?

2. Are you confused because you have a lot of criteria but don't know what you want?

3. What do you expect your romantic and married lives to be like?

4. What do you expect from your romantic and married lives?

The above four points show that falling in love and getting married are two different stages. Since you haven't specified your relationship status, I can only guide you to refine your expectations.

You also ask how to understand your partner's views on marriage and love. And how to guide them if they don't know or realize they haven't sorted this out. Here's what I want to share with you:

1. We can't understand someone's views on marriage and love by leading them. There's no standard answer to this question.

2. We must first form our own ideas about marriage and love. Then we can consider how our ideas might fit with our partner's.

3. You can discuss marriage with your partner if you feel secure in the relationship.

This will be a test of our patience and tolerance. Falling in love and getting married are a matter for two people. We can't talk about love and marriage in a fixed framework because everyone's different.

You brought up this topic, which shows you have your own thoughts about it. I hope the above directions help you see clearly and establish your view of marriage and love.

Time's up.

I hope you're well. We'll meet again if we're meant to.

Hello, questioner!

Let's dive in and figure out how you can become aware of and improve your own views on marriage and relationships!

A psychologist once said something really interesting. They said that the person you will marry is predetermined. Or, a person's views on marriage and love exist in the subconscious, although they are not aware of them.

How can we bring our subconscious views of love and marriage to the conscious level? It's an exciting journey!

I think you can try to observe and think about the following aspects, which I'm sure you'll find really interesting!

1. Look at the intimacy between your parents in your original family.

If you are a boy, you may find someone who looks and acts like your mother, and in your relationship with your partner, you may treat your partner in the same way as your father treated your mother. This is a great opportunity to build a strong, loving relationship with your partner!

If the parents in the original family were affectionate, this is a great model to build on! However, if the parents in the original family did not have a very harmonious relationship, it is not a good idea to repeat that dynamic in your own intimate relationships.

And you might even decide to completely deny your parents and re-establish a model of intimate relationships that you approve of!

2. Amazingly, the way parents get along with their children also affects their views on love and marriage!

If parents are encouraging, children may look for a partner who is more accepting and capable in all aspects—and they'll be on their way to finding their perfect match! If parents are strict, children may look for a partner who is critical and not very capable—but there's no need to worry, because there are plenty of other great options out there.

The reason is that we subconsciously feel comfortable in familiar relationships. If you are aware of this, you may want to find a partner who is completely different from your parents—and you can!

3. The above may sound complicated and not easy to figure out, but it's totally doable! We can feel and experience it through spending time with your partner.

When you're with your partner, it's a great idea to spend some time together just observing. See if you feel comfortable with each other and whether you need to express yourself deliberately. It's also a great idea to see how the other person responds to what you say, whether they agree or disagree, and how you feel.

A good relationship is one that is mutually appreciative and nurturing. In other words, the person who makes you feel good about yourself is a perfect match for you!

4. And guess what? The above two methods are also suitable for your partner! You can find out how the parents in her original family get along.

It would be great to know how they get along! And it would be really helpful to understand how her parents' attitudes towards her affect her.

This is a great way to find out what kind of partner she's looking for!

Ask her how she feels when she's with you! What does she want from you?

Her needs are her views on love and marriage, and they're as unique as she is!

5. You can seek help from a marriage counselor. It's a great idea! Letting the subconscious mind rise to the level of consciousness will make your future married life happy and fulfilling, and you will avoid making detours.

I'm so excited to share this with you! It's just a reference, but I think you'll find it helpful.

I really hope this helps! Best regards!

Thank you for the question.

There is no unified standard for how to perceive and improve one's own views on love and marriage, or how to understand the views on love and marriage of one's partner.

In light of the above, I would like to share some thoughts for your reference:

First and foremost, it is essential to understand that love is the driving force behind marriage. Love and marriage are ultimately shaped by one's fundamental needs.

Recent studies have indicated that love is a fundamental human impulse, and that an ideal love marriage is essentially a chemical reaction in the brain.

It is therefore evident that the determining factor in romantic love and a happy marriage is to be found within the individual, in the primitive brain area that reflects desire and motivation, rather than in the comparison of social reality and the judgment of right and wrong.

