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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
Hello, I'm Hua Er.
If you want to cry, then cry! I understand your situation very well. You don't like studying but are forced to do it, and you have a lot of worries but nowhere to talk about them. What can you do when you realize you're not happy?
Express your inner thoughts. The questioner said, "I don't want to learn. I hate learning. I hate school. I hate teachers. I hate students. I hate everything about school." There must be so much frustration and sadness that it is hard to express. The questioner needs to find ways to express these unhappinesses.
For example, take out a pen and paper, put on some headphones, and write down all the unhappy things that come to mind without any need for order or logic. Then, listen to some light music and immerse yourself in it. After you've finished, see if you feel any better.
The questioner should also try to abstractly draw out those unpleasant scenes if they are willing to draw.
The questioner can also join the group chat on the Yixinli platform or the free voice group chat every night to express their confusion.
You can also choose to pay for text-based psychological counseling or voice counseling, and just get it all out.
If studying is too hard, you need to make some changes. Studying is difficult, and when we find it difficult to gain a sense of achievement in studying, we are even less willing to study. You need to take things slowly and lower your expectations and demands. Find a subject you like best (or find one that is easiest for you to accept) among the subjects you are currently studying, and then focus on this one subject first. Look at one of the knowledge points in it, and reward yourself with a lollipop (or something else) every time you solve a knowledge point, slowly cultivating your curiosity and sense of achievement in solving problems.
We don't compare ourselves with other students in the class. We compare ourselves with ourselves, and that's that. As long as today's self has learned a little more than yesterday's self, even if it is just learning a simple mathematical formula or memorizing an English word, it is fine. With time, the question owner will reap rewards.
If you persevere, the clouds will part and the way will clear. The questioner wants to transfer to a technical school in his sophomore year. Persevere and finish high school. You'll have a diploma. Society is competitive. Many people regret not upgrading their education. Even technical work requires a diploma.
You must find a reason to persevere! Your high school days will be the most unforgettable days of your life.
Develop hobbies. If the questioner doesn't like learning textbook knowledge, they should develop their own potential in their spare time without affecting their studies in class. They can search for related videos on bilibili to learn more and expand their knowledge, whether it's mechanical engineering, electronic information, digital products, or anything else. Finding something you like can also be the strength that supports us in life.
Think carefully about your life goals. Find some time, put down your phone, close your eyes, and imagine your future life. Envision a high-tech and intelligent home, riding in an unmanned car, and a colorful world. Open your eyes. Life is about striving. So what career are you going to pursue after graduating from high school? Or what major are you going to choose at a technical university?
A chef who can cook a mean meal? A dentist who can sweep a clinic clean?
A heartwarming announcer? Or what?
What are your life goals?
The questioner must think seriously about their life goals and become our driving force.
I'm sure the above will be of some help to the questioner. I believe the questioner can do it, so let's go!
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I totally get how you feel, it's really tough when you're going through something like this and it seems like no one listens. It feels like a heavy weight on your chest, especially with the pressure from school and family. I wish there was an easy fix, but maybe talking to someone outside of your family, like a counselor or a trusted teacher, could help you sort out these feelings. They might be able to offer some guidance that feels more supportive.
It sounds like you're carrying a lot of frustration and sadness inside, and it's understandable that you want to express it. Sometimes writing down your thoughts or finding a creative outlet can be a way to release some of that pain. Maybe try drawing, painting, or even just journaling to let out what you're feeling. It might not solve everything, but it can be a start in understanding yourself better.
I'm sorry you're feeling this way, but I'm glad you shared. It's important to acknowledge how you feel, even if it's hard. There are people who care about you and want to help, even if it doesn't feel like it right now. Perhaps reaching out to a friend, or even joining a support group where others share similar experiences, could make you feel less alone. You don't have to go through this by yourself.
Feeling this overwhelmed is really challenging, and it's okay to admit that things are hard. If you're thinking about dropping out, maybe consider discussing your options with a career advisor. They can provide information on technical schools and other paths that might align more with your interests. It's also okay to take a step back and reassess what you need for your wellbeing. Remember, it's alright to seek help and explore different possibilities for your future.