Fifth grade, I am sorry to be a human. Do you think I am right?

Hello, classmate!

Your words reveal your exhaustion.

You are the "child of other people's family." You have to work much harder than ordinary people behind this excellence.

You can't find a way to relax despite all the pressure and coercion.

Online violence, the incomprehension of your classmates, and the misunderstanding of your parents all made it clear to you that you were being asked to bear too much.

When you do your best to meet other people's expectations of you, you neglect your unique self.

You are in pain. It is more than you can bear. You want to run away.

You don't have to be the "best" student. You can drop out and stay away from the online world of right and wrong.

When you escape like this, you realize that this kind of life is not worth living. In fact, you want to end your life.

I'm here to tell you that ordinary people deserve to live.

There is plenty of room for ordinary people. Take Yixinli, for example. It has lots of ordinary people, as well as many people who help others, and many people who have helped themselves and helped others.

I am not an outstanding person, but I am here to chat and hang out every day.

Dear Sir/Madam, My name is K., and I am a whale.

I would like to embrace you and move you in a celebratory, joyous manner.

As you have previously stated, you are the child of another individual. Therefore, it is imperative that you conduct yourself in an exemplary manner. You have the potential to be truly remarkable.

As a human being, it is unproductive to engage in self-pity. It is not necessary to accept the disrespectful messages from one's parents, online trolls, or keyboard warriors, who are irresponsible and lack understanding. These individuals are indiscriminately launching attacks with their vile words.

It is imperative that you continue to exemplify excellence, radiate your unique brilliance, and contribute to the world.

You are in the fifth grade, and your small body contains great energy. The fact that you are outstanding demonstrates that you have also endured academic pressure that most children cannot bear, as well as strict parenting and even harsh criticism from your parents.

I would like to reiterate my desire to provide you with a comforting gesture. It is evident that you are a sensible individual, confronting these challenges independently. It is plausible that your emotional state is adversely affected, resulting in a state of distress.

It is essential to develop the ability to regulate one's emotions, achieve inner peace, and cultivate strength and resilience. It is crucial to recognize that accepting another person's ill will is detrimental and does not serve any constructive purpose. It is important to avoid becoming overly preoccupied with the words and actions of others.

Those who are envious will continue to exist, and those who are virtuous will continue to do so as well. If one is virtuous and those who are envious of one's virtue persecute one, one must continue to be virtuous and work hard to climb to the top of the mountain. Once one has reached the summit, one will no longer be able to hear or see those who are envious. From the top of the mountain, one will only be able to see the scenery that few people (those who are as virtuous as one) can see. That is one's own beauty.

I perceive you, and the world and I admire you. I encourage you to embrace your inherent worth.

I extend to you a 360-degree embrace.

Firstly, it is important to note that the following statement has been misinterpreted. It originates from the novel "No Longer Human" by Japanese writer Osamu Dazai. Following the completion of this book, Dazai elected to take his own life. In fact, he had attempted suicide on numerous occasions during his relatively short life of 39 years. It is notable that a significant number of Japanese writers committed suicide between the ages of 35 and 40, which may be related to the cultural norms of Japan.

Despite the pervasive despondency in Osamu Dazai's oeuvre, there persists a glimmer of unadulterated hope. This hope is predicated upon the indomitable perseverance of individual subjectivity.

This is an example of fear. As human beings, we are born with the capacity to pursue goodness and beauty, as demonstrated by the protagonists of Osamu Dazai's works, who despite being physically destroyed, did not give up this pursuit.

Therefore, if this sentence is interpreted as a means of relinquishing the struggle against social injustice, it would be a gross misrepresentation of Osamu Dazai and his writings.

The aforementioned interpretation is based on literary sources. My own interpretation is that even if someone is dissatisfied, denigrates me, insults me, and thinks I don't deserve to live in this world, I find the way they can't stand the sight of me and can't get rid of me intriguing.

For further insight, I would recommend reading the book I Just Love It When You Can't Stand The Sight Of Me But Can't Get Rid Of Me.

I recall an incident in elementary school when I was involved in a physical altercation with a classmate who had reported me. In junior high school, I was isolated by a few classmates. However, I was able to avoid any significant difficulties as a result of my academic performance and the teacher's inclination to favor students with good grades. Additionally, I was resilient and inclined to hold a grudge. I also formed a close-knit group of friends.

Indeed, I am more interested in the rationale behind your assertion. You stated that your parents engaged in a physical altercation and that you resorted to using scissors to end your own life, yet you survived. It is evident that your parents' relationship was severely strained, to the extent that at such a young age, you felt the need to take extreme measures to protect your family and divert your parents' attention.

Similarly, it is possible that your behavior at school, and the fact that you did not provide a rationale for why your classmates would engage in cyberbullying, could be the result of your subconscious mind creating conflict in order to appear rebellious and thereby continue to attract your parents' attention by making yourself a problem child. It is also possible that some children do engage in ganging up and bullying other students, as depicted in the film "Better Days."

In any case, the bullying at school is something that must be confronted directly. Regrettably, I am unable to suggest a suitable method for assisting you.