To achieve this, it is essential to gain a deep understanding of one's own needs. This will ensure that any realistic expectations are not influenced, allowing a view of marriage that is truly aligned with one's heart's desire.

It is important to note that each individual has their own expectations and requirements regarding love and marriage.

For example, what are the family circumstances? What is the financial situation?

Such factors as personal charm and so forth.

It is also not uncommon to experience some level of discontent in genuine romantic relationships and marriages.

However, this dissatisfaction may not be entirely detrimental to the success of the relationship. The discrepancy between expectations and reality will prompt you and your partner to reflect on and evaluate your relationship.

As is the case with the questioner, there is a need to repeatedly think about and seek support in perceiving, sorting out, and communicating their respective views on marriage and love.

There are numerous instances in real life that illustrate the fact that the views on marriage and love held by men and women are not always identical. In fact, there are many examples of successful opposite situations.

It is therefore recommended that, when getting to know each other's views on marriage and love, neither party should be too demanding of perfection and complete fulfillment. Instead, trust should be placed in one's own inner choice.

It is my personal opinion that, provided both parties have broadly similar opinions and interests and are heading in a similar direction, differences in detail should not be a significant issue. Rather, they are problems that need to be addressed and resolved at a later stage.

Given that an individual's lifetime encompasses a series of challenges, it is unreasonable to assume that a single decision regarding love and marriage can fully address all eventualities.

I hope you find this information useful.

Greetings, question asker. I am the Heart Exploration coach, Gu Daoxi Fengshou Slender Donkey.

It is unclear whether the questioner is interested in understanding the concept of love and marriage, whether they desire a romantic relationship, or whether they are seeking a relationship with the goal of marriage. These three scenarios may entail significant differences.

We learn from either our own experiences or the experiences of others. The questioner may attempt to comprehend the opinions of those in their immediate vicinity regarding their partner in a relationship. This may include identifying any shortcomings that are unacceptable, even if they are expressed. Additionally, it may entail discerning the attitudes of others towards relationships.

For example, consulting with one's parents and friends to ascertain their perceptions of the types of individuals with whom one is likely to have discordant relationships may prove beneficial in forming an accurate assessment.

If the relationship is solely based on romantic attraction, the partners may enjoy each other's company and have minimal expectations of each other. Their perspectives on financial matters and ethical conduct may align more closely, which could contribute to a sense of ease and comfort within the relationship.

However, if the individual displays a lack of happiness when in the presence of the other person and exhibits difficulty in letting go, it may be more indicative of a tendency towards emotional vulnerability than a genuine expression of love. In such instances, it may be beneficial for the questioner to adopt an objective perspective and observe the dynamics between the two individuals.

In the event that the questioner's objective is to establish a relationship with the ultimate goal of marriage, it may be beneficial for them to seek to gain a deeper understanding of the other person's family. As the adage goes, "Love is a matter of two people, marriage is a matter of two families." By fostering greater contact prior to marriage, the questioner may gain a more comprehensive insight into the suitability of the other person, which could potentially lead to a more harmonious relationship after marriage.

For example, whether the other person is a mama's boy, whether the other person's family is male chauvinistic, and how the other person's parents interact, among other factors, may all help the questioner to understand the suitability of the other person.

For example, one might consider whether the other person values the questioner, treats the questioner like one of the family right away, and invites the questioner to eat congee and pickles. It is possible that the other person does not value the questioner. The questioner might want to try to sense the other person's behavior at the dinner table. If the other person only cares about themselves and only orders what they want to eat, the questioner might want to be careful.

It is important to understand each other's hygiene and other detailed requirements. What may appear to be insignificant at first may, in fact, be a significant factor in the deterioration of a marriage. For example, one person may be clean and the other not, or one person may be particularly enterprising and the other quite laid-back. These seemingly minor details can, over time, lead to a breakdown in intimacy. To illustrate this point, I once read a short story in which a man asked his future wife why her parents had divorced. She replied, "One of them only used spoons while the other only used chopsticks." While this may sound like a joke, in the context of the daily grind of life, it can have a profound impact on a relationship.

