What should I do if I want so many things and always push myself, feeling tired?

Hello, question asker!

From your description, I can see that you are aware and courageous in facing problems head-on. Well done.

From your description, it's clear that the questioner is a highly motivated individual striving to become a better version of themselves. I'd like to know what has led to this mindset and how long it's been present.

Apart from these, I'd like to know if there are any other feelings. And when do you not feel this way?

Tell me, what did you do when you didn't feel like that?

From your description, I am reminded of the saying that life heals all those who are willing to be healed. You are aware of and actively seeking out problems, and you are already on the path to change.

You're not alone. Most people experience this. It's normal to aspire to something good. You'll work harder and strive for it when you have expectations, desires, and hopes. Don't put too much pressure on yourself.

You say you're always looking for something better but don't know what you want. You try to distract yourself by being busy, but what is this distraction?

I believe that when you are aware of it, you will realize that this kind of upward striving has brought you an invisible pressure, which may bring you some anxiety. What do you think?

I don't know what kind of family environment the questioner is in. When you have this kind of situation and uncomfortable feeling, you need to communicate with your family. It's important to find out how your family and friends view the pressure you feel to study.

I don't know what's happened to you, but you need to let your imagination run wild. What would the best possible state be? When you reach that state, how will you be different?

Who will be the first to notice your change and difference?

I don't know what happened to you, but it's clear that you've been working too hard and feeling anxious as a result. I'm going to give you some advice that will help you relieve these negative emotions and feel more relaxed.

Let go of stress and accept yourself.

While motivation requires pressure, excessive pressure is counterproductive. It's essential to recognize when you're under too much pressure and release it. Accept and allow yourself to be where you are. Everyone's life is different, and only by accepting and allowing yourself can you calm down and better explore what you want and what you can do. If you're not at peace inside and stress and anxiety fill your heart, you won't have the energy to do anything.

You need to accept and allow yourself as you are.

You must understand that accepting and allowing yourself to be where you are now does not mean resigning yourself to mediocrity. It means letting go of the things that cause stress and giving yourself a chance to catch your breath. This will make you more empowered to set out.

You need to learn to release negative emotions.

Your description contains a series of negative emotions such as self-blame, guilt, and anxiety. I know you also feel this way. I'm not good, although it's normal to have emotions, but if they accumulate inside us for a long time, they will have a negative impact on our body and mind. We must release these emotions, get rid of them, and feel relaxed inside. In this way, our efforts will be more powerful. What should we do? You need to try running, swimming, walking, traveling, or finding someone to talk to. These are some ways to help us get rid of bad emotions, and they are also relatively practical methods. You can try them.

③ Look within yourself and stop.

From your description, it's clear you've been studying hard. But you still can't feel what you want? If you want to change, stop and look inward. See your own strengths and advantages. You've worked hard and you haven't given up. That's your greatest strength and greatest resource. We tend to look outward, but you'll never see the bottom that way. Look inward. Focus on yourself, your strengths, and you'll discover many strengths. Even the things you feel dissatisfied with are admired by others. When you hit a bottleneck, stop and use meditation and other methods to take a look. Look within yourself. It will help. What do you think?

You need to find external resources.

You are your own psychological expert. When you can't break through and find that catch, you can look for simple resources. Get feedback from others. Find good feedback. Get help from a professional psychological counselor. The counselor can use professional psychological techniques to help you find the root of your consciousness, explore why you feel this way, and why you can't stop learning. Why is it that as soon as you stop, negative emotions exist? The counselor can create a safe, warm, and inclusive environment for you. You will see yourself and gain strength to believe that you can do it. You will have more strength to face problems and work harder.

I know you're not willing to accept the status quo. You want to break through and lay a foundation for a better future for yourself. You've been persevering in your studies, even though you don't know what you really want. There will be some negative emotions in the process, but you can overcome them. When you do, you'll achieve unity of knowledge and action. Everything will be easy.

I want you to know that it's okay. Everything is going to be okay. You will find out what you really want, and you will work hard without any pressure in your studies. The world and I love you, and I believe in you. If you have any questions, you can talk about them on this platform.