Dizziness, nausea, memory loss, difficulty thinking, becoming lazy and stupid?

I get it.

"I don't remember my childhood. My parents talk about it, but it feels like they're talking about someone else."

You want to forget the past. Why?

Freud said that what you go through as a child often affects how you live your life. Some things you don't even realize are there, but they still affect you.

Don't avoid talking to your past self. You might find the reason for your problems in the present.

"Dizziness, nausea, memory loss, difficulty thinking, laziness, and stupidity. Is this the innocent and happy girl your parents described?"

Your parents want you to be a happy, innocent girl. You try to be this girl, but you don't think you are.

"There seems to be no joy in my life, and I almost always fail. When will this end?" You don't think highly of yourself. You lack confidence, and you're afraid that your efforts won't be recognized, that you won't be able to meet your parents' expectations, and that no one will think you're good.

You feel dizzy, nauseous, have a poor memory, find it hard to think, and become lazy and stupid.

These are excuses for your lack of self-confidence and fear of trying hard. This way of thinking and acting creates a vicious circle.

Your mindset, how far you can go on your own, and whether you've done your best are key to measuring your success.

Change your attitude and boost your self-confidence. There are good books on this.

Change how others judge you. Go back to your childhood, find the real you, release your energy, work hard, and you will achieve your goal.

Your body will heal if your mind is healthy.

Hello! I'm Enoch, your answer guy!

From the questioner's description, it seems that the development of the questioner's cognitive abilities may have created some resistance, which is totally normal!

If you're experiencing symptoms like dizziness, nausea, poor memory, or slow thinking, it's a clear sign that your cognitive and thinking skills could use some improvement.

In psychology, the three abilities of knowing, feeling, and willing are unified and interconnected. This means that the questioner's problems with his cognitive and thinking abilities have further affected his emotions, making him feel a great sense of powerlessness in the learning process. But there's good news! His emotions have also been greatly affected, even to the point of depression. This is something he can work on and improve!

The questioner's mother has even had certain doubts and misconceptions about the questioner's personality, thinking that the questioner is lazy and cannot learn well. In fact, it is because of the questioner's lack of cognitive ability that he is unable to control himself to study well – but there's no reason why he can't change this!

I'm sure the questioner can still change their problems in a targeted manner!

First, you can improve your mental quality! Since you're experiencing dizziness and nausea, you can calm down and set yourself a specific plan and goal that suits your situation.

If your memory is limited, don't worry! You can still achieve great things with the right approach. Set a daily memory goal that is relatively easy to achieve and you'll be amazed at how quickly you'll progress. This way, you'll be more willing to exercise your memory skills rather than resist learning.

Second, you can gradually and appropriately raise your goals on the basis of being able to control your own learning and life every day. This is an amazing way to continuously improve and change your various abilities!

And finally, while you're improving yourself, you should also cultivate your emotional control and self-management skills. Set specific daily goals for yourself and fulfill them conscientiously. This way, you'll be able to stay organized and not get caught up in chaos. You'll be able to better control your studies and life, and you'll be on your way to success!