It is advisable to attempt to comprehend each other's preferences with regard to culinary preferences and the arrangement of dishes during mealtimes. In the event that one individual is certain that another does not enjoy a specific side dish, yet proceeds to place it on the table, it may be prudent for the latter to exercise caution.

It is important to comprehend the manner in which each party approaches and responds to disagreements. If the tendency is to assign blame, it can potentially lead to the deterioration of the relationship.

It is beneficial to gain an understanding of one's own personality in relationships. Once an individual has a clear understanding of their own characteristics, it may be easier to identify potential partners who complement them or are a good match. "How to Hug a Hedgehog" can assist the questioner in developing a deeper comprehension of their own personality in relationships.

It is challenging to anticipate the actions of a prospective romantic partner and then modify them through one's own behaviors. An alternative approach may be to first cultivate self-awareness and then seek out a partner who is compatible with one's needs and values, with whom one can evolve and grow together.

It is recommended that couples attempt to comprehend each other's perspectives on marriage, parenting, and attitudes towards caring for each other's parents in their advanced years. This may assist the questioner in mitigating conflicts when confronted with challenges in the future.

Prior to the arrival of a romantic interest, the questioner may endeavor to enhance their personal growth and development. As one's abilities and experience increase, there is a corresponding maturation in one's thinking, awareness of responsibilities, and clarity regarding one's desires.

Loving someone may not entail a complete positive assessment of the other person's attributes and a desire to be in a relationship with them. Rather, it may involve an awareness of their shortcomings and a willingness to tolerate their presence.

It is important to understand one's own boundaries and bottom lines. These are the insurmountable red lines in a relationship (such as zero or countless incidents of domestic violence). Should the other person cross this line, the questioner may need to consider their options carefully.

It is my contention that, subsequent to acquiring knowledge of the aforementioned perspectives, the questioner will be in a position to form an independent opinion regarding the selection of a spouse. I would therefore recommend perusing the texts entitled "When You Start Loving Yourself, the Whole World Will Love You Back" and "If I Knew Before Marriage."

I wish you the best of success in your endeavors.

Hello, questioner! I'm a heart exploration coach, and I'm here to help.

I've read your post and I'm here to help! It seems like you're having some relationship issues. It's totally normal to feel confused about love and marriage. How do you define love?

It's totally normal to feel confused about your relationship and your partner's future role in it. You might just have a feeling, a feeling of wanting something, but you can't put a specific name to it.

It's totally normal to feel this way! You might be longing for a good relationship right now, and you have certain feelings and preferences in your heart, including what kind of relationship you want to have in the future. You can't put it into words, and you are very confused and puzzled about everything. But don't worry! Once you are really in such a relationship, you will understand everything clearly.

Let me help you take a deep breath and sort things out, my friend.

1. Mutual respect and understanding

It's so important to remember that whether it's marriage or a relationship, it's all about mutual respect and understanding. It's vital to learn to respect each other's values, living habits, family backgrounds, and other differences. Try not to interfere in each other's lives too much. Even in intimate relationships, it's so important to respect each other's wishes and not force the other person to do things they don't like or accept opinions they don't agree with. The best way to get along with each other is to allow yourself to be yourself and allow others to be themselves. This will make your relationship more balanced and harmonious.

2. Sincerity and trust

The key to a happy and warm marriage or relationship is mutual sincerity and trust. It's so important to be honest with each other, and to avoid hiding important information or lying to deceive each other. At the same time, it's vital to establish a relationship of mutual trust and avoid doubting or suspecting each other. When these things are in place, a marriage or relationship can last a long time and go smoothly!

3. It's important to know how to balance the relationship between the two of you.

Every kind of relationship is full of both rationality and emotion. A good relationship is one in which both parties know how to strike a balance between the two. Not only is there a balance between rationality and emotion, but also a balance in the way they get along. When you're falling in love, it's natural to feel lots of emotion. But it's also important to think things through and analyse the situation. Try not to be too emotional. In marriage, you also need to rationally face the various problems and challenges in family life. The two of you need more understanding, trust, tolerance and respect in order to better compromise and respect each other in the relationship.

