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Why do I suddenly dislike people with mental illnesses so much? By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

I am inherently kind-hearted. But suddenly these past few days, I've become extremely disliked towards people with depression (including others with mental illnesses). Seeing those sentimental texts they post on social media makes me feel disgusted; I'm thinking why don't they just die? (I never thought this way before, because I know they are fragile and need care). I feel like I've become antisocial. I dislike these people, because in this world, everyone seeks benefits and avoids harm; those who are ill deserve it, they are just unlucky, they deserve it! These thoughts scare me; I don't know why I feel this way?

Thomas Thomas A total of 7972 people have been helped

What you hate is that too much pretending makes the group less pure, or that you are afraid of becoming a real patient.

The wonderful world of the internet has opened up a whole new realm of possibilities for some people, allowing them to seek benefits and explore new avenues. While this has led to some challenges in the real community, it has also sparked a desire for more authentic connections. The small group of active internet users have sparked a lot of interest and engagement, which is a great sign of how the digital landscape is evolving.

If we take advantage of the kindness of others, we're robbing the community of a place to share. But there's another way! We can help each other by sharing our experiences and offering support.

The good news is that the depressed person is often unable to control their own state. This means they have the opportunity to choose how they respond to the pressure of life in their struggle with themselves. The even better news is that the voice they emit is often more of a cry for salvation.

The Internet has changed everything! It's now a tool for profit and a symbol of covering up mistakes. It seems like everything depression does can escape punishment and gain sympathy to solve the problem. But in fact, this is a kind of misdirection. No matter what kind of psychological problem you have, as long as you have the ability to act independently, you must be responsible for everything you do.

It's time to face your inner thoughts and conquer your feelings of disgust! Don't let fear stop you from pursuing the reasons behind your thoughts. You can do this!

What makes you avoid the good and fear the bad? What makes you suddenly hate people with depression? Or is it that you hate the kind person you used to be? Find a solution to the problem in the collision with your inner self!

Everyone is an individual, and each has their own view of the world formed by their upbringing and social environment. This view does not change suddenly, and it may be a long-term process. In order to conform to the mainstream view of society, people constantly suppress themselves. When the pressure exceeds their tolerance, they will completely explode, turning in a complete opposite direction.

What we hate most is that we attach unrealistic expectations to our lives on such a journey. We want to escape from our predicament through catharsis and express our greatest fears through external manifestations. We want to escape from the journey ahead, and we can!

Embrace your true thoughts! Talk to yourself openly and discover the reasons behind them. Make peace with yourself, accept your imperfections, and don't chase perfection at the cost of losing your integrity.

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Theresa Theresa A total of 9410 people have been helped

Hello!

I'm really sorry to hear that you're feeling down. I'm here for you, and I want you to know that I think you're a great person. I'm not sure if you realize it, but people who are dealing with depression and other mental health issues often have lower energy levels, which can impact their emotions.

But honey, you're not sick.

It's okay to accept yourself and realize that you might not understand "people with a sick mind" right now.

We don't know what you've been through or what changes have occurred, but it has definitely affected your vital energy.

It's not ideal, but it's okay. You're not hurting anyone, and having negative thoughts is no worse than having positive ones.

There's nothing wrong with you. From this perspective, though, the impact of your thoughts is only affecting you, right?

So, tell me, is this state of being difficult and painful? Hug~ It's okay, it's great that we can realize that something is wrong with this problem!

Give ourselves a little pat on the back, and help ourselves get better at our own pace.

From now on, we're not going to worry about or pay attention to people who are sick and have low energy. We're going to focus on ourselves and support ourselves as we gradually improve. When we're able, we'll pay attention to others.

Take a deep breath and calm your emotions. The elephant

From what you've said, I can see you're feeling a lot of negative emotions, including judgment and dissatisfaction with your harsh self-criticism. However, there's no legal or moral obligation for us to be tolerant and understanding of those who are mentally unwell.

I get the feeling you have a lot of negative thoughts about other people and don't accept them. Could this be a kind of projection of "self-unacceptance and intolerance"? Do you think about people with depression, bipolar disorder, etc., who are like this, and how the world still has so much ill will towards them?

