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Because I am weak, I feel a lot of injustice. Is being weak the original sin?

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Because I am weak, I feel a lot of injustice. Is being weak the original sin? By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

Because of their low sense of self-worth, the weak feel a lot of unfair things. Because they are weak, they pretend to be strong. Because they feel inferior, they feel inferior...

They find that in nature, the strong prey on the weak, so is weakness the original sin?

Camden Knight Camden Knight A total of 2260 people have been helped

Let's think about how "weak" is defined in the law of the jungle.

It's a sad fact of life that the weak are prey to the strong, and the fittest survive. But in nature, this is a struggle between survival and destruction.

But here in human society, strength and weakness are just relative states that come and go. You might be strong in the eyes of others, but weak in the eyes of those who are even stronger.

In this sense, anyone can be weak at times and strong at others. We all have our ups and downs! Today you may be defeated by the strong, but tomorrow you can become strong and defeat others.

So, if we can't talk about original sin in the context of changeable and uncertain weakness, how can we even begin to understand it? Let's take, for example, those heroes in their twilight years. They were strong when they were in the prime of their lives!

As we age, we may find ourselves less powerful and unable to compete with the younger generation. It's a natural part of life. But does that mean we're all sinful?

Let's talk about fairness and unfairness!

It's true that this society can sometimes feel a bit unfair. Some folks are lucky enough to be born into a world where everything is handed to them on a silver platter. They have all the resources they could ever want, and it's easy for them to become strong.

Some folks are born into tough situations. They have to fight for everything, even survival. It's no surprise that they often end up in the lowest class in society.

But when we look at things from a long-term social perspective—say, over a period of ten, twenty, or even more years—there are certain fair operating rules in this society. For example, "there is a reward for every effort."

It's amazing how much potential there is in everyone! Even if someone is weak, they can change their fate and transcend social classes if they work hard. And even if someone is strong, they can lose everything and become weak if they are reckless.

From a long-term perspective, this society is pretty fair. It doesn't matter if you're feeling a little weak right now. With a little hard work, you can turn that frown upside down and become strong!

People with a growth mindset who always believe they can become stronger are truly strong.

Since weakness and strength are both relative and temporary, and since society allows us to change from weak to strong, then who are the truly strong and stable people? Well, they're the folks who are strong enough to handle any change and are always capable of becoming stronger!

When you are weak, you have the potential to become strong. And when you are strong, you'll be just fine against someone stronger.

You can do it! Believe in yourself and your potential, and you can become stronger and stay strong.

This is actually about having good self-worth and self-confidence.

It's so sad when people feel like they don't matter just because they're weak. They end up feeling like they're being treated unfairly.

It's so sad when people feel weak and pretend to be strong. It's also sad when they feel inferior because they are weak.

It's totally normal to take a while to feel better about yourself. The most important thing is to change your own perception –

You are strong, and you can become stronger! Don't be afraid to admit when you're feeling weak. We all have moments like that. But remember, you have the ability to become stronger.

They truly believe that if they work hard enough, they can definitely become stronger.

Human abilities are not fixed, but can be enhanced and improved! This is what we call a growth mindset.

People with this mindset believe in themselves and are willing to work hard to change the status quo. And this "belief" is the first step on the path to change, which will eventually become a reality.

I hope you keep on growing and getting stronger!

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Michael Michael A total of 6136 people have been helped

Good day, questioner. My name is Jia Ao, and I am not seeking any particular outcome.

I appreciate you bringing these issues to my attention and asking the thought-provoking question, "Is weakness the original sin?" I recognize that this topic is complex and that a concise answer may be challenging to provide.

In your description, you stated that individuals with a low sense of confidence-when-they-dare-not-face-it-11280.html" target="_blank">self-worth often experience feelings of unfairness, leading them to present a strong front due to their perceived weakness.

This is what you are primarily focused on, correct? Do you intend to enhance your sense of self-worth through specific methods and skills?

Or are you interested in developing greater confidence in the future?

I will now analyze and sort out your situation.

1. Weakness is never a sin.

You have stated that you have discovered that people are essentially still weak, and that those who are strong prey on the weak.

From this perspective, weakness is not the original sin. Using weakness as an excuse to avoid problems is the original sin. The so-called law of the jungle is a natural law of natural selection. Those who bully the weak are not very clever. Whether they are weak or strong, they are actually complementary and indispensable. Having just one of them will break the usual balance.

If those who are weak use their weakness as an excuse and are not motivated to improve or are content with the status quo, this can be considered a kind of regression.

It is important to recognize that unfairness is a pervasive phenomenon in the world. When you feel weak, it is natural to perceive negative experiences and associate them with your own situation. However, this is a form of self-projection. Instead of attributing blame externally, it is essential to focus on developing your strengths and improving yourself. Believe in your ability to shape your destiny.

2. Accept yourself as you are.

Admit your weaknesses openly, confront your shortcomings and inadequacies with courage, regardless of your strengths, and pursue your heart's desires. When you are weak, identify strategies to become strong, and when you become strong, refrain from intentionally intimidating the vulnerable. Regardless of external circumstances, prioritize your responsibilities and strive for excellence.

3. There is no need to feel inferior.

It is important to be able to view yourself objectively. We all have our weak moments, and it is not realistic to expect to be strong all the time. You can try to change yourself, adjust your mindset, and use your weaknesses as motivation to become stronger. It is important not to feel inferior because of your weakness. Weakness is not your fault.

It is also important to understand that your current weaknesses are only temporary. Things are always changing and developing, and it does not mean that you will always be weak. There is a possibility that you will slowly become stronger in the future. The premise is that you must correct some of your shortcomings, constantly improve yourself, let yourself be tempered, and become better. Only in this way can you slowly become confident.

4. Enhance your personal resilience.

First, gain self-awareness and understand your personal attributes. Then, consider your future aspirations and the self-worth you wish to achieve.

Then, gradually affirm and accept yourself, thereby enhancing your sense of self-worth. Believe in yourself and your abilities.

It is not advisable to concern yourself unduly with the opinions of others or to be unduly influenced by accusations. It is more productive to focus on doing your best and, if you encounter unfairness, to learn how to reasonably defend your legitimate rights and interests.

When you reach your limit, push yourself to improve. Take responsibility for your own life. When you're giving your best, will you still be preoccupied with your weaknesses?

Please also refer to books on enhancing your sense of self-worth.

I would also recommend the books "Cognitive Awakening" and "Cognitive Drive" by Zhou Ling.

Dale Carnegie, "The Weakness of Human Nature" (US).

Scott Peck, The Road Less Traveled [American]

I hope this will provide you with inspiration, encourage you to believe in yourself, and instill the belief that things will continue to improve.

I hope my response is of assistance to you. Best regards, [Name]

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Raymond George Clark Raymond George Clark A total of 3996 people have been helped

My dear, let me hug you!

I don't know what kind of situation the poster is in at the moment, but I know what kind of thoughts would lead to such a way of thinking. I hug you and I will comfort your soft heart.

You must accept yourself, your gender, and your identity. It doesn't matter who you are, where you are, or what you are doing. You are worthy of love and acceptance.

