Good day, my name is Yuxi.
The question of whether weakness is a sin is one that can only be answered in the context of a given situation.
In nature, the fittest survive, and the weak are prey to the strong. However, in educated human society, there is a set of elite qualities that are superior. Therefore, there should always be a group of people, even if they are strong, who always try to protect the weak with institutional construction to maintain their creativity and uniqueness.
For others, the weak are appealing due to their ability to provide a sense of security, intimacy, relaxation, and comfort.
It can be argued that this is dependent on the individual in question. However, it is clear that objectively, those who are perceived as weak are less likely to take the initiative.
A plethora of options are often relegated to the other party, and there is frequently an absence of the capacity to accomplish numerous tasks, protect those one cares about, or safeguard one's own interests.
Most importantly, weakness is devoid of the persuasive, reassuring, and dependable strength that is characteristic of strength. In critical situations, the authority to evaluate and determine the best course of action resides with others.
One is rendered powerless, lacking the capacity to control and alter the circumstances, and unable to attain the desired outcome. This sensation is, indeed, vexatious.
Such a state of affairs engenders a pervasive sense of helplessness.
I occasionally jest with my acquaintances that culinary pursuits are an "original sin." Nevertheless, I do not truly adhere to this belief.
Rather, for an individual who exhibits a particular obsession or desire, self-characterization as "weak" or "vulnerable" may indicate dissatisfaction with the status quo or a desire for personal growth and development.
If, at this juncture, I am compelled to retreat in the face of the circumstances that surround me, I must acknowledge that to do so on the grounds of perceived "weakness," innate inadequacy, or lack of experience would be tantamount to cowardice and inaction.
As Roosevelt observed, "Our only fear is fear itself. It transforms retreat and pessimism into progress and impairs our capacity to act."
It is erroneous to assume that weakness is inherently sinful. However, inaction due to weakness is a grave mistake. It is crucial to develop a response strategy, adapt to the current situation, and identify ways to act calmly and analyze rationally. Additionally, it is essential to recognize deficiencies and leverage external forces to one's advantage. Formulating a plan, comparing advantages and disadvantages, and making informed decisions are essential skills.
It can be argued that the inverse relationship between strength and weakness is a fundamental tenet of human psychology. Those who are weak must work harder, relax more, and carefully consider their circumstances. They must also protect themselves and turn defeat into victory.
Given the dearth of resources and inadequate infrastructure, our continued existence hinges on the collective awareness, effort, and commitment of others to facilitate progress and advancement.
It appears to be a case of international relations, with the major powers pursuing their own agendas under the banner of equal autonomy in the United Nations.
Additionally, there is the United States' hegemony of free travel, Russia's somewhat embarrassing display of power, France's self-righteous equality and fraternity, and Japan's stoicism. Small countries have their own ways of survival, such as Singapore, New Zealand, and Norway, all of which seek development; however, they do so by taking advantage of the situation and combining it with their own circumstances. Instead of comparing, it is better to think of a countermeasure as soon as possible.
In this sense, my personal views are firmly rooted in realism, and it is my intention to realize some idealism at some point in the future.
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What are the characteristics of a strong individual?
The initial factor is independence.
One may utilize the services of others, yet it is unseemly to plead with them. One may enter into a collaborative arrangement with others, yet it is unwise to place one's trust in them.
The second is adaptability.
Adaptation can be defined as the act of preserving one's identity and integrity.
Speak less, listen more, disguise yourself appropriately, understand the coldness and thoroughness of reality, act rationally, and be emotionless. Objectify the situation and people, and maintain a framework that encompasses time, space, different individuals, and the directions and dimensions of things. This framework provides a sense of security; it is akin to the black and white paths in a game of chess, where one adheres to the rules and maintains a proper approach. Remaining calm and acting with such disguise on the outside and inside allows one to stay one step ahead.
Perhaps due to a lack of strength, I had developed a tendency to exhibit weakness, helplessness, and a sense of patheticness, seeking support from others. However, I came to realize that although this approach may be more socially acceptable than overt weakness, it is ultimately ineffective.
Such an approach will likely result in disinterest and rejection. A lack of initiative can be perceived as passive behavior.
Therefore, I gradually adopted a more proactive, respectful, gentle, and attentive approach. It is likely that the world is not particularly friendly towards women.