So, as you can see, even if you... no one necessarily cares about you. It's important to be honest with yourself. Have you ever had these thoughts?

(%.ω%.%) It's okay to have these thoughts. We can ask ourselves what's wrong and what we want, and slowly satisfy ourselves. If we can't, we can seek professional help.

Then our emotional elephant will be willing to move forward on its own! The mahout, or our rational mind, can stop using the whip to hurt the elephant and force it to move forward!

Here's how you can gradually improve your situation.

1. Give yourself a little time, and also give time a little time. When things don't go your way, read a book; when you're angry, exercise; when you're tired, just relax. Everything will be fine.

2. Pay positive attention to yourself, affirm yourself, and surround yourself with beautiful things.

3. Read more psychology books that are relevant to your current situation. Some good options are "Mr. Toad Goes to the Psychologist," "Accepting Your Imperfections," "Talking to Your Other Self," and "Embracing Your Wonderful Self."

4. If none of the above methods are working for you, please get in touch with a professional as soon as you can.

I hope my answer is helpful to you. Have a great day!

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Peter Peter A total of 1148 people have been helped

Good day,

You describe yourself as a kind individual. However, when you observe someone grappling with a mental health condition such as depression, you feel that they have brought it upon themselves. You are concerned about these thoughts, which indicates that your perception is still rational. You recognize that these thoughts are not acceptable and that they should not exist. This is why you have sought assistance on this platform.

Please describe the circumstances that led to your feelings of disgust and aversion towards people with mental illnesses such as depression. Additionally, please identify the specific mental illness that initially provoked this response.

It would be beneficial to ascertain whether these individuals are actual people in the real world, or merely individuals on social media who claim to be depressed and say things that you consider to be pretentious.

If the individual in question is a real person, what is the nature of the connection between this person and you? Please describe how some of his behavior related to his illness has affected you.

Has he ever caused you physical or verbal harm as a result of his illness? If so, your feelings of disgust towards people with mental illness may be a projection and transference of your own hatred.

If you do not have any first-hand experience with mental illness, but you find the comments made by some individuals on social media to be disturbing, it is important to recognize that the comments made on social media are not necessarily an accurate reflection of reality. Therefore, it is possible that individuals who claim to be depressed on social media may not actually be experiencing that condition. Consequently, the statements made by such individuals may not accurately represent the experiences and perspectives of all individuals with mental illness.

If the comments are causing you discomfort, you have the option of ignoring them.

It is not uncommon for individuals to develop an inexplicable dislike or disgust towards any group, which may be related to past experiences or difficult to understand. Once this erroneous thinking is recognized, it is possible to alter one's perception and reduce the intensity of these feelings.

This line of thinking is not indicative of any personal deficiency. It may be the result of unconscious exposure to certain words or actions that have negatively influenced your perception of this group. I hope you can identify the underlying cause and find resolution.

Furthermore, an enhanced comprehension of the psychological state and symptoms associated with depression and other mental health conditions will facilitate a more nuanced understanding of this group, enabling the formulation of more accurate perceptions and a reduction in the associated stigma.

I hope this information is helpful to you. I wish you a happy life!

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Athena Grace Vaughan Athena Grace Vaughan A total of 1559 people have been helped

"I am naturally benevolent. However, recently I have developed a particular disdain for individuals afflicted with depression.

"The questioner, who is naturally kind, has recently become particularly vexatious to individuals suffering from depression. What has prompted the questioner to alter their perspective and adopt a more critical stance?"

The poster expresses feelings of disgust and shame when confronted with the sentimental texts that others post on social media. This leads to the hope that the individuals responsible for such texts will die. The poster's feelings of humiliation are likely a result of the texts making them feel publicly humiliated. The poster's desire for revenge is limited, as they recognize that they cannot directly attack the individuals responsible for the texts. The individuals in question are perceived as weak and insignificant by the public.

Therefore, the most that can be done is to express one's anger and aggression towards them in this forum, using words, and to tell them to go to hell.