You must first accept yourself unconditionally and then love yourself unconditionally. This is the only way you will feel your own value, expand your own value, and thus find self-confidence.

You must accept yourself unconditionally.

Accept your own gender.

In this world, many people suffer because their external gender characteristics do not match their internal thoughts. This is wrong.

The world labels men as brave, strong, responsible, and tender-hearted.

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Women are labelled gentle, virtuous, beautiful, kind, and soft on the outside but strong on the inside.

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However, the reality is that nobody is perfect. It is therefore difficult for anyone, whether born male or female, to accept themselves fully.

Attacking yourself causes an inferiority complex.

You must accept your gender and your actual characteristics, regardless of whether you have the qualities of a man or a woman.

2. Accept your origins.

Some people are born into privilege, while others are born into poverty. These circumstances are not a choice and cannot be changed.

You can only have a better future if you accept your origins, stop complaining, and be grateful to your parents for giving you life. Then focus your energy on developing your own path.

3. Accept your own shortcomings.

There is no perfect person in this world. Accept your own inadequacies and shortcomings, and then change your imperfect self. You will meet a better self. If you are unwilling to change, it is not impossible, but you must accept this self, rather than engage in internal conflict and attack yourself.

4. Accept everyone and everything around you.

You are in the situation you are in because of the choices you have made, whether you were actively involved or not.

So accept the environment around you. Complaining won't change anything and it will only make you feel worse.

And people around you will inevitably interact with all kinds of people because of your work environment.

You can't change anyone, either. Handle your relationships with others. Keep your distance from people you don't like.

People you like deserve to be treated sincerely and cherished.

The weak feel a lot of unfair things, so they pretend to be strong because they are weak and feel inferior because they are weak. This is a lie.

I don't know what the poster is going through, but I know one thing for sure: strength and weakness are relative, not absolute.

We cannot change the external environment, but we can control our inner world and our emotions. These are the traits of strong people.

You must learn to love yourself unconditionally.

You have to make yourself strong to love yourself.

Love yourself and make yourself happy.

You must not let yourself be wronged if you want to love yourself.

There are many ways to love yourself, and the most important one is definitely not to hurt yourself.

You might be great, but there are always people who are greater than you.

You are important to the people who care about you.

It is not what others think of you.

It is more important how you view yourself.

The world may laugh at you, but you have someone who will support you unconditionally.

That's you. And if you have the support of family and close friends around you, even better.

I wish the original poster a happy life!

I am June, and I love you, world!

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Ira Ira A total of 277 people have been helped

Good morning,

As a reader, you might consider entering into your own world. It could be likened to the dreamlike layer in the ice and snow world of "Inception," where there is not only ice and snow and trees, but also explosions and fierce battles.

There is a certain purity, yet there is also a sense of being startled.

1. Could you please explain why the questioner mentioned the law of the jungle?

It would seem that people are sometimes treated unfairly and hurt, which can cause trauma.

Such trauma can result in a state of chronic stress that makes healing challenging.

I have also given myself confidence and have come to understand some of my beautiful aspirations. However, it seems that I may encounter obstacles that could potentially prevent me from succeeding.

While a child's power may be limited in comparison to an adult's, it is important to recognize that a child's spirituality, sensitivity, intelligence, and curiosity often surpass those of adults.

It would seem that the longer an injury affects a person when they are young, the more profound the impact.

While I haven't had the chance to read about your childhood experiences, I would like to express my concern and understanding for the situation you've described in your question.

2. Could it be that the law of the jungle is the rule of the world?

Some images come to mind. Perhaps we could have a chat about them?

1. Confucius traveled around the countries, and it seems that he ran out of food in Chen and Cai. It would appear that his situation was rather challenging. Could it be that being in a disadvantaged situation means that he is a weak person?

I respectfully disagree.

2. Wang Yangming was unfortunately framed by the eunuch party and sent to a farm in Guizhou, where he had to sleep in the open air and eat wind and rain. However, he was able to gain enlightenment on the farm and promote education in the area.

It would be interesting to consider whether, in such a challenging situation, he felt compelled to acquiesce.

I believe that there is no forced feeding.

3. It could be said that Audrey Hepburn's interpretation of Princess Anne has some of her own shadow. In the opening minutes of "Roman Holiday," we see Princess Anne uncontrollably crying. (Analogy: Recently, Liu Mintao was on the hot search and was also labeled as incontinent in tears.

Perhaps the media could benefit from a review of their vocabulary and style.

In her life, her two marriages have not been as successful as she would have liked. She loves her husband and children, but has found it challenging to be controlled by her husband, so she has chosen to advocate for more disadvantaged children. Listening to her speak is like listening to an angel sing.

In many instances, individuals who are perceived as strong and brutal have been observed to disregard the feelings and rights of others. It is important to recognize that such actions are not infinite and can be addressed through constructive dialogue and understanding.

In many instances, individuals who are strong and assertive may disregard the feelings and rights of others, which can have negative consequences.

As time has passed, humanity has come to recognize the importance of freedom, faith, hope, and justice. These values are not finite, but rather, they are boundless. It is our hope that love will bring these values to the earth.

It may be helpful to consider that self-blame for perceived weakness and sinfulness may in fact be a form of self-preservation. It may be beneficial to avoid entanglement with those who display aggressive behaviour.

It might be helpful to spend some time reading the Book of Songs, which contains sad emotional perceptions, mockery of those who are sweet-talking but mean, and praise of a harmonious atmosphere.

3. Perhaps a brief explanation of the potential causes of weakness would be helpful.

Some may perceive these words as indicating weakness, fragility, or cowardice.

It should be noted that the above words manifest differently in different people.

In my opinion, cowardice is perhaps the most unfortunate quality a person can possess, particularly when it originates from a parent. It can significantly impair a child's capacity to safeguard their own well-being. Moreover, cowardice often entails a loss of the ability to express one's needs. By recognizing this, we can begin to comprehend its implications and offer support to those who may be affected by it.

Perhaps it is a testament to our shared humanity that, when we are weak, we often try to appear strong and hide our vulnerability. Is this not a complex and intriguing aspect of our nature?

I wonder how many people might be reluctant to acknowledge that they are in this situation, and instead choose to present themselves in a way that is perhaps not entirely truthful, or even to exert control over others.

If you look closely, you may notice the presence of "pretending" and "inferiority."

You may recall the fear, tension, and exhaustion you experienced during challenging times.

Perhaps it would be beneficial to muster the courage to face your own vulnerability, and the finger-pointing of others (who cares?).

Perhaps you could benefit from someone who can accompany you and sense your inner fluctuations. You seem curious, so I wonder if you've considered whether it still exists.

Perhaps you could consider using a higher reward to take a chance. I feel that there is still hope inside you.

May hope gently accompany you, and may it roam the sky, the sea, and the land.

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Nicholas Carter Nicholas Carter A total of 6074 people have been helped

Hello, question asker. From what you've said, I can tell you're feeling angry, resentful, depressed, and dissatisfied.

From what you've said, I can see that you're feeling depressed, resentful and bitter.

If you don't want to be bullied, you have to put on a brave face and try to keep going. It's not easy.

