Always speaking harsh words to each other, no one understands the pain, no one loves me...

I extend to you a comprehensive embrace.

The succinct account of the problem is a reflection of the pain, helplessness, and confusion experienced by the individual. The inquiry presented is a manifestation of the internal turmoil and external circumstances, rather than a representation of desired outcomes.

In other words, in the face of this situation, do you hope that the other person can change, even if they cannot become the person you expect them to be, so that the relationship can be eased? Alternatively, do you believe that you should take action to improve the relationship?

One might inquire whether it would be beneficial to take action to improve one's emotional state.

The only viable option for those in an unsatisfactory marriage is to alter their own behaviour, that of their partner, or to separate without changing. From the information provided, it appears that there are children involved, that there is reluctance to end the marriage, and that there is a gradual acceptance of the other person's words and actions, yet the situation remains distressing.

It can be reasonably deduced that the option of divorce is no longer viable. It is likely that significant effort has been expended by the subject in an attempt to effect change, whether through their own actions or through the prompting of the other party. However, the other party has remained unresponsive, indicating that the subject can no longer reasonably expect the other party to alter their behaviour.

Nevertheless, it is possible that, at a fundamental level, there is still an aspiration that the other person will alter their behaviour and gain a deeper understanding of your perspective.

Despite the persistence of expectations regarding the other person, it is evident that they will not alter their behavior. Consequently, the only viable option is to alter oneself. This necessitates a transformation in one's thoughts, words, and actions, as well as a transformation in one's life.

It is inevitable that we will be powerless in many situations, and that our actions will not always yield the desired results. It is therefore important to accept the harsh reality that the other person is not going to change, and that our expectations of them are misguided.

This results in a reduction of expectations regarding the other person. Previously, the other person was viewed as a potential life partner; however, the current perspective is that of a partner in child-rearing, with the other person serving as a means to an end.

Ultimately, if there is an additional individual contributing financial resources for the benefit of the children, then it is at their discretion to accept or decline this offer. If the other party provides minimal financial support and the desire to maintain the marital relationship persists, then it is necessary to accept this reality.

Secondly, it is important to focus on one's own well-being. This entails organizing one's life and that of one's children.

In the event of experiencing negative emotions, it is advisable to identify an appropriate outlet for their expression. This may entail the use of writing as a cathartic tool or the engagement in physical activities that facilitate the release of pent-up aggression in a constructive manner, such as boxing.

It is recommended that you engage in physical activity such as yoga or running to maintain your physical health.

It is also advisable to organise one's work and to apply oneself fully to it. After all, the rewards of work are visible.

It is also recommended that you arrange your time outside of work, which should include activities such as spending time with your children, reading, and learning.

It is essential to be patient and remain a constant presence in your child's life while simultaneously organizing their daily activities. However, it is of paramount importance to maintain emotional stability. A mother who is composed and in control of her emotions can provide her child with a greater sense of companionship.

Given the circumstances, it is advisable to adjust expectations, treat the other person as a partner, and make necessary arrangements for yourself and your children. It is also important to recognize that time is a valuable resource and should be utilized to its fullest potential.

It is also possible to seek the advice of a counselor.

As a counselor, I recognize that my outlook is often pessimistic, yet I also recognize the value in maintaining a positive outlook. I believe that the world and its inhabitants are worthy of love and respect.

Hello, I'm happy to answer your questions. I hope these suggestions help.

In a marriage or an intimate relationship, it is better to calm down and communicate or deal with the problem later.

Your physical and mental health is the most important thing in life.

If we feel unhappy or uncomfortable, we should ask for help.

This helps our physical and mental health. It also helps us think about problems.

We should also pay more attention to our partner and children's emotions.

This partner may become our ex-partner one day, but we must remember that when we first got together, he was important to us. No one wants to hurt someone they care about.

Before we argue, we need to stop and calm down. This way, we won't hurt the person we love and ourselves.

We can communicate with our partner when we're calm. When we're angry, wait until we calm down.

This method protects our health and emotional state. It also protects both parties from saying hurtful things without hurting the other person. We must know that trouble comes from the mouth. Sometimes, we speak when our emotions are running high. What we say may not be true and may hurt people.

Third, problems can only be solved when both parties communicate calmly.

And children. In any family, we must not argue in front of the children.

Children of any age can feel the emotions of those around them. Don't treat them like they don't understand. They have feelings and emotions.

Both spouses must communicate well. They must agree that everyone's life is important. They must also agree that they want to become better people and make each other's lives better.

The child's life is also important. We may part ways as a couple, but we'll always be the child's parents. Any parent wants their child to grow up healthier and safer. We have to work towards this goal, even if it means putting up with discomfort and communicating when the child is not around.

Finally, it's about the problem.

If you don't want to stay married, how can you make the relationship better?

If you divorce, how do you do it? What about money, kids, and getting along?

The first thing to decide is whether to leave.

There are two things to think about: love and caring.

The second aspect is whether the two people can still get along and live together without problems.

Of course, there may be other problems in a marriage, such as relationships with in-laws and money. These are different for every marriage. Think about your family structure or status.

We just need to regulate our emotions and pay attention to our children and parents. Then we can find our answer and communicate with our partner.

This process is hard, painful, and long. We can ask others for help.

You can ask your parents or friends for help.

Our parents' views on marriage may be different from ours. They may tell us to endure difficulties because everyone has gone through them. This advice is no longer suitable for young people. We can seek advice from friends because they understand us better. Some of their suggestions will be more suitable for us. They can also make us feel better.

If you need help, you can ask a professional. They can help you with your marriage.

I hope you can find a better way to solve your problems through self-reflection and communication.

I love you!