"I am disinclined to extend any sympathy to these individuals, as they appear to be motivated primarily by the pursuit of profit and the avoidance of loss. Those who become ill are regarded as having brought about their own misfortune, and are therefore viewed as deserving of their condition." This statement conveys a complex emotional state, encompassing both pity for the misfortune experienced by others and anger at their perceived lack of effort.

It appears that they are unable to comprehend straightforward and evident truths, and thus the questioner is unable to persuade them, which causes the questioner to experience feelings of anxiety and concern for their well-being, while also eliciting feelings of frustration. The two forces that were originally directed outward are now being forced to withdraw back to the questioner themselves, which is a source of considerable frustration.

"I feel like I've become antisocial. These thoughts scare me," and indeed, it can be seen that the questioner is quite a simple and kind person.

It is erroneous to assume that thoughts equate to actions. The mere presence of certain thoughts does not signify opposition to the entirety of society. It is plausible that your perception of society is unduly simplistic and devoid of complexity, given your purported purity and truthfulness.

One might therefore conclude that they are somewhat pretentious.

Only the individual in question is privy to the specifics of their own lived experience and the underlying reasons for their particular circumstances, which may manifest at a subconscious level.

It is analogous to a shoe that fits one's foot; only the wearer can ascertain the fit. It is inherent that one cannot fully comprehend the circumstances and sentiments of others.

The questioner's feelings indicate that they do not perceive the other person as an "outsider" from a psychological standpoint. Instead, they view them as someone who is relatively close to them. It is difficult to imagine who would be upset over someone who is so far removed from them.

Conversely, the association of the questioner with "antisocial" behavior indicates a recognition of their status as members of society, distinct from the questioner's own position.

The questioner is attempting to psychologically disassociate themselves from the subject, thereby creating a more conducive environment for making appropriate decisions. This behavior also indicates that the questioner is engaged in a process of continuous self-growth.

I am firmly convinced that my response will be of some assistance to you. Wishing you the best.

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Jacob Parker Jacob Parker A total of 7694 people have been helped

Hello, I'm Strawberry.

From what you've told me, I can see that you've been under a lot of stress recently. It's not that you're anti-social, it's just that you're tired of worrying about things. You've been exposed to similar words and situations for a long time, and you've stopped feeling empathetic about them.

Psychologists call it the projection effect. It's when someone attributes their own faults or socially unacceptable desires to others. It's also known as denial projection. This projection occurs subconsciously. Psychological projection is a psychological defense mechanism. It's used to reduce anxiety and stress. It also helps defend the self. This is done to maintain one's inner personality.

Think back to when you first started thinking this way. Did anything happen during the period when this thought occurred? I once had the same thoughts as the original poster, but I didn't think they should just die. I just felt that they were the ones who asked for help in the first place, and when I really wanted to help them, they just preferred to stay stuck in their negative emotions and didn't want to get out. After a few times, it made me doubt myself. I soon realized that it wasn't my problem. It was that kind of people who couldn't help and were afraid of becoming like that themselves that made us tired of associating with such people.

Avoid such people and information.

Everyone has limited abilities and a limited tolerance. Eliminate negative people and information from your life. It's as simple as that. It's similar to watching short videos: the more you pay attention to this kind of information, the more the platform will push these short videos to you. Once a person is exposed to more of this kind of content, it will have a significant impact on their normal lives, so just ignore it when you see it.

2. Adjust your mindset.

We have the right to choose to expose ourselves to positive people and things, which will change our mindset and make us optimistic. Exercise regularly to improve your mood. When you're depressed, exercise will help you feel better. It will also change how you view everything.

3. Pay attention to sudden changes in your emotions.

There's a reason for sudden changes. As I said before, the questioner has been under a lot of stress recently. Think about what's stressing you out. You can detect your emotions, which is a good thing. Only by knowing what your problem is can you find a way to solve it.

4. Accept your emotions.

Everyone has seven emotions and six desires. It's normal to have emotional problems. Accept your emotions and don't doubt your behavior. It's only when you do that you'll be able to sort out the underlying reasons.