You blame all these disappointments on your low self-esteem and inferiority complex.

In particular, when you realize that the nature of this world is the law of the jungle and you can't change it, you feel angry and dissatisfied. You feel like it's all so unfair to you.

Is weakness the original sin?

☟ Seeing your own inner victim complex

It's evident that you're uncertain about your self-worth, inferiority complex, vulnerability, and the numerous injustices you've faced. Is weakness a sin?

Put simply, you feel that the world is full of hatred and that the unfair treatment you've encountered is down to others and the unfairness of the outside world.

You think you should be let off the hook because you're weak, and you expect others to take care of you, even though you can't take care of yourself.

So you might be tempted to please others in your relationships, but this kind of pleasing isn't done willingly. You'll feel aggrieved and angry.

Rather, you feel like you have to do this, and if you don't, people might leave you because they're unhappy, which is the result you're most afraid of.

It's like an infant without the ability to survive, trying to please its parents in order to survive.

You don't often speak up for your own views, worrying that if you do, you'll be rejected, or that if your views are different from others, you'll be disliked.

You'll feel like everyone is against you, like the whole world dislikes you, and like you'll never be able to build good relationships with other people.

Your assumptions about other people will affect the kind of relationships you have with them.

You'll see that people are still basically driven by the law of the jungle, but you won't realize that harmonious relationships are built on a cooperative community that benefits everyone involved.

☠️ It's important to stand up for fairness.

It's important to remember that you always have a choice in what kind of person you want to be.

Life is one big journey, and every step you take is down to the choices you make.

You can decide whether you want to be a weak person or a strong person.

If you want to be treated fairly, you have to be strong, work hard to be a good person, and protect your rights.

Your attitude affects how others act towards you.

The reason people treat you badly is because they don't have to face any consequences for it.

It's easy to feel like other people treat you this way because you think you're bad and deserve it because of low self-worth and inferiority.

If you choose to put up with it and stay silent, you're basically telling the other person that you're okay with being treated this way and that they can do it to you again in the future.

In today's society, it's a typical era of the law of the jungle, where the law of the jungle is strictly followed. In your work life, you've got to let people know that you're not someone to mess with.

If you're treated unfairly or feel aggrieved and angry, please express your emotions and feelings promptly.

It's important to learn to love yourself.

If you're feeling aggrieved and sad and there's no one to turn to, try to be kind to yourself.

You're not a child who needs adults to survive. You're already an adult.

Take a look at your own grievances and sadness, give yourself the space to work through them, and provide yourself with the support you need.

When you can accept your own weaknesses and sadness, you'll have more energy to try to make a difference.

This is also a way of showing that you love yourself. When you love yourself enough, you may feel much happier and more joyful.

Best of luck!

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Julian Shaw Julian Shaw A total of 5123 people have been helped

Hello! I really feel for you.

I'll give you a kind hug!

Absolutely! Everyone deserves to be treated fairly, and I can totally understand how you feel.

You are able to perceive these emotions in yourself and the environment you are in, which is the beginning of self-improvement—and it's a great place to start!

I sense that you have feelings of injustice and an unbalanced mentality, which is totally normal!

I don't know what you've been through, but I'm excited to find out!

From the perspective of the food chain, it can be said that the weak are prey to the strong, and the fittest survive. But each of us is striving for the future, and everyone has their own pursuits—and that's a good thing!

Could weakness be the original sin?

The great thing is, we can examine things from multiple perspectives!

Weakness is not a sin! We can absolutely learn to protect ourselves.

Absolutely! These days, society is all about helping the weak and the disadvantaged.

Yes, you can! You can become strong if you believe firmly that you can do it too.

I don't know what happened, but I'm excited to find out!

You feel vulnerable, but you can learn to be centered on yourself and not care about other people's stares!

Your low self-esteem is totally understandable!

Absolutely! We can also change ourselves a little by learning new skills or helping the elderly and children.

The point is, are you ready to accept yourself?

→ Absolutely! You should respect your inner thoughts!

You also long to be cared for and protected!

We all encounter difficulties, but the key is to face them head on!

If you come up with a good method, you'll be amazed at how quickly difficulties become stepping stones to success!

We must always grow up and start facing the trivial matters in life and work alone—and we can do it!

When you're unhappy, do something you enjoy! Let off some steam, walk the dog, go on a trip—the world is your oyster!

I believe in you! You're ready to take action and change the situation, even though it feels a little unfair.

I absolutely believe that if you are willing, you can do it too! You are strong, and you can do this!

Sometimes, some strong people will deliberately lower their profile to pretend that they are weak and that they need help from others.

Absolutely! You can accept yourself well and use your strengths to get along harmoniously.

Do you understand yourself? Absolutely! Everything is a double-edged sword. We can learn and grow from the good aspects and move forward.

Absolutely! We can gain the recognition of others. All we have to do is correct the matter of weakness, and we can become excellent!

So let's work together and face reality together!

We are travelers who advance together! We cheer for each other because we want to live the best lives we can! ????

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Valentina Carter Valentina Carter A total of 6825 people have been helped

Good day, question asker. I can see the confusion you are facing right now.

You are currently experiencing some interpersonal challenges. Please accept my sincere apologies for the inconvenience.

I previously held the same belief, that my weaknesses were a result of my original sin. Consequently, I have been subjected to persistent bullying from individuals in the service industry since my arrival in Shanghai six years ago.

Subsequently, I utilized the platform for psychological counseling, which led to the realization that my approach was misguided.

My weakness can be modified.

Your weaknesses may originate from your family of origin.

As an only child, you may have had your parents make many decisions for you since you were young. This may have left you unprepared for the challenges of entering the workforce.

However, this is not an insurmountable issue.

You may be wondering how you can become stronger.

There are two principal methods of achieving greater strength.

One potential solution is to identify ways to assist yourself.

Please advise on the best way to proceed.

You may wish to consider reading further books on the subject of psychology.

You may also choose to purchase a membership on this platform, which offers 140 units of content and a wealth of knowledge on how to become stronger.

If you feel that the self-help method is too complex and involves too many aspects, and you have tried it yourself with limited success,

In such a case, it would be advisable to seek the assistance of a professional counselor.

A counselor can provide invaluable assistance in analyzing your current problem.

You have assigned a high score to this question, indicating that it has been a significant issue for you.

You are seeking a solution but are unsure of the best place to begin.

It is my sincere hope that the individual in question will soon identify an effective solution to the problem they are facing.

I am now in a position to consider these matters.

I hope my responses are helpful and inspiring to you, the inquirer. As the answerer, I invest a great deal of time and effort into studying the subject matter.

At Yixinli, we extend our warmest regards to all our customers and partners worldwide. Best regards,

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Eleanor Young Eleanor Young A total of 6419 people have been helped

Ocean Rhythm Qingxin Analysis:

1. First of all, there's nothing wrong with asking for fairness. For example, if you go to the supermarket and you like something that costs 100 yuan, but you only have 60 yuan in your hand, then 60 yuan is also a kind of weakness. If you ask the boss to give you something that costs 100 yuan, then that is a weakness of strength, but if you ask for something stronger, then you will form the strength to buy it. If you choose something that costs less than 60 yuan, then that is fair and you can reach a deal. So what is the unfair thing you are talking about? Can you be more specific? This will help you to judge whether it is fair or not.

