Every day, I'm scolded by my family. How I can leave this world without a sound is really unbearable.

Hello, classmate. I see you're confused. Hugs!

You have family problems. Let me give you a hug.

You ask how to leave this world without a trace, but this is not the place for that.

We answerers will only persuade you to live on with strength; death is not a release.

Your family will only scold you if you don't do well in school.

It's possible that their parents treated them this way during their growth process.

If you don't do well in the exam, you're useless.

They don't let you have a phone because you're young and don't have self-control.

If you let them have a cell phone, you may neglect your studies.

If you don't like facing a family that scolds you every day, you can use the following method.

If your school has a dorm, talk to your homeroom teacher about your family situation.

Ask your homeroom teacher to let you stay in the dorm every Monday through Friday and go home on weekends.

The above suggestions are helpful.

I hope you find a solution soon.

That's all I can think of.

I hope my answer helps and inspires you. I am the answer, and I study hard every day.

Yixinli loves you! Best wishes!

Hello, dear question asker!

It's clear from your title that there's a bit of a communication issue between you and your parents. It seems like you're feeling pretty down, as if your parents can't see all the emotions you're dealing with. You've got a lot of complaints against them and feel like they don't trust you, which is totally understandable!

Have you tried to chat with your parents about your thoughts on things like mobile phones, grades, and supplementary classes? These are all pretty typical problems in family relationships, and they can happen in lots of families.

It's so important to communicate with each other. It seems like neither of you are really seeing the other person's needs.

It's so sad when parents enroll their kids in remedial classes without their consent. It's also unfair when parents compare their kids to others, scold them for their poor grades, and don't trust them when it comes to their mobile phones. As a child, you must feel very sad, frustrated, and angry when treated this way. Do your parents understand these feelings?

From what you've told me, it seems like you're only sharing some of your feelings and haven't had a chance to talk to your parents about everything. When we communicate with others, it's important to share not just facts but also our feelings and what we want.

For example, "Being scolded every day by family members, who are the people closest to me, really gets to me. I'm really struggling with it." In this sentence, you're saying that you're sad because your family is scolding you. But you haven't yet told them how you'd like them to talk to you.

); "If I don't do well in the exam, I'll be scolded. I don't want to go to the cram school, but they still scold me and say it's a waste of money. Did I ask them to sign me up?" I'm sure you'd like your parents to respect your choice and at least discuss it with you when signing you up for classes, right?

I'm just wondering, did you get a chance to tell your parents what you're feeling?

I'm just wondering, why did your parents sign you up for classes? And why do they say things to you when you don't do well in exams?

I'm sure they want you to do well, but they just don't know any better ways to communicate. They mistakenly believe that the only way to get their child to listen is to yell and put them down. They may have learned this from their own parents, and this is where their limitations lie.

But what they don't realize is that their own limitations have caused deep harm to their dearest child!

As a child, it's so important to feel seen and understood by your parents. If only they knew how hurt you are right now, they'd never hurt you like this...

I'm not sure if you've had a chance to talk to your parents about this. If you're not comfortable doing so, you can always talk to other adults around you and ask them to speak to your parents on your behalf. You could also reach out to the school's psychological counselor or homeroom teacher and ask them to chat with your parents.

In short, there are so many ways to help you solve problems! You can leave a message here for help, for example. Remember, the strong seek help!

You can find the solution to these problems! You are strong and you can do this!

I really hope my reply helps you! Warm regards!

Good morning. I extend to you a warm embrace from afar. When you are not accepted, understood, or affirmed by your closest family members, you may experience feelings of injustice, anger, helplessness, and powerlessness.

It is important to allow and accept your deep sense of grievance, anger, and helplessness when facing harsh criticism and abuse from family members. It is also crucial to be aware of your painful emotions and identify the underlying needs, such as the desire to be accepted, affirmed, understood, supported, respected, and trusted.

The reason why your parents' words and actions cause you particular distress and render you unable to respond effectively is largely because you identify with and internalize the way they treat you. This is probably because you have internalized the belief that you are not good enough.

It is important to understand that parents treat their children in this way not because the children are not good enough, but because the parents are releasing and expressing their own feelings of not accepting their inner bad selves through their children. It is also possible that the parents were treated in this way by their own parents and grew up as unloved and deprived children. When parents are not very aware of the way they were raised, they will instinctively copy the way their parents raised them.

Fortunately, you have a clear awareness of the harm your parents' words and actions have caused you. This awareness allows you to respond in a more appropriate manner. For example, you can try to communicate your true feelings and needs to your parents in a sincere and courageous manner. This will ensure that they are aware of the impact of their words and actions on you.

It is also recommended that you maintain an emotional diary to document the adverse effects of your parents' words and actions. This will assist you in developing a more constructive relationship with your emotions, allowing you to understand and process them more effectively. It will also help you identify the underlying needs associated with your emotions and explore more effective ways to meet those needs.

It would be beneficial to treat yourself in the manner you would like to be treated.

My name is Lily, and I am the Q&A Center's designated listener. I extend my personal regards to you all, and I wish you well.

(Continued from the previous article, I accidentally posted it by mistake.)

What if we find ourselves in a situation where we are unable to accept the way our parents treat us, and this results in us experiencing harm?

1. Consider finding a safe haven.

It might be helpful to consider whether there is a teacher or a loved one you can trust and communicate with.

It is possible for people to heal themselves from inner wounds, although it can take a long time. If there is an adult who can understand you and help you, it may be the case that the healing effect will be better and faster.

2. Look for ways to support yourself.

You might find it helpful to keep a success journal, recording only the good things you have done and the feelings you have had each day. Affirming and encouraging yourself could also be beneficial.

With time, you may come to recognize your own capabilities and the potential for achieving great things.

3. Acceptance and affirmation.

Parents are often our closest companions, but they are not perfect and will make mistakes. It may be challenging for them to recognize that their methods are not always the most effective until they are ready to make a change.

It's possible that you're feeling angry, but you may not know how to express it to your parents directly. This can lead you to take it out on yourself and even feel like you want to disappear. This is an opportunity for you to grow and learn.

The first step is to accept the situation.

Perhaps it would be helpful to consider what exactly is meant by the phrase "parents can't love."

It's possible that their parents were also raised in this way, which might explain why they believe this is love. However, it's important to recognise that love can also hurt.

It is important to recognize that what your parents can give you is already the best they can give you. While they have good intentions, their methods may not be the most effective. It can be challenging to change your parents' behaviors.

Once you have accepted them, you may find it easier to let go of your feelings towards your parents and yourself.

Step 2: Show your appreciation for your parents' efforts.

It is only when you have a child that you realize how challenging it can be to raise one. From the moment you are born until the second day of this year, there must have been moments of warmth in the ten years. Perhaps it would be beneficial to take a closer look at your parents. What changes have occurred in them over the years? They were once children too.

Perhaps it has been a while since you have hugged your parents. If you feel so inclined, you might consider giving them a hug now.

It is said that we all have two evaluation systems: internal and external. When you have an objective and realistic evaluation of yourself, have expectations and confidence, and external evaluations no longer affect you, it could be said that you have truly grown up.

In the stillness of the night, I find myself thinking of you and sending you my love.