Understand your actions, accept your emotions, and then reflect on the background of the emotions. You will see that the impact of these emotions will ease as you sort out the underlying reasons.

I am confident that my answer will be helpful to the questioner. Best wishes.

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Finley Finley A total of 6147 people have been helped

Dear questioner,

Hi, I'm Yi Ming, your Heart Exploration coach.

You have a very good sense of awareness. You are kind by nature, and I'm sure that's why you're here asking this question. In the past few days, you have suddenly had thoughts that you never had before: you hate people with mental illness.

I'm so happy to share what I know with you!

1. Projection is everywhere in life, my friend!

In our daily lives, we all have different tastes. Some people we like, and some we don't.

This is totally normal!

It's only when we hate someone, or even feel aggressive, and become someone we don't even recognize that we can draw attention to ourselves.

It's totally understandable that people who are particularly clean often express extreme disgust towards those who are a bit messy. We've all been there!

But let's look at it from another angle. Could it be that this person's feelings are just as valid as anyone else's?

The great thing about projection is that it shows us where our hearts are. The more love and compassion we have in our hearts, the more sensitive and discerning we are to others.

We're all the same, really. We're sensitive to depression or mental illness, and we don't always accept it inside ourselves.

Even though we know they are vulnerable and need care, we don't accept them.

We then send this unease or frustration outward, onto those with mental illness, so that we can feel better.

And you have these existing ideas, and someone on the Internet said just that, and you just temporarily agreed with that.

2. How can we live with these thoughts in a way that's more comfortable for us?

There's nothing wrong with hating some people, but we have to be careful because it can really hurt us.

There's nothing wrong with hating some people, but we have to be careful because it can really hurt us.

And it's also important to think about how our dislike affects us.

In particular, we think that because we hate them, we become aggressive and even have some relatively evil thoughts, such as "those who are sick deserve it, why don't they die," which goes against our own values. This can cause us to feel a bit restless and confused inside.

At this point, it's really helpful to take a moment to see your own thoughts and reassure yourself.

We know that this only activates our inner feelings of insecurity and powerlessness, and we're here to help.

We all know that depression can feel like a quagmire sometimes. It's so easy to get stuck in the struggle and feel like you're sinking deeper.

It's only natural to feel this way when we see people who are struggling with depression. We can empathize with them and feel helpless and despair ourselves. It's okay to lash out at them, stay away from them, and make ourselves feel better.

It might also be helpful to think of this as our body's way of protecting us.

It's so important to take care of yourself and protect your heart.

At this stage, it can be really helpful to take a little break from this group, whether it's online or in real life. This can help us to stay calm and in control of our emotions.

But don't worry! When we have built up enough inner strength, we can sort out our beliefs about depression and people with mental illness.

The great news is that advances in medicine and psychology are helping more and more people with psychological problems avoid suffering.

It's not their fault, and it's just a disease. A disease is a disease, and a person is a person. You can't define a person by their disease, and that's okay!

And everything changes and develops, my friend.

When the disease comes, it will also go, my friend.

When we can gradually accept more within ourselves, and know that this is just a state of being for some people at a certain stage, it can be so freeing!

We'll be less likely to have such strong emotions, which is a good thing!

Please, just share these.

Wishing you all the best!

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Finley Finley A total of 1428 people have been helped

It's so easy to let our sympathy levels drop when someone is angry, grumpy or anxious. Have you ever thought about what might be going on in their lives that could have led to this sudden change in mood? It's always worth asking ourselves this question, as it can help us to understand what's going on around us.

It's important to remember that psychological illnesses are real, but they don't necessarily affect everyone in the same way. Even if someone you know is struggling with their mental health, you don't have to be directly involved. You can still maintain a healthy distance while they navigate their own journey and you navigate yours.

It's totally normal to feel annoyed or distressed when you read certain comments online. It's like you're suddenly taken out of this very kind state and thrust into this other, less pleasant one. It's okay to acknowledge that your feelings of annoyance might not be entirely directed at the person who wrote the comment.

Because there's so much information on the internet, some people do express their true feelings, while others may be more indifferent. They may say some indifferent things that could even affect someone's whole life.

