When others are weak, I think it's harmless, and I tend to throw a tantrum arbitrarily.

Hello.

This is an interesting question. "When others are weak, they will lose their temper easily." Put more simply, it means "bully the weak and fear the strong." The questioner must be either unaware of their own behavior or unwilling to admit it.

There is a more positive way to deal with bullying. In an unfavorable environment, you can adopt a strategy of giving in to avoid trouble. In other words, people should know how to seek benefits and avoid harm. They should not always be in a passive position because they are out of step with the times. They should know how to protect themselves and learn to develop themselves. This is an expression of wisdom.

The questioner is probably not very old or has not had much life experience. Otherwise, they would be able to distinguish between a kind and a mean person. The kind person does not take advantage of the weak and fears the strong. The mean person does. Everyone has their own principles for dealing with things. If things don't go well for a while, they won't always go well. Everyone is always "carried away" when they are happy. They rarely pay attention to the words and actions of others. When they are at a low point, they often become more sensitive. They therefore pay more attention to the words and actions of others. Therefore, losing a sense of morality when others are vulnerable and trampling on them wantonly undoubtedly plants hidden dangers for the rest of their lives. Interpersonal relationships, even with family members, are difficult to bear when people are bullied and lose their integrity without principle.

Integrity is the key to success, while introspection is the path to promotion.

When dealing with people, if you indulge yourself when others are vulnerable, you are ignoring the reflection of your image. If you get used to it, it will be imprinted in the eyes of more people. Then it will be very difficult to rebuild a good impression after a bad one. Therefore, strength is divided into visible and invisible places. Such people lose the most in the invisible places, and the obstacles that could have been avoided are made worse because of personality flaws, leaving them isolated and helpless.

In dealing with people, you must know the right "degree."

Family members and other people must adhere to a "degree" of behavior. If it goes too far, even if it is not from the heart, excessive behavior is harmful and requires responsibility. Family members are willing to tolerate most of the time out of love, but other people's tolerance is likely to be temporary when "the time is not right." They will accumulate resentment in their hearts and retaliate when they find an opportunity. Positioning yourself correctly is the best way to protect yourself.

Expand your horizons and open your mind.

People are good. They don't bully the weak. Those who do are suffering from inferiority complexes. They're weak and afraid of others being strong. When others are weak, they jump at the chance to show they're not weak.

You must address your inferiority complex, but you need to do so in the right way. Take the positive path, open your heart, learn to tolerate yourself and others, relax, and improve yourself gradually. Don't worry about getting what you want or stepping on others. That won't help you. Instead, focus on developing a healthy mentality to help you grow and avoid future suffering.

Best wishes!

There are so many different kinds of people in the world! Some are more dominant than others, and some are relatively weak. This is why we often find that many people bully the weak or are afraid of the strong. If we are aware of this pattern, we should make adjustments as soon as possible.

It might be helpful to think about whether you can treat the other person equally. Sometimes when someone is vulnerable, they're just being humble. The other person may also be strong at times, and if you always lose your temper, it might make people think there's something wrong with your character.

This might also have a negative impact on your overall temperament. You might not think it's harmful, but the harm could be subtle. It might quietly come into your future life and slowly make you succumb to this bad temper.

Over time, this will make your relationships with others worse, or you might miss out on some of the benefits you want. Your family is your family, and we often have the worst attitude towards the people we trust the most, but your family will still accept and tolerate you.

This doesn't mean we should be arrogant or take things for granted. We all have our own limits of tolerance. If we respect others, they'll be patient with us. We can all imagine that we don't want to be yelled at, and losing our temper will make us feel uncomfortable. I'd highly recommend reading books on anger management, including "The Inner Orangutan: A Serious Theory of Emotional Evolution," "If Only I Had Held Back: A Seven-Step Method of Emotion Management," "Why Didn't You Say Something When You Were Angry?" and "The Empathy Trap." Let's cheer together!

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