Fairness is about matching strength with demands.

2. What causes a low sense of self-worth? If you had no flaws, would you still feel a low sense of self-worth?

If you know you have a flaw, why not work on changing it? If you can't change it, why not accept it?

When it comes to shortcomings, there are only two options: acceptance or change. If you don't choose either, you won't be happy.

3. If you act like you're strong when you're actually weak, it shows that you're not willing to change your weakness or accept it. You choose neither to change nor to accept yourself. You choose to pretend to be strong. In the past, people lived in poor conditions and didn't have enough to eat. Some people would smear lard on their mouths before going out to relatives' and friends' houses to visit, pretending to be eating well. Relatives and friends would then not invite you to stay for dinner. You feel unfair. Who is to blame?

4. If weakness is the state of being hungry, you are very hungry, but you don't eat. You pretend that you are full, and it's pretty unfair. Why is being hungry so difficult? I am so hungry that I have developed a low self-esteem, and I even doubt that being hungry is a sin.

So, how do you solve the hunger problem? Is hunger caused by not eating, or is it caused by something else?

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Dear student, Being weak is just a state you are in at the moment. It's actually a judgment of yourself by your own brain. But there's no need to worry! This is just a temporary thing. It's just a state you are in at the moment. And it is actually a judgment of yourself by your own brain. But there's no need to worry! This is just a temporary thing.

You may say that the people around you or the experiences you have send you messages that indicate your weak state, but I say that's not true!

I've been there, and I've got the T-shirt! I know all about self-denial and self-disapproval.

But after learning about healing, my perception has changed—and it's been an incredible journey!

There's only you out there, and that's it! Everything you hear, see, and experience is a reflection of your inner world.

Absolutely! Everyone has a perfect soul, and everyone can be strong, living a happy and abundant life.

But here's the good news! Not everyone is in that situation. Why? Because we are not living in our true selves and not truly living in our original state.

But that doesn't mean being weak is wrong!

It's incredible how some understanding and knowledge of life requires you to be in a weak state in order to perceive and learn from it and gain experience!

And when you become strong, you'll know your own mission and how to get along with the weak without harming them. You'll also be able to protect these weak people and things!

You can become that powerful self!

The more you learn and improve, the stronger you'll become! You'll find your powerful self and live the fulfilling life you've always wanted.

I wish you the absolute best of luck!

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Ebenezer Ebenezer A total of 8664 people have been helped

It is important to note that being weak is not a sin.

It is important to note that viewing weakness as a sinful act, or as a guilty conscience, is a flawed perspective.

This is an issue of character that stems from the subconscious and is related to the mother-child attachment dynamic during the growth process and other factors that influence personality.

Those who are perceived as "strong" may also experience feelings of unfairness due to a "low sense of self-worth." It is not a matter of being "weak," but rather a matter of having a "low sense of self-worth."

Pretending to be strong because you are weak is a limited perspective on weakness.

In the natural world, the law of the jungle refers to the eyes of the eagle, the ears of the wolf, the speed of the leopard, and the strength of the bear. However, if we define these as strengths, it would be impossible for other animals to win with teamwork and intelligence, and there would be no evolution of physiological phenomena such as color change and mimicry. Furthermore, in human society, people are the most creative. The difference between humans and animals in terms of strength lies in the part above the neck.

Subconsciously believing that one is not strong enough, or "pretending to be strong," may be a form of self-protection. At times, it may be necessary to have a psychological foothold, which does not necessarily indicate weakness.

With additional experience, one becomes less affected by certain factors and is therefore able to manage them more effectively. This is the result of accumulated knowledge and expertise gained over time.

"Due to my perception of weakness, I experience feelings of inferiority..."

In other words, a sense of inferiority can lead to feelings of weakness.

The issue stems from an inherent inferiority complex, rather than from a lack of strength.

In the context of nature, where survival of the fittest is the prevailing principle, it is pertinent to question whether weakness is a defining characteristic of original sin.

Humans and animals are essentially subject to the same basic principles. Weakness is not a sin. To make this argument, one must first define weakness subjectively.

Everyone is born with a talent, and regardless of physical attributes, everyone can find a place to shine with their talent and find their own unique strength, so as to survive in society and live well.

Was this a teaching of the Buddha? It is a form of discrimination.

There is no inherent strength or weakness in the world. Perceptions of these qualities are shaped by discourse and may reflect socialization.

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Lilyana Hughes Lilyana Hughes A total of 2967 people have been helped

From what you've told me, it seems like you see yourself as a vulnerable group. You also seem to think that this vulnerability is something you can't control. I can understand why you feel like it's unfair.

At the same time, you're pretty upset about this law of the jungle where the weak are preyed upon by the strong.

It seems like you're asking whether weakness is a sin.

But the answer you're really looking for isn't about proving whether it's a sin. What you want is to know how to help the weak and become stronger yourself.

This is what you're here to do.

Let's start with a simple fairy tale. I'm curious to know what kind of truth you can learn from it.

There once were three young deer living deep in the jungle. One day, they went out to play and encountered some wolves.

The first fawn was scared and a hungry wolf jumped on it and broke its neck.

The second deer quickly fled. A few hungry wolves gave chase, catching up with it in no time and biting its neck.

The third fawn was more calm. It spoke with the leader wolf: "When I was coming over here, I saw a large herd of sheep nearby.

"If you let me go, I'll show you where they are." The wolf pack leader thought about it for a moment and agreed.

So the third fawn led the wolves to a nearby jungle. When they arrived, the wolf pack realized that there were no sheep here, just a few lions.

When the lion found the deer and the wolf, it attacked the wolf pack to get the deer as prey. The third deer took advantage of the situation and quickly escaped into the depths of the jungle while the lion and the wolves were fighting.

and get away from this dangerous situation.

As we can see from the story, the fawn is vulnerable, while the lion and wolf are dominant. If the vulnerable group chooses the right approach, it can confront the dominant group.

So, do you get it now? Being weak doesn't mean you're doomed to fail.

As long as you have the right approach, you can achieve ultimate victory with minimal effort.

Once we've got that out of the way, let's get to the crux of the issue. You want to find a way to avoid the limitations imposed on you by being weak and small, and you want to be able to fight against the strong and come out on top.

I also have to learn to think critically, learn from others' strengths, and use wisdom to guide the direction of events.

First, know yourself and your opponent. You'll win a hundred battles if you do this.

This is a common saying in the Art of War. It's easy to understand, but many people don't fully grasp how to apply it.

It's important to understand our own strengths and weaknesses, as well as those of others. Then we can work out how to avoid our weaknesses and make the most of our strengths.

Also, think about how you can reduce the other person's strengths and amplify their weaknesses. It's like the third fawn in the fairy tale.

The wolf pack is stronger than it is. But it can find a group that's stronger than the wolf pack to fight against it.

You've successfully avoided the disadvantageous situation of your weakness in this battle.

Second, be honest with yourself.

I'd recommend reading more books on self-acceptance. It's important to understand and accept yourself from an objective perspective.