4. Learn to take responsibility and give!

If you truly love each other, you'll be willing to take responsibility and make sacrifices for each other. This is the responsibility and commitment in marriage and relationships. This is a very important issue. It's easy to say you love someone, but it's not easy to truly and unselfishly give of yourself for that person. Beautiful relationships always begin with unreserved giving. This is true for almost all of the relationships that have confused you. Don't think about it so much, just be brave and love!

I really hope my answer helps you! If you want to talk more, you can just follow me (click on my personal homepage), choose the Heart Exploration service, and send me a message. I'm always here for you and I love you!

Hello! Thanks for your question.

A person's views on love and marriage are influenced by many things, including personal experience, family background, and social culture. It's important to understand your own views and your partner's views to have a healthy relationship and a long-lasting marriage.

Here are some suggestions and thoughts on your questions.

1. Know and improve your views on love and marriage.

Think about your views on love and marriage. Start with your own experiences. Think about what you value in a relationship and what you hope to get out of it.

Think about what you want from married life.

Talk to others about your views on love and marriage. This will help you understand them better and identify any problems.

Read and learn about different views on love and marriage. This can help you understand love and marriage better.

2. Know what love means to you.

What do you need in a relationship? Think about what you really need. Is it companionship, care, understanding, or other kinds of fulfillment?

Knowing your needs helps you know your relationship status.

Imagine your ideal relationship. Is it romantic or down-to-earth?

Is it exciting or stable? Imagine it to understand what you want.

3. Know what you want in a partner.

List keywords for the traits or abilities you want in a partner.

Think about your past relationships. What traits or behaviors left a lasting impression on you? These traits or behaviors may be what you hope for in a future partner.

4. Understand your partner's views on love and marriage.

Talk to your partner. This is the best way to understand their views on love and marriage. Ask them about their views and what they value in a relationship.

Observe behavior. You can learn about your partner's attitude towards love and marriage by observing her in everyday life. Is she willing to devote time and energy to you?

Does she respect your opinions and choices? Is she willing to face challenges with you?

5. Help the other person think about themselves and share their views on marriage and love.

Make sure it's a comfortable environment.

Ask open-ended questions to guide your partner to think about their views on love and marriage. For example, "What's most important in a relationship?"

"What is your ideal married life like?"

Listen and understand. Don't interrupt or offer your opinion until they're done sharing.

Share your thoughts. After the other person has finished sharing, share your own thoughts on marriage and love. By sharing, you can understand each other better.

Marriage and love are complex and personal. To reach a consensus, both parties must be honest and communicate deeply. I hope these suggestions help!

I'm happy to be able to talk about this with you. Recently, there have been some new marriage guidance services on the market, aimed at newlyweds (men and women about to enter married family life). As the book "If Only I Knew Before Marriage" describes, these can provide people with some professional guidance on love and marriage, so that marriage and gender relations can be better managed. Let's take a look at your confusion:

1. When we say "dating," we mean getting to know each other better as you spend more time together.

When we say someone is "dating" someone, we mean they're in a relationship. Dating is about getting to know each other, including basic information like height, weight, interests, hobbies, work, income, career prospects, etc. It's also about understanding each other's software and hardware, family background, parents' situation, etc.

There are lots of ways to get along together, like eating together, chatting, going for walks, watching movies, and partying. You can get a sense of each other's values through doing things together.

For instance, if the other person is a spendthrift and always pays the bill, it might be a sign of generosity. As a man, he tends to be responsible and attentive, and he takes better care of and protects his woman. It could also be a case of being vain.

If you act like you're above it all around your girlfriend, will you still be that way in the future?

For instance, you can tell if someone is kind or mean by how they treat children, beggars, and vulnerable groups in society. Are they helpful or contemptuous?

In short, from falling in love to getting married, the two people need to go through a period of adjustment in several stages: adjusting their interests and hobbies, adjusting their living habits, and adjusting their families.

Our habits of life reflect our values and outlook on life. In a sense, life is our best teacher.

Get to know each other better by communicating more.

You don't have to lay out your views on marriage and love on the table to understand and solve problems. You can capture some of the other person's thoughts and views from the interaction process.

