Dear questioner,
My name is Yi Ming, and I'm a heart exploration coach.
I empathize with your situation and hope to offer some insight and encouragement.
1. It might be helpful to reassure yourself and take a moment to re-evaluate the situation.
You have mentioned that you have been diagnosed with anxiety disorder and insomnia, that your weight has increased significantly following the use of anti-anxiety medication, and that you are experiencing difficulties in accepting your body.
I can understand why you might feel this way. It's a normal reaction.
It is important to remember that taking medication can have side effects.
It's understandable that we didn't anticipate the extent of the impact.
It's understandable that you're feeling more frustrated about your weight now, given that you were already experiencing some anxiety.
At this time, it would be helpful to give ourselves a little extra love and attention, to acknowledge our sadness and unhappiness, and to consider a range of ways to make adjustments.
Perhaps it would be helpful to try to see things in a different light.
We may find that we adjust from feeling anxious and having insomnia to no longer feeling anxious and having insomnia. It's also worth noting that our weight often changes.
It is possible that, with proper conditioning, the weight may return to normal after stopping the medication.
Perhaps the key is not to dwell on our current challenges, but to embrace a more positive outlook.
If we could find it in our hearts to accept ourselves, regardless of whether we are fat or thin,
Then, we may be more likely to achieve the results we want.
It may be helpful to remember that changes based on liking yourself are more likely to happen.
2. Perhaps it would be helpful to consider some additional ways to cope with the current situation.
I'm not sure how long you've been taking medication.
Could I ask how effective it is?
Some doctors may suggest taking medication during acute anxiety attacks.
We can discuss with your doctor the possibility of changing or reducing the dosage. It is not always necessary to rely on medication to relieve symptoms.
Psychological therapy can be an effective approach for addressing anxiety.
Some anxiety-reduction exercises may be helpful in improving coping strategies for anxiety.
It may be helpful to consider that we can improve anxiety symptoms by adjusting our perceptions.
It is worth noting that anxiety can also have some positive effects.
While it is an uncomfortable experience,
It may be helpful to consider that complete elimination of anxiety is not necessary.
Instead, we come to understand that excessive anxiety is meaningless.
It is not uncommon to experience anxiety about anxiety itself.
It can be helpful to think of anxiety in the same way. If we focus on our anxiety too much, it can become more intense. This is because our attention is fueling the problem.
It may be helpful to try not to dwell on the things that make us anxious, but rather to acknowledge our anxiety without overthinking it. In time, this approach can help to ease our anxiety.
Some people liken anxiety to a ball. When we focus on it, it can feel like bouncing a ball, and anxiety can become more intense.
If we ignore it, anxiety will no longer trouble us.
While we may understand the principles, it can be challenging to put them into practice.
It may be helpful to consider cultivating equanimity, living in the present, and not dwelling on things that haven't happened yet.
It may be helpful to avoid directly confronting anxiety, as this can sometimes lead to increased feelings of distress.
Perhaps we could consider a similar approach when it comes to our own weight gain. Rather than fighting it, we could accept our current weight and then take steps to address it in a proactive manner. This could help us to feel more at ease with our bodies and reduce the negative impact anxiety has on us.
It might also be helpful to remember that we can't always control everything, and that sometimes we just need to let things happen naturally. Try to do what you need to do every day, and try to live with your anxiety. Over time, it will probably become less of an obstacle for you.
It may also be helpful to consider seeking out methods that align with our individual needs and preferences.
It may be helpful to consider that moderate exercise, meditation, and spending half an hour in the sun every day could potentially contribute to the alleviation of anxiety.
If it might be of interest to you, you may wish to consider reading "Emotional First Aid: A Seven-Day Self-Healing Method to Resolve Anxiety, Depression, and Insomnia" by Li Hongfu.
If you feel so inclined, please feel free to share these.
I wish you the best.


Comments
I can totally relate to how overwhelming that must feel. It's tough dealing with anxiety and insomnia, and then the weight gain just adds another layer of stress. Just know you're not alone in this.
The journey through anxiety and the side effects of medication is challenging. I admire your courage for seeking help. Maybe exploring different treatment options or speaking to a nutritionist could provide some support.
It's heartbreaking to see our body change in ways we don't expect. Remember, your health is what matters most. Perhaps incorporating gentle exercise and a balanced diet might help manage the weight while focusing on your mental wellbeing.
Dealing with anxiety, insomnia, and unexpected weight gain can be really hard. Have you considered talking to your doctor about adjusting your medication? Sometimes there are alternatives that might not have the same side effects.
Feeling out of sync with your body can be so frustrating. It's important to find peace within yourself first. Maybe looking into therapy or support groups could offer comfort and strategies to cope with both the anxiety and the changes in your body.