Don't put yourself in the category of the disadvantaged. And don't try to hide your weaknesses by acting like you're stronger than you are.

This won't fix the underlying issue, and it'll also add to your own psychological stress. At the same time, each time you do this, you'll reinforce your one-sided understanding of yourself.

If you pretend to be strong, you'll actually feel weaker. Over time, you'll lack confidence.

Over time, your self-perception will change so that you'll see other people's success as a result of their strength. You'll also focus on other people's strengths and downplay your own weaknesses.

This can have a negative impact on your physical and mental health. It can also make it harder for you to think objectively and analyse problems effectively, as subjective factors come into play.

This can lead to a psychological phenomenon called low self-worth, as you mentioned.

3. Get a good grasp on what fairness really means.

In this world, fairness is relative, not absolute. There are various unfair phenomena in this world, but no one has the ability to make the world completely fair.

It's like someone who is born into a family with very different backgrounds, DNA, talents, and so on.

It doesn't matter how strong you are, there are always people stronger than you. And it doesn't matter how weak you are, there are always people weaker than you. So don't blame everything that goes wrong on the "weakness" that comes from comparing yourself with others.

What you think is weakness is really just a comparison with those who seem stronger than you. And you don't see those groups that are weaker and more disadvantaged than you.

The disadvantaged don't always fail. Think of the fawn in the fairy tale.

All three deer are equally vulnerable. Some are killed by wolves right away, some fight back and try to survive, and others use their smarts to make it through.

So, looking at the present, do you still have doubts about whether weakness is the original sin? I think that at this moment, you should feel that the answer to this question is no longer important.

The key thing to remember is that weakness isn't the main reason for your failure. You should focus your energy and development plans on more meaningful levels.

Don't dwell on the starting line. With the right approach, you can still find ways to surpass others, even if you're a long way behind.

If you think reading this text can help you apply your values more to society and your future development, I'll give you some suggestions to help you avoid the problem of your weakness.

Now, think about a few questions. Use a step-by-step approach to figure out the root cause of the problem and find a solution.

Minimize the negative effects of what you previously viewed as weaknesses.

1. What things in the past do you feel you failed at because you were weak?

2. What factors led to these failures?

3. Can these factors be changed through hard work?

4. Could you make up for these factors with the help of others?

5. How can you build good relationships with people who can help you?

After you've thought about the above five questions, I think you'll feel a bit stronger. Being weak isn't a mistake, let alone a sin. It's just a state of mind.

And this state isn't set in stone. As long as you're open to it, you can change this state through other means.

Practice shows that weakness can be overcome with hard work. Just because you're weak now doesn't mean you'll stay that way. With the right method and strategy, you can change your innate weakness.

It's important to remember that being weak isn't the end of the world, and it's not the only thing holding you back from success.

I hope you can overcome the negative psychological impact of being weak in your own mind as soon as possible and actively and healthily pursue the life you want. Through the right ways and methods, you can gain more help from strong people and finally walk towards the door of your dreams!

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Lucretia Lucretia A total of 1667 people have been helped

Good morning, host. My name is July.

Thank you for your inquiry. After reviewing your description, I have a general understanding of the question you wish to ask. In this regard, I will provide you with a comprehensive response.

Thank you for bringing up this interesting issue. I commend you for asking such a question. As you may have guessed, you are asking these questions because of your own personal experience.

In response to the issue you raised, it is my view that the fundamental principle of the modern world is that only the strongest survive, while the weak are eliminated. This is a lesson that primitive society has taught us. However, in the modern world, this survival mechanism is an unavoidable reality. It is a fundamental truth that is deeply embedded in our collective consciousness. Consequently, there will always be individuals with significant influence or ability at the top of the pyramid, while others with less capability will occupy the lower levels.

This is applicable to both financial and authoritative matters.

However, weakness is not inherently problematic. It is a matter of how one responds to their weaknesses, whether through denial or acceptance. Regardless of one's strengths or weaknesses, there are advantages to be gained.

In this regard, I have also summarized some methods to help alleviate the current situation, and I hope they prove useful to you.

(1) It is not uncommon for individuals to possess shortcomings or weaknesses.

(2) Weaknesses also have their advantages. They provide an opportunity to identify shortcomings and implement improvements.

(3) It is preferable to acknowledge your weaknesses than to disown them. Those who accept their weaknesses will naturally perform better than those who are afraid to admit their weaknesses.

(4) Adopt a more relaxed approach and proceed at a slower pace, rather than exerting excessive pressure on yourself. Doing so will only lead to feelings of discomfort in the present.

(5) Admit your weaknesses, but recognize that this is not a permanent state. You will also have the opportunity to change accordingly. Instead of pretending to be strong and dealing with yourself, you have to change this perception of yourself from the bottom of your heart, and then add some methods to make some changes.

(6) It would be beneficial to provide yourself with more positive self-suggestions, rather than giving yourself too many negative suggestions that could potentially lead to frustration.

The world and I wish you well.

I wish you the best of luck.

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Connor Jameson Fisher Connor Jameson Fisher A total of 5521 people have been helped

Good day, my name is Yuxi.

The question of whether weakness is a sin is one that can only be answered in the context of a given situation.

In nature, the fittest survive, and the weak are prey to the strong. However, in educated human society, there is a set of elite qualities that are superior. Therefore, there should always be a group of people, even if they are strong, who always try to protect the weak with institutional construction to maintain their creativity and uniqueness.

For others, the weak are appealing due to their ability to provide a sense of security, intimacy, relaxation, and comfort.

It can be argued that this is dependent on the individual in question. However, it is clear that objectively, those who are perceived as weak are less likely to take the initiative.

A plethora of options are often relegated to the other party, and there is frequently an absence of the capacity to accomplish numerous tasks, protect those one cares about, or safeguard one's own interests.

Most importantly, weakness is devoid of the persuasive, reassuring, and dependable strength that is characteristic of strength. In critical situations, the authority to evaluate and determine the best course of action resides with others.

One is rendered powerless, lacking the capacity to control and alter the circumstances, and unable to attain the desired outcome. This sensation is, indeed, vexatious.

Such a state of affairs engenders a pervasive sense of helplessness.

I occasionally jest with my acquaintances that culinary pursuits are an "original sin." Nevertheless, I do not truly adhere to this belief.

Rather, for an individual who exhibits a particular obsession or desire, self-characterization as "weak" or "vulnerable" may indicate dissatisfaction with the status quo or a desire for personal growth and development.

If, at this juncture, I am compelled to retreat in the face of the circumstances that surround me, I must acknowledge that to do so on the grounds of perceived "weakness," innate inadequacy, or lack of experience would be tantamount to cowardice and inaction.

As Roosevelt observed, "Our only fear is fear itself. It transforms retreat and pessimism into progress and impairs our capacity to act."

It is erroneous to assume that weakness is inherently sinful. However, inaction due to weakness is a grave mistake. It is crucial to develop a response strategy, adapt to the current situation, and identify ways to act calmly and analyze rationally. Additionally, it is essential to recognize deficiencies and leverage external forces to one's advantage. Formulating a plan, comparing advantages and disadvantages, and making informed decisions are essential skills.