It's so important to keep that basic sense of compassion alive. We're not asking for high-level empathy, just mutual understanding and respect. That way, everyone can feel free to express themselves. If you don't want to say something negative, don't say it. That way, we can all keep our social resources open and free. And if you're feeling scared, I'm here for you. Please, talk to me.

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Fraser Fraser A total of 3936 people have been helped

Greetings,

I am in a position to offer you some counsel.

From your written description, you indicate that you consider yourself to be kind, yet in the recent past, you have exhibited a particular animosity towards individuals with mental illness. You express disdain for the ostentatious nature of their social media posts. You acknowledge that your current disposition is not a permanent state, and that you previously exhibited greater tolerance and compassion, recognising the suffering of these individuals and a desire to provide assistance.

However, in recent days, your behavior has been markedly incongruent with your typical demeanor. You have expressed irritation towards these individuals.

From your perspective, the world is driven by the pursuit of profit and the avoidance of harm. Those afflicted by illness may not be deserving of sympathy, is your assumption. You are now experiencing a sense of fear and uncertainty regarding these thoughts and their implications for your identity.

One is prompted to inquire as to the cause of this transformation in the subject's demeanor. It is understandable that this change would evoke feelings of unease and apprehension.

First and foremost, it is imperative to establish that there is no cause for apprehension or remorse regarding this transformation in one's psychological state.

Given your recent experiences, it is necessary to return to your inner essence. It is possible that you desire love and acceptance from others, or that you have recently encountered injustice or a lack of understanding. You may recall your experiences over the past few days.

Indeed, contemporary society is markedly tolerant of mental illness, and an increasing number of individuals are cognizant of the significance of mental illness. There are numerous avenues in all spheres of life that facilitate the alleviation of the adverse effects of these issues. Initially, one might perceive society as an inclusive family unit, a profoundly beautiful entity. However, in recent times, one might have encountered circumstances that engender a perception of the world as less than beautiful, or have had experiences with individuals or phenomena that have led to a loss of belief in beauty.

Consequently, when such an incident occurs, the individual may experience feelings of disappointment and a sense of futility regarding the perceived value of their inherent goodness and kindness. This can lead to a sense of resentment towards external factors, such as those related to mental illness, which may manifest as a projection of these internal emotions.

Subsequently, it is essential to ascertain which recent occurrences have contributed to the current state of affairs.

Subsequently, it is essential to ascertain the extent to which recent occurrences have shaped your present circumstances, which will then inform a more detailed examination.

Firstly, it is important to consider one's fundamental perspective on the world. For instance, it is evident that certain circumstances could have been managed more effectively. However, the prevailing circumstances of many individuals have shaped one's perception and values in a way that leads to disappointment and the assumption that the world is driven by the pursuit of benefits and the avoidance of harm.

One might inquire whether these sentiments are genuine or whether they are still imbued with a belief in benevolence.

Additionally, what are your thoughts on individuals with mental illness? Do you adhere to the beliefs espoused by those in your immediate vicinity regarding these individuals, or do you hold the view that these individuals are situated in their current circumstances as a result of societal influences?

It is important to note that depression and other mental illnesses are largely rooted in personal experiences and an inability to effectively cope with emotions during childhood, which can lead to cognitive distortions and the development of these illnesses. Therefore, it is essential to refrain from simplistic assumptions about the behavior of individuals with such illnesses, such as assuming that their writing is merely pretentious.

It is imperative to ascertain the underlying factors and experiences that shape their essence. This will facilitate a deeper understanding of the existential implications for these individuals.

First and foremost, this signifies a transformation in the inner psychology of people across the globe. Additionally, can we discern the changes occurring within our own hearts? What changes can facilitate a more comprehensive and nuanced understanding of the diverse array of individuals populating our world?

It is therefore to be expected that such thoughts will arise. This represents a valuable opportunity to gain insight into the diverse ways in which humans express themselves. As we undergo changes within ourselves, we can also recognise that we will gain something from this, and that our understanding of humanity will be enhanced.