A good man looks after a good woman, and a good woman looks after a good man. True love can support each other, grow together, and help each other to flourish.

The best kind of love is a two-way street.

It's so important to understand your partner's views on love and marriage. It's a great way to build a happy, loving relationship! Everyone's views on love and marriage are influenced by lots of different things, like their upbringing, family background, and cultural environment. So, it's really important to understand and respect your partner's views on love and marriage to keep your relationship strong and happy!

I'm so excited to share with you how you can gain a deeper understanding of your partner's views on love and marriage. We'll be looking at this from a fresh perspective and point of view.

1. Have a nice, open chat with your partner.

It's so important to understand your partner's views on love and marriage! The best way to do this is through a frank and open dialogue. In a relationship, it's essential that both partners feel safe and comfortable expressing their views and feelings.

You can choose a good time to start the conversation in a relaxed manner. For example, you could say, "I'd love to talk to you about your views on love and marriage. What do you think?" This kind of opening can help guide the other person into the topic while also showing your sincerity and concern.

As you chat, you can gently steer the conversation towards love and marriage by asking questions. For instance, you could say, "What do you think is the most important quality in a relationship?"

"Or, you could ask something like, 'What do you hope our relationship will be like?'" These kinds of questions can really get the other person thinking and help them express their thoughts in a more in-depth way.

Also, give your partner the chance to really share her thoughts and feelings. It's important to let her do so without interrupting or judging her views.

2. Pay close attention to how the other person acts and what they're like.

It's also a great idea to keep an eye on how your partner acts and what they say in the relationship. This can help you understand their views on love and marriage better. People often show what they really believe by the way they act.

So, you can get a good idea of what she thinks about marriage and love by watching how she acts in a relationship.

For instance, you can see how your partner handles disagreements and challenges in the relationship. Does she tend to communicate directly to resolve problems, or does she choose to avoid or remain silent?

Her approach shows you what she values in a relationship. You can also see how she treats herself and others, like whether she respects your opinions and feelings and whether she's willing to make sacrifices and changes for you.

This will really help you understand her views on marriage and love better.

3. Learning and exploring together is a great way to connect with your partner!

It's so important to understand your partner's views on marriage and love. It's not a one-way process, though. It's a two-way street! You can read books, articles, or even psychological studies on marriage and love with your partner. You can learn and grow together!

This process is a great way to deepen your understanding and trust, while also helping you clarify your views on marriage and love.

As you learn and explore together, you can share your views and feelings, and also listen to each other's ideas. Through communication and discussion, you can discover what you have in common and what makes you different. Then, you can find ways to resolve any differences you have.

This process is a great way to deepen your understanding of each other and strengthen your relationship.

4. Show each other respect and try to understand each other's differences.

As you learn more about your partner's views on marriage and love, you might find that you have some differences. These differences could come from things like different upbringings, family backgrounds, or cultural environments.

When you're faced with these differences, it's so important to respect and understand each other's views.

Everyone has their own views and values, and that's totally okay! In a relationship, it's so important to respect each other's differences and choices.

Instead of trying to change each other's views, let's learn to accept and understand each other. At the same time, let's seek common ground and find ways to resolve differences.

This is the only way to build a happy, strong relationship!

5. Stay in touch!

It's so important to understand your partner's views on marriage and love. It's an ongoing process that requires the joint efforts and commitment of both parties. In a relationship, we should maintain open and honest communication and constantly share our thoughts and feelings with each other.

And don't forget to adjust your views on marriage and love according to each other's changes and needs!

For example, when you face some new challenges or difficulties, you can discuss them together and find a solution. In the process, you may find that your views on marriage and love have changed or adjusted, and that's okay!

This is totally normal! It's actually a great chance for you both to grow and improve together.

It's so important to understand each other when it comes to love and marriage. After all, we're all different! By having open and honest conversations, observing each other's behaviour and attitudes, learning and exploring together, respecting and understanding differences, and communicating and adjusting continuously, we can gain a deeper understanding of each other's views on love and marriage. This will help us to build a happy and healthy relationship together!