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What should I do if I am always worried that I have cancer, and it makes me anxious and miserable?

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What should I do if I am always worried that I have cancer, and it makes me anxious and miserable? By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

I am very afraid of getting cancer. Whenever I feel even the slightest discomfort, I worry and fear. For example, if more than two friends say, "You've lost weight recently," I will wonder if I have a disease. If I have a spot on my face, I will worry about whether I have skin cancer. Then I frequently go to the hospital for tests or see a traditional Chinese medicine doctor to take my pulse.

I can only feel relieved when the doctor says that I am fine. At times, I have to go to the hospital as often as once a month. I know this is a sickness, and it is very painful. I don't know what to do.

Hazel Jennifer Jackson Hazel Jennifer Jackson A total of 5722 people have been helped

It's totally understandable to be afraid of getting cancer. It's a scary thing to think about, and it's natural to be sensitive to feedback from friends and changes in your body. It's okay to want frequent confirmation from your doctor to feel at ease. It's really tough to live in a state of constant worry about a terminal illness. It's painful and torturous, and you might feel like you want to get rid of it, but you're not sure how. I can feel your confusion, your struggle, and your anxiety.

It's totally normal to be afraid of illness, especially terminal illness. There's no need to feel guilty or anxious about it. It's important to understand what's making you feel so afraid of cancer. Is it the fear of death?

It's totally normal to be nervous about treatments like taking medicine or getting injections. And it's also normal to be afraid of physical pain.

It's totally normal to feel afraid of the financial burden of cancer treatment or of being separated from your loved ones. It's okay to acknowledge your concerns, recognize them, and then take steps to reduce the risk. The good news is that anxiety can be managed. It's important to understand that constant worrying isn't good for your health.

Fear of death – it's something we all have to face at some point. But what death teaches us is how to live our lives to the fullest, appreciating the people and things that matter most to us, and making the most of our limited time on this earth. It's about doing what we love, seeing the people we love, going where we want to go, climbing a mountain… It's about living life to the absolute fullest, without any regrets. That's the meaning that death brings to us.

Fear of physical pain during treatment – Don't worry! You can make an exercise plan that starts with something simple and short. Regular exercise is a great way to boost your body's immunity and improve your mood, which is a long-term guarantee against illness.

Fear of huge medical bills – Don't worry! You can purchase medical insurance and critical illness insurance from a regular insurance company every year. The costs range from high to low, and you can purchase according to your needs and conditions.

Fear of being separated from family and friends – refer to the solution for the fear of death. Explain that family and friends are super important to you, and that you'll make sure to spend as much time with them as you can while you're here. Cherish the happy times you spend with them!

And finally, another really important thing to remember is to arrange for a physical examination once a year! Major illnesses don't just pop up out of nowhere. They usually take a while to develop. And the ones that do happen quickly are usually just routine minor problems like colds and flu.

Medical check-ups are a great way to keep an eye on your physical condition. They help you catch major and minor illnesses early, which means you can avoid any serious health problems.

I really hope that with all these comprehensive layers of insurance, you can reduce your anxiety and worries and enjoy life every day with ease and joy! Now all you need to do is take action right away!

Hi, I'm Chen Yu, a psychological counselor. I'm here to help you find the light in your heart!

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Nathan Andrew Powell Nathan Andrew Powell A total of 1221 people have been helped

Hello!

From what you've told me, it seems like you're really worried about your anxiety/feeling-life-is-terrible-with-poor-physical-condition-and-inner-anxiety-how-to-break-the-deadlock-10527.html" target="_blank">physical condition. It's so understandable! I can imagine how reassuring it must feel to go to the hospital and see a doctor, especially when you're feeling so unsure.

Hypochondria is a condition where someone is always worried that they're unwell and doesn't trust the doctor after a hospital visit. Some patients can be diagnosed with certain long-term illnesses that aren't serious, but they have excessive doubts.

This kind of doubt can really affect your normal life and cause a lot of suffering.

From what you've told me, it seems like you still believe the doctor's diagnosis, but you're just feeling really anxious about your physical condition. It's totally understandable! It's not hypochondria.

We all experience anxiety in our lives. Some of us worry about our health, some about our work, and some about our relationships.

And you've been putting all your anxiety on your body, sweetie.

Anxiety is worrying about something that hasn't happened yet, and it can really take a lot out of us. When the future really comes, you might find you don't have enough energy left to deal with it, which can make things even more stressful. It's so important to slow down and listen to our inner voice: what are we afraid of?

I'm sure it's the same for you. I don't know who has cancer, and it affects me a lot. For example, some of my relatives didn't have any health problems, but suddenly they were diagnosed with a disease.

I can see how this might make you worry that this could happen to you too.

It's only natural that we're all afraid of death.

If you were to get sick, what would you regret? I'd be really sad if I got sick and hadn't done everything I wanted to do.

I know it can be scary to think about, but focusing on all the wonderful things you want to do and not wasting your precious time on things that don't matter will make you feel less afraid of actually losing your life.

It's so important to remember that the probability of getting cancer in one's lifetime is very high. This is because as we get older, it becomes more and more difficult to resist cancer cells. The good news is that we may have cancer cells in our bodies, but when our resistance is high, they will not affect us.

So, give your immune system a boost and feel more confident about your health. That way, you won't be so afraid of getting cancer.

Come on, you can do it!

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Graham Jackson Teachers are the weavers of the fabric of education, thread by thread.

I understand your fear of cancer, and it's really affecting your daily life. It's important to talk to a mental health professional who can help you manage these anxieties in healthier ways.

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Julia Iris Industriousness is the fire that warms the cold hands of failure.

Finding myself in similar worries has led me to realize the value of focusing on what I can control. Maybe together we can explore some relaxation techniques or mindfulness practices that might ease your concerns.

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Luis Miller Failure is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.

It sounds like you're going through a tough time with constant worry about your health. Have you considered joining a support group where you can meet others who share similar fears? Sometimes sharing experiences helps a lot.

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Joanna Miller Teachers are the supporters who hold up students when they stumble on the path of learning.

I admire your proactive approach by checking with doctors regularly, but perhaps finding a balance would be beneficial. Could setting up a routine checkup schedule provide you with peace of mind while reducing unnecessary visits?

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Veronica Thomas Forgiveness is a way to honor our own values and beliefs.

Your concerns are valid, yet it seems they have escalated into something more serious. Seeking therapy could offer tools to cope better with health anxiety and improve your quality of life.

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