It can be argued that the inverse relationship between strength and weakness is a fundamental tenet of human psychology. Those who are weak must work harder, relax more, and carefully consider their circumstances. They must also protect themselves and turn defeat into victory.

Given the dearth of resources and inadequate infrastructure, our continued existence hinges on the collective awareness, effort, and commitment of others to facilitate progress and advancement.

It appears to be a case of international relations, with the major powers pursuing their own agendas under the banner of equal autonomy in the United Nations.

Additionally, there is the United States' hegemony of free travel, Russia's somewhat embarrassing display of power, France's self-righteous equality and fraternity, and Japan's stoicism. Small countries have their own ways of survival, such as Singapore, New Zealand, and Norway, all of which seek development; however, they do so by taking advantage of the situation and combining it with their own circumstances. Instead of comparing, it is better to think of a countermeasure as soon as possible.

In this sense, my personal views are firmly rooted in realism, and it is my intention to realize some idealism at some point in the future.

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What are the characteristics of a strong individual?

The initial factor is independence.

One may utilize the services of others, yet it is unseemly to plead with them. One may enter into a collaborative arrangement with others, yet it is unwise to place one's trust in them.

The second is adaptability.

Adaptation can be defined as the act of preserving one's identity and integrity.

Speak less, listen more, disguise yourself appropriately, understand the coldness and thoroughness of reality, act rationally, and be emotionless. Objectify the situation and people, and maintain a framework that encompasses time, space, different individuals, and the directions and dimensions of things. This framework provides a sense of security; it is akin to the black and white paths in a game of chess, where one adheres to the rules and maintains a proper approach. Remaining calm and acting with such disguise on the outside and inside allows one to stay one step ahead.

Perhaps due to a lack of strength, I had developed a tendency to exhibit weakness, helplessness, and a sense of patheticness, seeking support from others. However, I came to realize that although this approach may be more socially acceptable than overt weakness, it is ultimately ineffective.

Such an approach will likely result in disinterest and rejection. A lack of initiative can be perceived as passive behavior.

Therefore, I gradually adopted a more proactive, respectful, gentle, and attentive approach. It is likely that the world is not particularly friendly towards women.

In order to accomplish masculine tasks, it is necessary to utilize certain feminine qualities, including gentleness, care, understanding, listening, comfort, encouragement, thoughtfulness, and perseverance. Despite one's inherent warmth of heart, there will always be a discrepancy.

One might posit that only the individual in question is aware of their true capabilities, which may be obscured by an outward appearance. There is a desire to be independent and to emulate the actions of others (in order to avoid criticism and to subtly reduce resistance in society), as well as a desire to achieve the things that ambition and perseverance can accomplish. The ambition and calmness of women, which are not inferior to those of men, must be wrapped in the feminine qualities that are expected of them; this can be confusing to observe.

The third is composure.

The state of being calm is defined as a sense of ease and composure.

In situations characterized by crises, it is imperative to adopt a bold, calm, open-minded, and ingenious approach to navigate the unfortunate, adverse, and desperate circumstances. By doing so, one can gain clarity on the essential elements, prioritize effectively, distinguish between what is important and what is unimportant, and achieve a sense of order and concision. This is a particularly satisfying moment.

Transform crises into security and defeats into triumphs. The more composed one is, the more discerning one's actions will be. One will be better equipped to handle challenges with aplomb, leverage individuals to achieve remarkable outcomes, regulate and invigorate the potential of those in one's orbit, and collectively reshape circumstances.

The fourth element is strategy.

In essence, strategy implies the availability of time.

It is imperative to plan before acting and to be aware of one's own and other people's strategies. Primarily, one must be aware of one's own strengths and weaknesses, as constant practice and monitoring, reflection, and analysis can facilitate a comprehensive understanding of these attributes. This understanding can then inform the development of strategies to address weaknesses and capitalize on strengths.

Once reality and one's own identity have been acknowledged and accepted, actions are based on an individual's "self-reality." It is essential to establish strategies, tactics, and goals when undertaking any action. Only then can one analyze and perceive the actions of others, learn from them, or utilize them. With increased experience in navigating various situations, one will gradually develop an understanding of the appropriate attitude to maintain in any given context.

Indeed, individuals frequently endeavor to undertake actions and accrue experience not necessarily for the purpose of achieving success, adhering to the prescribed methodology to secure an accolade, or to generate financial gain and expand their network. Instead, it is about attaining self-awareness and exercising control over one's actions within the context of interpersonal dynamics, external circumstances, and the progression of events. This enables the identification of one's strengths and weaknesses, as well as the recognition of one's core competencies and current limitations. This understanding then informs subsequent actions, enabling the ability to persevere through setbacks and to make informed decisions when engaging in tasks, employing individuals, formulating strategies, and developing plans of action.

The fifth is learning.

Learning entails a certain degree of self-restraint.

It is impossible to achieve perfection in any endeavor. We are inevitably deficient in some respect. Consequently, we self-censor, avoiding the pejorative labels of "imperfect" and "unsuccessful." Beyond this, there is the aspiration to learn from others. This entails not only affirming oneself but also listening to others until the end, attempting to reinterpret and understand, and then narrating after breaking down the other person. It also necessitates tolerating one's own failures, inadequacies, and inability to do things.

This determination to remain hungry and thirsty and to continue improving is an essential aspect of restraint.

In addition to the aforementioned five points,

The most crucial element is belief. It is essential to comprehend the rationale behind one's actions, to understand and regulate one's personal motivations, to adhere to one's inner convictions, and to believe in one's beliefs. This will enable one to persevere in one's endeavors over the long term. Only then will one truly experience the depth of commitment to a cause.

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Augustin Martinez Augustin Martinez A total of 4683 people have been helped

Hello, my name is Gu Yi, and I'm as modest and humble as ever!

What are our weaknesses, friends?

Everyone has a different sense of self-worth, which makes us have different experiences and feelings about different things. But is a low sense of self-worth just because of one's own evaluation or the perception of others? We can actually talk about this with the people around us and see what they think.

We all have our weaknesses and our strengths. It's how we show them that matters. A cow grazing in the grassland is strong and big, but if a mosquito stings its nose, it may feel bullied. The mosquito and the cow.

In the end, the one who is bullied is actually the stronger one in this power disparity.

So, when we realize that we have a weak side, it's probably because we've been treated unfairly in this area, have regrets, and feel a bit down. But, remember, weakness is not a sin! It's just a slightly lower strength in a certain environment, and it can be changed.

Let me tell you how you can change your weak side.

It's really important to understand what our weaknesses are and what they might be bringing us. Once we know that, we can start to work on overcoming them!

According to the weak aspects you find in yourself, you can do a quick recharge. Don't worry, we all have them! And the good news is that you can change them. For example, if you're worried about your appearance, you can try out different makeup styles until you find one you like. And if you're anxious about communicating with others, you can learn some new skills to help you feel more confident. If you focus on learning in these areas, I'm sure you'll be able to make some positive changes!

As you gain understanding, take action, and see results, you'll start to feel better about yourself. Your mindset will change, and people around you will notice your improvements and support you. This is a journey that requires taking it one step at a time. Believe in yourself and know that the path may be long, but the journey is worth it!