It is my hope that you will be able to view your thoughts in an objective and rational manner, discerning the insights that your recent changes have brought you. I am confident that you will be able to adapt your state effectively.

I wish you the utmost success.

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Naomi Nguyen Naomi Nguyen A total of 4497 people have been helped

Dear questioner,

I am grateful to have had the opportunity to connect with you at Yixinli. I extend my warmest regards to you.

Let us attempt to clarify the specific confusion described by the questioner and analyze it.

Let us first attempt to clarify the particular confusion outlined by the questioner and endeavor to interpret and analyze it.

I am, by nature, a benevolent individual. However, in recent days, I have developed a profound animosity towards those afflicted with depression and other mental illnesses. I am repulsed by the ostentatious displays of anguish and self-pity on social media, and I question the rationale behind their continued existence.

(I had previously considered these individuals to be fragile and in need of care). As a result of these newfound sentiments, I have begun to perceive myself as antisocial.

I harbor negative sentiments toward these individuals because the prevailing ethos is one of profit-seeking and harm avoidance. Those who become ill are perceived as having brought about their own misfortune and are deemed deserving of such fate. These beliefs elicit feelings of distress, the cause of which is unclear.

— One should acknowledge oneself for being aware and perceiving one's sincerity and kindness. It is possible that this genuine aspect of our being provides us with enhanced opportunities to explore and comprehend the intrinsic truth within ourselves. Alternatively, this quality may be a universal experience. Additionally, our aversion to the external world can be conceptualized as a form of emotional catharsis, whereby repressed emotions are released through a process of negation.

It is important to acknowledge these feelings and accept them as part of the human experience.

A discrepancy between the subconscious and conscious minds presents an opportunity to "see the core." This refers to the ability to perceive and understand the fundamental aspects of ourselves that we may be unaware of or uncomfortable with. By acknowledging these aspects, we can gain a deeper understanding of ourselves and facilitate personal growth.

Once an individual becomes aware of the internal conflict, they have already taken the first step towards change. It is important to encourage oneself in this process.

It is important to be grateful for the world we perceive, as it is a reflection of our inner selves. We should also be grateful for the opportunity to examine our thoughts and emotions, and to gain a deeper understanding of ourselves, in order to live more clearly.

Has the questioner ever experienced a sense of familiarity and closeness with another person or place when encountering them for the first time, as if they had met before?

This is reflected in the Kuleshov effect in psychology, which posits that in many cases, the world we perceive is a projection of our inner world, rather than an accurate reflection of reality. To understand this phenomenon, it is necessary to achieve a state of calm and observe the projection from within.

Subsequently, one must endeavor to comprehend the veracity underlying this "projection."

In light of the aforementioned confusion, an appropriate course of action would be to address it as follows:

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First, it is essential to accept all perceptions and to gain a comprehensive understanding of the nuances involved.

It is recommended that the reader accept the presented information with an open mind and a willingness to explore the inconsistencies between their inner world and reality in depth with a professional psychological teacher. This will help to identify the source of the presented tension/conflict.

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Secondly, the process entails moving from awareness to cognition to reconstruction of one's life script, thereby facilitating the discovery of a novel self. It is believed that this process can facilitate the gradual achievement of self-expectations, namely, the unity of knowledge and action.

1. Cultivate the ability to interact with the world in a manner that aligns with one's perceptions while engaging in authentic thought and action.

It is a universal truth that each of us lives in a complex society, where the resolution of various problems depends on the interrelationships between people and is also influenced by various psychological factors within ourselves.

Furthermore, the process of challenging fixed thinking patterns, cultivating creative thinking, and rewriting the narrative of one's life can facilitate more expedient and efficacious solutions to a multitude of problems, while simultaneously enhancing one's capacity for growth and change.

2. It is imperative to learn to express oneself authentically and to gradually learn to be one's true self.

On occasion, we may admire a particular quality in another individual, yet this admiration may in fact be driven by our own desire to possess that quality ourselves, or alternatively, may reflect a quality that we also possess.

In the event of encountering something with which one is dissatisfied, it is essential to adopt a state of composure, engage in introspection, attain self-awareness, and ascertain the underlying motivations. The question then arises: What are the factors that contribute to this sentiment of revulsion?

