The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is now somewhat cold. I want to ease it, but I feel anger and unwillingness inside!
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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
My mother died when I was in high school!
I don't know if it's related to the residual problems in my relationship with my mother!
There are many conflicts with my mother-in-law, and I cannot get along with her intimately and friendly! I get angry easily whenever we talk.
Currently, there is mostly no communication!
I also feel quite uncomfortable.
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Comments
I can relate to feeling conflicted and uncomfortable in such a difficult relationship. Losing my own mother has left me with challenges in connecting with others too.
It sounds like you're carrying a lot of pain from losing your mother, which might be affecting how you connect with your motherinlaw now. That's really tough.
The loss of my mom during my teenage years shaped how I interact with people, especially with those in a maternal role. It's hard to bridge that gap when there's so much unresolved grief.
Every time I try to speak with my motherinlaw, the frustration bubbles up, reminding me of the void left by my own mother's passing. It's not easy to navigate these emotions.
I wonder if seeking some form of counseling could help ease the tension. Sometimes having a neutral party assist in communication can make a big difference.