Wishing you all the best!

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Jessica Jessica A total of 4338 people have been helped

I'm not sure what experiences the questioner has had that have led them to ask such a profound question.

Perhaps it's because I don't believe in original sin, which leads me to view weakness as something that isn't inherently sinful.

"The weak feel a lot of unfair things." While there may be some truth to this, there are also other aspects to consider. Those who are strong may also face unfair treatment, perhaps even to a greater extent than those who are weak.

For instance, there are sayings like "Hurry up and work harder," or "When the sky falls, there will be a tall person to hold it up."

"Because of a low sense of self-worth, those who are weak may perceive a lot of unfair things, which can lead them to pretend to be strong because they feel weak, and feel inferior because they feel weak."

In this case, it seems that the questioner may have confused "low self-worth and a feeling of weakness" with "weakness on an objective, realistic level."

I respectfully disagree with the notion that the two are one and the same. While there may be instances where they are analogous, I believe there are also instances where they are entirely distinct. To illustrate, consider the following example:

1. It is possible that if you feel weak, it may be because you are actually weak in reality.

2. One may perceive themselves as weak, yet in reality, they possess great strength, but may feel otherwise internally.

3. It is possible that one does not feel weak, but in reality, one may be unable to handle certain situations.

It is possible that whether you feel weak or strong, or whether you are really weak or really strong in reality, is simply a means for the so-called "weak and strong" to survive by dealing with the outside world internally and externally.

In the face of life and death, we are all equal. We all have a "life and death" that we cannot control.

It may be the case that they are trying to do something to make themselves feel like they can make the decision themselves because they cannot make the decision themselves.

I hope my reply will be of some help to you. Best wishes!

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Carey Carey A total of 5949 people have been helped

Hello, question asker!

When you ask the question, "So is weakness the original sin?" you have already reached the moment to question your heart! It's time to dive deep and explore the amazing possibilities within!

The essence of saying that weakness is the original sin is actually trying to reverse right and wrong. It's a bold claim! It means that the reason a criminal commits a crime is because you are guilty, and then the result of you being victimized is that you deserve it. This is reasonable, that is, logically justifies the criminal's evil behavior.

So, here's the thing. Let's say you've been victimized. You "discover that people are essentially still weak and the strong eat the meat." You ask yourself, "So is weakness the original sin?"

This is your chance to question your inner psychological values! It shows that you envy becoming a criminal and treat the weak who are weaker than you in the same way.

You can deal with these words that turn right into wrong with a golden cudgel—and just one blow will do!

And then there is another fascinating insight: "Because of a low sense of self-worth, the weak feel a lot of unfairness. Because they are weak, they pretend to be strong. Because they feel inferior, they feel inferior..."

What do the three "because"s in this sentence represent? They are nothing more than three ways you have dealt with the world. If these three methods and tools have not achieved the desired results, then it's time to change, replace, and improve them! It's time to question your heart and make a change!

So, what does questioning your heart really mean? It means expanding your thinking and improving your realm! Think about it. If you can see beyond the wall, you'll see a whole new world. And that means you can make better decisions. So, what do you think?

Once you've reached a higher level of understanding, you can then ask yourself: "Is weakness a sin?"

How do you question your heart and improve your realm? In fact, it is a choice between good and evil. This sentence is empty. But you can fill it with a description that you can sleep with and have courage! It's not necessarily appropriate, but it could be. After all, everyone is a unique universe.

So, here's just a little message to get you started on your journey: Good luck!

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Hugo Hugo A total of 4570 people have been helped

I don't know what the original poster has experienced, what life was like in his childhood, and how it has contributed to his situation today. He has a low sense of self-worth, and because he is weak, he has to pretend to be strong. He is prone to feeling inferior, and feels that the world is cruel with the law of the jungle, and that the world is unfair. These past few years must not have been easy for him. I deeply feel the helplessness and frustration of the original poster. It's not your fault. Remember to hug yourself!

There's a saying that I absolutely love: "Happy people are healed by their childhood, while the unfortunate spend their whole lives healing their childhood." I think there's a lot of truth in this, but I'd like to tweak it just a little bit.

Because today's us is caused by past choices, and the future us becomes what kind of person depends on our current choices. The good news is that we can choose what kind of adult we are today and achieve a future that we like!

The host mentioned several keywords: "sense of self-worth," "inferiority complex," and "the weak are prey to the strong." This shows that the host is confused, good at thinking, and wants a solution. He is constantly exploring and examining himself, which is great because it means he's actively working on himself and trying to improve.

Let's dive into the fascinating topic of self-worth! It's all about having a positive emotional experience where you value yourself, feel like your talents and personality are appreciated by society, enjoy a certain status and reputation in your group, and have a good social evaluation. When you have this emotional experience, you're likely to exude confidence, self-esteem, and a desire to keep improving. On the other hand, when you lack it, you're more likely to feel inferior and give up on yourself.

These words reveal a lot about how we view ourselves and our place in the world. They show us that we value social status and reputation, and that we care about how others see us. And they reflect our strengths and weaknesses according to worldly standards.

Furthermore, the law of the jungle and survival of the fittest is a natural law, and this is true for animals and plants alike. In the case of humans, this was the case in primitive society, where people fought for food. However, competition is still the main theme, and survival of the fittest has not been denied. Adapting to society and life is a sign of maturity, and it's an exciting process!

The stronger your ability to solve problems, the stronger your sense of self-worth and self-confidence will be! You will also be able to look down upon the natural law of the weak being preyed upon by the strong. There are so many ways you can cultivate yourself:

Let's dive deep and find out the reason for your low sense of self-worth. What did you experience in your childhood? Were you neglected by your parents? Were you distant from your parents? Were you constantly criticized and rejected by your parents during your childhood? Stop blaming yourself for being incompetent and helpless. It's not your fault. Accepting your imperfect self is a great first step!

2. Find your passion and make it your profession! Identify what you are best at doing, practice it for a long time, and become a professional in this field.

?3. Develop a hobby! There are so many ways to learn nowadays, whether it's self-study or learning from a professional teacher. Picking up a hobby will be very helpful!

?4. Read more! Get your hands on some classic paper books. They're top-quality and have a clear underlying logic. They were written by master-level figures, and every book you read is like having a conversation with a master. It'll help you solve many of your own confusions! When you've read 30 books, you won't notice the effect. But when you've read 50 or 100 books, you'll find that the world suddenly becomes clear! Your thinking, horizons, and perceptions will all be opened up. At that time, you'll look at your current self and realize that you were narrow-minded. But you'll also realize that you're on your way to becoming a more open-minded person!

?5. Action: Thinking is a problem, doing is the answer! If you keep making progress every day, you will meet the most beautiful version of yourself! We cannot choose the past, but we can choose what to do in the present until we meet the most beautiful version of ourselves!

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Ian Sebastian Hall Ian Sebastian Hall A total of 3255 people have been helped

Hello, questioner! I'm Jiang 61, and I'm so grateful you brought up this important topic for discussion.

I'm guessing this is something you're trying to figure out on this platform.