In order to accomplish masculine tasks, it is necessary to utilize certain feminine qualities, including gentleness, care, understanding, listening, comfort, encouragement, thoughtfulness, and perseverance. Despite one's inherent warmth of heart, there will always be a discrepancy.
One might posit that only the individual in question is aware of their true capabilities, which may be obscured by an outward appearance. There is a desire to be independent and to emulate the actions of others (in order to avoid criticism and to subtly reduce resistance in society), as well as a desire to achieve the things that ambition and perseverance can accomplish. The ambition and calmness of women, which are not inferior to those of men, must be wrapped in the feminine qualities that are expected of them; this can be confusing to observe.
The third is composure.
The state of being calm is defined as a sense of ease and composure.
In situations characterized by crises, it is imperative to adopt a bold, calm, open-minded, and ingenious approach to navigate the unfortunate, adverse, and desperate circumstances. By doing so, one can gain clarity on the essential elements, prioritize effectively, distinguish between what is important and what is unimportant, and achieve a sense of order and concision. This is a particularly satisfying moment.
Transform crises into security and defeats into triumphs. The more composed one is, the more discerning one's actions will be. One will be better equipped to handle challenges with aplomb, leverage individuals to achieve remarkable outcomes, regulate and invigorate the potential of those in one's orbit, and collectively reshape circumstances.
The fourth element is strategy.
In essence, strategy implies the availability of time.
It is imperative to plan before acting and to be aware of one's own and other people's strategies. Primarily, one must be aware of one's own strengths and weaknesses, as constant practice and monitoring, reflection, and analysis can facilitate a comprehensive understanding of these attributes. This understanding can then inform the development of strategies to address weaknesses and capitalize on strengths.
Once reality and one's own identity have been acknowledged and accepted, actions are based on an individual's "self-reality." It is essential to establish strategies, tactics, and goals when undertaking any action. Only then can one analyze and perceive the actions of others, learn from them, or utilize them. With increased experience in navigating various situations, one will gradually develop an understanding of the appropriate attitude to maintain in any given context.
Indeed, individuals frequently endeavor to undertake actions and accrue experience not necessarily for the purpose of achieving success, adhering to the prescribed methodology to secure an accolade, or to generate financial gain and expand their network. Instead, it is about attaining self-awareness and exercising control over one's actions within the context of interpersonal dynamics, external circumstances, and the progression of events. This enables the identification of one's strengths and weaknesses, as well as the recognition of one's core competencies and current limitations. This understanding then informs subsequent actions, enabling the ability to persevere through setbacks and to make informed decisions when engaging in tasks, employing individuals, formulating strategies, and developing plans of action.
The fifth is learning.
Learning entails a certain degree of self-restraint.
It is impossible to achieve perfection in any endeavor. We are inevitably deficient in some respect. Consequently, we self-censor, avoiding the pejorative labels of "imperfect" and "unsuccessful." Beyond this, there is the aspiration to learn from others. This entails not only affirming oneself but also listening to others until the end, attempting to reinterpret and understand, and then narrating after breaking down the other person. It also necessitates tolerating one's own failures, inadequacies, and inability to do things.
This determination to remain hungry and thirsty and to continue improving is an essential aspect of restraint.
In addition to the aforementioned five points,
The most crucial element is belief. It is essential to comprehend the rationale behind one's actions, to understand and regulate one's personal motivations, to adhere to one's inner convictions, and to believe in one's beliefs. This will enable one to persevere in one's endeavors over the long term. Only then will one truly experience the depth of commitment to a cause.
Comments
The idea that weakness is an original sin seems a bit harsh. People have different strengths and challenges, and it's natural to feel vulnerable sometimes. We should focus on building each other up rather than tearing each other down.
I can relate to feeling like you need to put on a strong front even when you're not feeling that way inside. It's important to remember that everyone has their struggles, and acknowledging our vulnerabilities can be the first step towards growth.
It's true that in nature the strong often dominate, but humans have the unique ability to empathize and support those who are struggling. Maybe instead of seeing weakness as a flaw, we can see it as an opportunity for compassion.
Reflecting on this, I think it's less about being weak or strong and more about how we perceive ourselves. If we all worked on improving our selfworth, maybe we wouldn't feel the need to pretend or compare ourselves to others so much.
The notion of weakness being an original sin doesn't sit right with me. Instead of focusing on perceived weaknesses, perhaps we should celebrate what makes us unique and find strength in our differences.