It is generally recommended that you consult with a psychologist. Given that primary and secondary schools are now required to have a psychology teacher on staff, this is a viable option for you.

An alternative option would be to seek the assistance of a counselor and engage in family therapy with your parents.

Ultimately, I will offer you a 360-degree embrace. You are still young, and you have a lengthy future ahead of you. You were born to live life to its fullest extent, so how can you not do so while you are on earth?

As a counselor, I recognize that I often approach situations with a pessimistic outlook, but I also recognize the value in maintaining a positive perspective. I believe that the world and I have a genuine affection for you.

I can totally see how the questioner might be feeling a bit confused.

The OP has had to face some tough challenges at this age, including criticism from parents, rejection from classmates, and the pressure of studying.

It's like a mountain of pressure, isn't it?

Cyber violence is a form of violence that's pretty unique to modern society. The anonymity of the internet allows people to express their inner desires and find a sense of existence in the online world after feeling dissatisfied in real life.

It's so important to remember that the power of online violence can be very strong, and that not everyone can withstand such attacks.

It's so important to remember that there's no such thing as absolute right or absolute wrong in the world.

It's possible that the questioner has shared some of their own views online and hasn't been acknowledged by others. This can lead to frustration and a desire to silence those who disagree. Unfortunately, this can result in verbal attacks.

It's totally normal for both sides to stand in their own perspectives, face their own worlds, and attack other people's worlds. That's what makes us all different!

It's totally understandable that people behind the internet are uncertain about their age and gender. After all, we're all different, and that's what makes us special! So, it's probably best not to compare.

It's so sad when students are subjected to so many verbal attacks. It's definitely a very serious matter.

The poor questioner feels so misunderstood by his parents' scolding.

It's hard to imagine what pressure parents face, isn't it?

And parents also don't understand the pressure their kids are under.

We've all been there! We all were kids once too. But as we grow and change, so do our memories, perceptions, and experiences. What was relevant then might not be today.

It's totally normal to make the same mistakes as your parents did when you were growing up.

It's possible that the parents' scolding and beating is because they had similar experiences when they were young. It might also be a way for them to release pressure.

When you're feeling unsure about how to handle a situation, it's natural to turn to tried-and-true methods like discipline and guidance. This approach was once the most common way of educating children, but times have changed.

It's totally normal for honor students to have conflicts with classmates!

I'm not sure what the issue is here.

But if you take a step back and look at these things again after a while or a few years, you'll probably see things differently. Maybe they're important to you now, but people change, and that's okay!

We all have our own point of view, and that's totally okay! Nobody can convince anyone else, so let's just agree to disagree.

Just go with the flow, learn to talk about it, and you will definitely find someone who shares your views. You don't have to please everyone, and that's okay!

And let's not forget about the pressure of studies, which will stick with you for a long, long time. Do your best, and you'll always be the best you can be!

Learning is one of the easiest ways to gain something, and it's a wonderful thing!

We all experience stress at some point in our lives. It's how we deal with it that matters!

If you feel lost, don't worry! Just read more, do more exercises, do things you like, and distract yourself.

When others question you, don't always think about repelling them. We're all just doing our best, and no one is absolutely right, not you and not anyone else. Stay calm, and you'll be unstoppable!

The world is a big, beautiful place, and we only have a short time here. So, take a moment to appreciate the beauty around you. Look at the sky and the vegetation, relax, and take a few deep breaths.

Don't worry, as long as there is a problem, it will be solved! And remember, human memory tends to fade, and other people's opinions of you are never as important as your own.

It's also good to remember that others pay far less attention to you than you think.

Relax, my dear. Get a good night's sleep. Let sleep relieve your tension.

Relax, my dear. Get a good night's sleep, and let sleep relieve your tension.

Greetings, child.

It is with great sadness and distress that I read your words, my dear child. You are currently in the fifth grade, which would place you at the age of 11 or 12.

Given your age, it is surprising to observe the level of distress you are experiencing. It is evident that you have endured significant challenges, which have had a profound impact on your emotional well-being.

Auntie is prepared to address these issues with you. Is that acceptable? Auntie also has children, and observing your vulnerability is akin to observing my own. It is my hope that you will all flourish and prosper, and that I can be of some assistance along the way.

We will commence with the subject of parents.

As a mother, my primary concerns are the safety and happiness of my child. Additionally, I encourage them to excel academically. It is reasonable to assume that their parents would share these sentiments.

Parents in China typically aspire for their children to succeed and achieve remarkable outcomes. From their perspective, this not only enhances their own reputation but also secures a promising future for their offspring.

This will undoubtedly result in significant pressure being placed on the child to be a good child to their parents, and they will have to work ten times harder than others to achieve this. Therefore, I will say this to you on behalf of your parents: my child, you have worked hard and you have done a good job! It would be beneficial for you to find some time to tell your parents that you are tired and that you need a break.

It would be beneficial to inform your parents that you love them and hope that they can love you more wholeheartedly.