It seems like you're feeling pretty dissatisfied and resentful towards reality, which is totally understandable! I get it.

I was thinking, "Why do you make me feel this way?" And I found the answer when I read the content of your post!

You say that because of your low self-worth and weakness, you have received a lot of unfair treatment. It's so hard to get out of this situation! You have to pretend to be strong, but inside you still feel inferior.

Summary: Discovering the essence of human nature is that the weak are prey to the strong. So the question is, "Is weakness the original sin?"

I say there is no such thing as "weakness being the original sin." I think it's more accurate to say that "not striving for progress" is the original sin. These feelings of dissatisfaction are actually dissatisfaction with your current situation, and I totally get it. You're not sure what to do. Listen to my opinion:

First, let's start by admitting our weaknesses and accepting them.

There's absolutely nothing wrong with admitting that you have shortcomings and are weaker than others. It's only by being brave and admitting it that you can accept it.

And then use it as a springboard for growth!

Secondly, it's important to remember that whether something is fair or unfair is down to your own thoughts.

It's important to remember that your feelings of fairness or unfairness don't come from a place of weakness. They often start with a feeling of weakness and a low sense of value. Then, when something happens, you might associate it with unfairness, feel aggrieved, and let yourself become depressed.

So, let's get rid of those thoughts of unfairness and face our own problems head-on.

Third, remember that everything is earned.

There's no such thing as a free lunch, sweetheart. You've got to work hard for everything you get.

If you feel like your sense of value is low, don't worry! You can work on improving it by studying hard and practicing more. And if you feel weak, you can find ways to make yourself stronger.

When you feel good about yourself and have a strong sense of spirit, who can look down on you? The good things in life will find you!

Fourth, self-confidence comes from being strong inside. You've got this!

When you stop complaining, conquer your fear of failure, embrace your inner strength, and become more proactive, your self-confidence will flourish, and your inferiority complex will fade away.

Have faith in your own strength. If you put your mind to it and try every means to change yourself, the future will definitely be bright!

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Elaraja Elaraja A total of 2372 people have been helped

I've been thinking about this question for a long time. If I say that weakness is the original sin, how will you carry this "sin" with you? If I say that weakness is not the original sin, how will you find an answer to your suffering?

After a few cups of tea, I explained it from the perspective of the theory of relativity. The narrow definition helps us see the problem clearly, while the broad definition breaks the deadlock.

From a narrow point of view

Low self-worth and weakness affect a person in all aspects. They can even prevent a person from competing with others. Therefore, weakness is a kind of original sin.

From a big picture perspective

We have low self-worth and are weak. We understand reality's power and know what the original sin is. We let it cause problems without trying to improve or expect things to change. We even blame our future suffering and misfortune on this original sin. Then the original sin becomes a way for us to avoid our responsibilities.

If there is a fire in a place, the fire is the original sin. However, if there are always fires in a place and the relevant units have not issued a response plan or protective measures, then the person responsible for public safety in that area should bear the main responsibility.

If a company makes a mistake on a project, it's the executive's fault. If similar mistakes keep happening and the leaders don't reflect on them or take action, they're the biggest culprits.

If you have a bad hand, don't tell others. Don't blame me if I lose. We can focus on how to use our cards to maximize our interests. Many cards will be played, and new cards will be drawn. There's still a high possibility of turning the situation around.

If you think the original sin caused our misfortune, then you must accept that it is just a tool. It is people's attitude that is the real original sin.

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Ethan Thompson Ethan Thompson A total of 8346 people have been helped

I just want to give you a big hug!

I read your description and I can relate! It's so true that because of a low sense of self-worth, the weak feel a lot of unfair things, pretend to be strong because they are weak, and feel inferior because they are weak.

We've found that, deep down, we're all still a bit weak. And it's sad to see how some people take advantage of those who are vulnerable. So, could it be that weakness is our original sin?

The host is really perceptive. I can tell that they enjoy thinking deeply about things.

You're so perceptive! You clearly recognize and feel the injustice because your self-worth is low. I also feel the helplessness and powerlessness of the original poster!

The host is very thoughtful. They're actually quite weak because of a low sense of self-worth.

Because they're weak, they feel inferior and have to pretend to be strong. But because they're pretending to be strong, they have to face the reality of their weakness.

After thinking about this some more, I think that the root cause is actually a low sense of self-worth. What do you think?

Let's work together to boost our self-worth!

I know it can be tough to start, but I'm here to help! Let's start with small things. You can start by reading a short passage every day, smiling at yourself every day, and exercising for just 5 minutes every day.

A great athlete was in a car accident and wanted to recover, so he visited famous doctors to get the best treatment. He was reluctant to have surgery to recover, but later, when his mother died of cancer, he realized that it was better to start small than not to start at all. He recovered a little bit and eventually returned to the sports arena.

Secondly, be brave enough to say "no." It can be so hard to understand why you get so little when you do so much!

It's okay to choose not to take on something that isn't your responsibility. And it's okay to say, "I can't do it," even when it's not your job.

This is the start of something new! Don't let anyone make you feel like you have to compromise just to keep up with so-called "interpersonal relationships."

Be brave and do your best for the things you want to do. And remember, when you reject bad company, the people who really have similar temperaments as you will find you.

I'd like to say a little more about unity. There are so many things in life that bring us joy and sadness, and we all experience separation and reunions. There are also the full and new moons!

Life is full of wonderful things, like joy and sorrow, sunshine and rain, and the changing phases of the moon. Imperfection is part of the journey, and that's okay!

So, there's no need to be perfect at everything and try to be the best at everything. It's ok to be a little "insensitive" and not care about failure, what others say, or being ignored.

Don't worry, the goal is still there, and you will slowly and methodically achieve it. I think this is the unity of heaven and man.

Hug your loved ones! Everything will be just fine, as long as you believe it.

I love you, world! And I love you too, my dear friend!

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Cinderella Thomas Growth is learning to love yourself enough to know you deserve better.

The idea that weakness is an original sin seems a bit harsh. People have different strengths and challenges, and it's natural to feel vulnerable sometimes. We should focus on building each other up rather than tearing each other down.

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Norris Jackson A good teacher is like a candle - it consumes itself to light the way for others.

I can relate to feeling like you need to put on a strong front even when you're not feeling that way inside. It's important to remember that everyone has their struggles, and acknowledging our vulnerabilities can be the first step towards growth.

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Portia Jackson A person of extensive learning is a maestro, conducting the orchestra of knowledge with finesse.

It's true that in nature the strong often dominate, but humans have the unique ability to empathize and support those who are struggling. Maybe instead of seeing weakness as a flaw, we can see it as an opportunity for compassion.

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Savannah Yates The shortness of life gives a solemn value to every day.

Reflecting on this, I think it's less about being weak or strong and more about how we perceive ourselves. If we all worked on improving our selfworth, maybe we wouldn't feel the need to pretend or compare ourselves to others so much.

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Humphrey Thomas The time is always right to do what is right.

The notion of weakness being an original sin doesn't sit right with me. Instead of focusing on perceived weaknesses, perhaps we should celebrate what makes us unique and find strength in our differences.

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