As college students approach graduation, failing in the postgraduate entrance exam, they feel lost, unsure of what to do next.

Hi, I'm happy to answer your question. I hope I can help you out with some suggestions.

I can tell you're feeling a bit lost right now. You're not sure where to go from here in your career.

The truth is, professional studies and career choices don't have to be at odds with each other. Many people end up in jobs that aren't a perfect fit. So, even if we study a major we're not particularly interested in, it doesn't mean we have to stick with that field. We can explore other areas that pique our interest. Many companies are willing to hire people with no experience, but the key is having a strong ability to learn.

We've got two options on the table.

Another thing to remember is that we don't have to give up on the postgraduate entrance exam without a second thought. Many people only get on the right track after the second or third attempt. The postgraduate entrance exam is inherently difficult, so we might as well try a little harder, figure out why we didn't succeed the first time, create a new study plan, and give it another shot. Who knows, maybe next time we'll be able to study for our favorite major.

Another thing to think about is that you can study for a second degree. If you don't get into graduate school down the road, you can study a second major so you can study the major you like. In this case, you'll need to choose a school. Some schools don't accept equivalent qualifications, but some do.

I haven't looked into the method of obtaining a qualification in detail. You can contact our tutors or counselors and ask for suggestions on some of our ideas, or some of the external tutoring agencies that specialize in academic qualification enhancement can also give us some more professional advice to help us find a solution that suits us.

The second option is to stop studying at school. There are plenty of other ways to improve ourselves after leaving education.

For instance, if we choose a major or field we like and search for all the relevant information about it, prepare for his professional qualification certificate, we can use this method to enter this brand new field or the major we aspire to, and use this as a foundation for job hunting.

Of course, this means we may have to work harder because we have no foundation and have to master a skill in a short period of time. We can either learn on our own or take classes. The key is in ourselves, because even if we take classes, it is different from school learning. We may need more self-discipline and a better learning plan to enable us to master a new piece of knowledge or skill.

At the same time, we also need to adopt a more learning-oriented perspective in our future work. We should actively accumulate some of our experiences among colleagues or in front of our leaders and make up for some of the deficiencies we may have among people in the same profession. But we shouldn't be afraid that we will be inferior to others just because we have not studied for four years. As mentioned above, many people find jobs that are not related to their majors and most people will also take jobs that are not related to their majors, but they can still get started very quickly. So we don't need to worry too much, as long as we focus on learning and experiencing.

As a general rule, at the start of our lives, we don't have the right to choose our university major. However, we do have the chance to discover our interests at an early age. This is a valuable opportunity. We can follow this direction step by step, even if it is slow. It is something that is very praiseworthy.

I hope that through self-reflection and gathering lots of different information, I can find a way to move forward that suits me and become the person I want to be.

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Hello, my child. I hope my answer can be of some help to you.

Who hasn't been confused in their youth? I was once in your shoes, unsure of my path, but I kept exploring and trying, and eventually found my way. So relax, explore, and try. I'm sure you'll eventually find your direction and live the life you want.

My advice to you is to:

Taking the initiative to make your own choices and accepting the consequences is the first step towards independence.

There's a concept in psychology called "issue separation." It basically means that when we're faced with any choice, we should consider what kind of consequences we're willing to accept and then make the choice. In other words, we have to take responsibility for our own choices because we're the only ones who can be fully responsible for our lives.

So, you can go and see for yourself. For you now, do you want to continue studying for your master's degree, fight in World War II, get a job that pays the bills, take the civil service exam, or get a license in another field of interest and switch careers? There are many options. The important thing is which consequences of the choice you are more willing to bear, and then go for that.

2. The more you try, the more you'll discover what you really want to do.

I'm a postgraduate student at a top 200 university. After graduating, I took the doctoral entrance exam. When I found out I'd passed the preliminary exam, I got pregnant. As an engineering student, my supervisor said I could either have a child or pursue a doctorate. I chose to have a child, thinking I'd go back to pursuing a doctorate later. But reality is harsh. After becoming a mother, I need to take care of my child, and it's difficult to go back to pursuing a doctorate. I'm in the same boat as you. I didn't like my original major because I didn't like doing experiments.

Instead, this opportunity made me think about what I really want to do with my life. I don't want to do scientific research, so what kind of work do I want to do?

Later, I decided to explore a lot. I got my teaching certificate, my Chinese medicine practitioner's license, my health manager's license, and my psychological counselor's license. In the process, I realized that I like psychological work the most. I only have a special interest in it when I'm doing it. If I didn't go through this process of exploring and trying, I wouldn't know my true feelings or what I really want.

So, the more you explore, the more you'll find out.

3. You can also try using the magic pot method to figure out what you really enjoy doing. You can combine your true passions in your career development, and you'll know what you're good at.

Here are the steps for the mental magic pot painting:

Next, take a few deep breaths to relax, and then draw the six pictures below in sequence (on separate A4 sheets).

The first picture is about someone who is walking along a road when suddenly a magician appears and puts them in a magic pot.

Second picture: "You've been in the pot for a day and a night. You're not thirsty or hungry. How do you feel?"

"What are you doing?"

The third picture is where you imagine sunlight coming in after an unknown period of time. How do you feel?

"What are you doing?"

Fourth picture: "A year has passed. How do you feel?"

What are you up to?

The fifth picture says, "Please circle from the inside out until you feel comfortable."

The sixth picture says, "Please circle from the outside to the inside until you feel comfortable."

Take a look at these drawings and see what inspires you. When I was feeling confused, I was drawing a pot of gold, and I realized that no matter what, I would always be at my desk reading or writing. So I found my own path, combining my favorite psychology with reading and writing, and I've been doing the things I like and enjoy until now.

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Good morning, classmate. I am Super Sister from Yixinli.

It is beneficial to understand your preferences and dislikes, as this will inform your future decisions. I have held numerous roles since graduation, and it was only after I reached 30 that I identified a career path that aligned with my long-term goals. I also began pursuing postgraduate studies. Despite the challenges and setbacks I have faced, including failing the postgraduate entrance exam on three occasions this year, I remain optimistic and open to exploring various avenues.

Failing the entrance exam does not indicate that your full abilities and value are being denied. You may wish to consider the following options:

1. Accept your frustration and defeat, and allow yourself the opportunity to process your emotions with a trusted individual. There is no shame in expressing your feelings, but there is shame in allowing them to persist. Once you have processed your emotions, prepare to move forward.

2. Reflect and summarize: Provide a detailed account of the reasons for failure, including the specific subject areas in which you did not perform well and the underlying reasons for this. If you plan to take the exam again next year, a comprehensive reflection and summary can help you identify your current strengths and weaknesses, and align your preparation with your long-term goals.

3. Long-term planning: There are numerous avenues for achieving your career goals, beyond simply taking the postgraduate entrance exam. You may wish to consider other ways to improve yourself. As with any business venture, opportunities in life often appear in twists and turns.

4. Seek support: Discuss your concerns and ideas with family, friends, or teachers. Their input may provide valuable insights. You may also wish to consult with a professional counselor, who can offer more specialized psychological adjustment strategies.

5. Persevere: If your objective still necessitates passing the postgraduate entrance exam, then take the time to reflect, develop a revised strategy, and resume your efforts. It is often the case that those who persist in the face of repeated setbacks ultimately succeed.

Ultimately, regardless of your decision, it is essential to have confidence in your ability to achieve your goals. By clearly defining your objectives, you will be better positioned to realize your aspirations.

I would like to extend my congratulations to you on taking the path that you have chosen and on your continued progress towards your goal of working in your chosen industry.