It is recommended that you communicate more with your parents and gain a deeper understanding of their perspectives. Effective communication can serve as a powerful tool for resolving a range of issues.

We will now proceed to discuss the phenomenon of parents engaging in conflict.

In contemporary society, the pace of life is rapid, and individuals are struggling to cope with the demands of daily life. They are required to attend work from 9 to 5, and may face a range of challenges at the office, which they may not feel able to discuss with others.

Consequently, the family becomes a venue for expressing frustration, with individuals in one's immediate circle becoming the recipients of such expressions. This is a regrettable state of affairs.

It is noteworthy that adults can exhibit behaviors that are reminiscent of childishness. In some instances, the child's anger may be a direct result of the release of pent-up emotions, rather than a direct reflection of the child's actions. This can lead to the child becoming the primary target of blame.

In conclusion, I would like to extend my sincerest apologies on behalf of your parents.

In conclusion, it is imperative to address the issue of unfair treatment by classmates.

Achievement in an academic setting is a source of pride and represents the culmination of dedicated effort.

It is imperative that students be protected from exclusionary and violent behaviors. School bullying and online violence must be immediately addressed and stopped. Students have the right to safeguard themselves from harm.

In China, moral norms are complemented by a legal and regulatory framework that assigns schools the responsibility of safeguarding minors. Students may seek assistance from their teachers and the school administration. Moreover, parents are obliged to provide support by accompanying their children to the school and assisting in addressing the issue.

It is imperative that you exhibit fortitude and assertively decline these detrimental actions. It is imperative that you recognize that no individual has the right to inflict harm upon you.

It is imperative to utilize the legal instruments at one's disposal to safeguard oneself.

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You have previously harmed yourself and were prevented from doing so by your parents. You are contemplating repeating this action. I am deeply concerned for your well-being, my dear child.

I am aware that you have endured a multitude of injustices and emotional distress, compounded by the considerable pressure exerted by your parents. It is understandable that you seek an escape from this environment. However, I must caution that this is not a viable solution. You are still in the early stages of your life, with numerous experiences yet to be had.

The world is a vast entity, and one's identity extends beyond the confines of immediate family and educational institutions. One's knowledge and fortitude can be leveraged to effect change, both at the personal and global levels. It is indeed possible to cultivate a sense of strength that is impervious to external pressures.

Your future is still long, and it is worthwhile to engage in the process of imagining and looking forward to it. If feasible, I aspire to accompany you from elementary school to university, and beyond, until you are able to contribute to positive change in the world.

I await your reply.

It is my sincere hope that my dear child will develop the qualities of courage, strength, happiness, and joy. I love you.

Hello, friend! I can see you're confused. Let me give you a hug.

You're going through some emotional issues right now. I give you a warm hug again.

Your experience reminds me of a TV series I watched when I was in Singapore. It was called Smile Justice.

The play features a young girl about your age. One rainy day, she took two of her female classmates and went across the street to school to rescue a puppy that had been abandoned.

As a result, they didn't see the speeding car that hit one of their female classmates.

Then the story of these three girls went viral online.

However, the classmates who were not present all attacked the fifth-grade girl online, criticizing her and saying, "Is her life worth less than a dog's?"

In the following days, her classmates scolded the little girl harshly, blaming her for what had happened. As a result, she was unable to cope and used a ballpoint pen to injure her arm.

Luckily, her aunt, who relied on her for everything, noticed what was going on in time. She asked her work partner to speak with the girl.

The aunt's colleague told the girl that she was actually at fault because she had overestimated her abilities. She should have called the police to handle the situation instead of dragging two female classmates from the same class to save the puppy in such a dangerous situation during heavy rain.

After her aunt's work partner gave her some advice, the little girl finally let go.

These days, it's all too common for online rumors to spread. Many people don't have all the facts and can lash out without thinking. If this has caused you any distress, I suggest you seek help from a professional counselor.

This month, the platform is offering a special discount on consulting prices. Students can get discounts of up to 80%.

If there's a school psychologist at your school, you can also ask her for help. Her services should be free of charge.

Your parents may have scolded and beaten you because that's just how they were brought up.

If you're not happy with the way your parents are raising you, you can speak to them about it. They'll be able to make changes.

It's not realistic to expect parents to be mind readers. They can't know what you're really thinking and feeling unless you tell them.

There's no doubt about it, schoolwork and classmates can be a source of pressure. But when we feel that pressure, it can actually be a good thing. It can spur us on to do our best and help us make progress.

I was about your age when I was in primary school. There was a male classmate who always got almost full marks in math. I made him my goal to strive for, and that year I did particularly well in my studies.

If you think it would help, I also suggest that children participate in the counseling room on this platform.

Every night after 8 pm, there's a free counseling room with different topics led by different teachers for one-on-one conversations. You can choose to enter anonymously, my child.

I really hope you can resolve the issue you're facing soon.

That's all I can think of for now.

I hope my answers above are helpful and inspiring to you, my young friend. I'm here to help, and I study hard every day.

Here at Yixinli, we love you and the world. Best wishes!