What factors impede the authentic expression of one's inner self?

Similarly, the questioner can authentically convey their genuine sentiments, endeavor to become an enhanced version of themselves, and assert their authenticity with resolve, thereby disabling the outward manifestation of aversion and aggression.

3. Cognitive improvement can facilitate the realization of authenticity in one's self-expression.

Those with "mental illness" can be hated. By taking stock of the reasons for this hatred, an outlet can be found for the "aggression" that is the result of this hatred. This is the practice and exploration of realizing the unity of knowledge and action.

4. By examining the concept of "hating" others, we can gain insight into our own truths and identify pathways to becoming the person we aspire to be. We can engage in a process of awareness, perception, thinking, and behavior, and acknowledge the discomfort associated with this process in order to facilitate growth and transformation. It is worthwhile to consider this approach. Let us collaborate in exploring this further.

The above represents my understanding, reflection, and response to the questioner's description of the problem. It is my hope that I can provide the questioner with some positive and helpful inspiration and assistance. I pray that the questioner's exploration will bring him one step closer to becoming who he wants to be, and I wish him good luck!

I am a singular entity, a unified consciousness encompassing the sun and the world. I extend my love to you.

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Hermione Fitzgerald Hermione Fitzgerald A total of 5470 people have been helped

Hello! I saw your description and felt your struggle. Let me give you a hug!

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Mencius believed that kindness, compassion, and mercy are basic human qualities. Sympathy is innate in all people. If someone hits me, I will feel pain. If I'm cold, I will think of someone else who is also feeling the cold.

As human beings, we are naturally compassionate. To sympathize with others is to sympathize with ourselves, and to pity others is to pity ourselves.

What is it? Why is this happening?

2. You're lucky to notice this early on. Awareness means change. We don't grow up without pain. This pain is either a trauma or a temporary mood. Everyone has a different tolerance. What happened to you may be easy for some, but for someone who's had a similar trauma, it will be a trigger. They'll become depressed and stuck.

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Read Chapter 11 of The Chinese Temperament. It's about a lack of empathy. The author gives many examples.

If you don't have much time, you can search for it and listen. Lack of empathy is not just in you. Cultural factors have led to a lack of empathy in China.

Empathy is an emotional ability of humans.

4.

How can we be more empathetic?

Watch more heartwarming movies.

b, Put yourself in other people's shoes. Think about things from someone else's perspective to show empathy.

C. Understand your parents' feelings and appreciate the difficulty they face. You will find your heart has softened.

Congratulations on your success! I hope my sharing helps and inspires you!

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Zion Anderson Success is the achievement that comes after learning from the mistakes of failure.

I understand your feelings, but it's important to remember that everyone battles their own struggles. People with depression are often in a lot of pain and they need compassion and support from others. It might help to educate yourself more about mental health issues to better understand what they're going through.

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Berkeley Anderson Learning is a journey that broadens the horizons.

Sometimes we can feel overwhelmed by the negativity around us, especially on social media. If those posts upset you, it might be beneficial to take a break from platforms where you encounter them. Everyone has their own journey, and stepping back could give you some needed perspective and peace.

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Tomas Davis Life is a flower garden. Nurture it and it will bloom.

It sounds like you're experiencing a shift in your emotions, which is completely normal and can happen to anyone. Perhaps talking to a professional or a trusted friend about these feelings could provide some clarity. It's okay to not have all the answers right away.

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Salvatore Thomas In the gallery of virtues, honesty is the master - piece.

Your thoughts may be troubling to you, but acknowledging them is the first step in addressing them. It might be helpful to explore why you're feeling this way – perhaps stress or other factors in your life are contributing. Exploring these feelings with a counselor could be very beneficial.

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Brynn Miller A hard - working hand is always full of blessings.

Feeling antisocial can be a sign of burnout or emotional exhaustion. It's important to take care of your own mental health too. Setting boundaries and focusing on selfcare can help you manage these feelings. Remember, it's okay to seek help if you're struggling with how you're feeling.

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