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Have you made too many erroneous plans in your major transfer and planning?

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Have you made too many erroneous plans in your major transfer and planning? By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

Just finished the interview for a major change today, I didn't perform well, I feel like I have no chance, but I'm not willing to continue studying in my original major (Environmental Science). However, I'm not sure if the major I applied for (Communication Engineering) is really what I like. At the same time, the difficulty of the Communication Engineering field is quite high, and if I switch, I will fall behind on many required courses (the teacher told me this during the interview). I'm not sure if I'm prepared for this, I feel... I've made too many wrong decisions, I'm very confused, what should I do?

Dominic Hughes Dominic Hughes A total of 2339 people have been helped

You had an interview for changing majors today and didn't do well. You don't know if you're ready. You feel like you've made wrong decisions and are confused.

You chose to change majors and interview, but the results aren't ideal. You feel like you have no chance and think switching will be difficult.

You want to change majors, but you failed the interview.

You feel you've made the wrong decision and are confused.

You can choose to change your major or not. Either way, you need to take responsibility. You're confused because you don't want to face the disadvantages and you want the advantages.

But everything has pros and cons. Taking responsibility means accepting the cons.

Wait for the interview results. If it goes well, study hard in your new major. If it doesn't, keep studying in your previous major. Find reasons you don't want to accept, accept reality, and enjoy learning more.

Good luck!

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Raphael Raphael A total of 7494 people have been helped

Hello, I'm Hua Er, and I'm here to help!

Let's dive into the original question and see what we can do to help! Let's start with the quote from the original poster.

I want to give the original poster a big hug first! I can see that the original poster is questioning their choice, and behind this questioning there may be fear of the future and worries about all the uncertainties. But I'm here to tell you that you can do it!

Changing majors really takes a lot of courage, and I want to give the OP a big pat on the back for having the courage to do it!

If you stay in your original major,

If you don't succeed in changing majors, don't worry! There are plenty of other ways to make up for your dissatisfaction with your current major. For example, you can explore your interests within your major, or you can take a second major to explore more possibilities.

When I went to university, I felt that the career development of my major was limited. But I soon realized that I could take charge of my future by choosing a second major! Although it was a bit hard to learn two majors at once, I gained so much from it.

If the transfer is successful,

I can see that the questioner is worried that after successfully transferring to a different major, there will be a lot of basic courses that have been left behind. But don't worry! There are plenty of ways to catch up on those basic courses.

I'll tell you a story that will inspire you! My friend wanted to switch to the mathematics major. He had a lot of basic courses to catch up on, but he was determined to make it happen. So in his sophomore year, he had a lot of sophomore courses to study, and he also needed to study additional freshman basic courses. It was a lot to take on, but he did it! He completed the courses and got into an excellent small class.

The original poster should definitely give it a try! Since you want to change majors, go into the new field of study and find the courage to spend time with your significant other. We can also lower our expectations of ourselves. You don't have to be the best in the new field as long as you're learning!

Everything is the best arrangement!

We may not be able to predict the future, but we can seize the present! All roads lead to Rome, and no matter which road we choose now, just keep going!

Confusion may be the norm in life, but that's okay! Instead of dwelling on whether the decisions you made in the past were right or wrong, it is better to look at how to proceed next and where to go. Trust yourself and follow your inner footsteps!

I really hope this helps the questioner! Come on!

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Daphne Woods Daphne Woods A total of 7261 people have been helped

It's been a week since the creation time, so I'm assuming the question owner has received the interview result notification by now.

I can see you're confused because the interview didn't go as well as you hoped. The interviewer made it clear that switching majors can be difficult, but you can do it.

You should be proud of yourself for having the courage to apply for a change of major and attend the interview. Regardless of the outcome, you have taken the first step towards making a change, and you should be applauded for that.

You need to put your emotions aside and calm down to think about what you really like.

When I was young, I always thought that everything was black or white. I was wrong. Everything is actually gray. The same goes for changing majors. Staying in environmental science may not be as bad as you think. You may slowly discover the good things about it. Changing to communication engineering may not be as difficult as some teachers say. There are many possibilities!

If you are a rational person, you need to make a list of the pros and cons of each profession and score them, then compare them.

If you are a sentimental person, then seize your sixth sense, follow your heart, and make a choice bravely.

No matter what the outcome, don't be discouraged. Don't dwell on whether you chose the right or wrong path.

Learn what you're interested in with a peaceful mind and a steady hand. Your major doesn't have to be your favorite, but you can still find what you're interested in within it. Take, for example, someone interested in video editing, but studying animal medicine. It may seem like a mismatch, but it's not. By learning the relevant software skills and combining the resources within reach, he started broadcasting live videos on how to raise cats and dogs. He started out unknown and unattended, but gradually gained a fixed number of followers. He then became a big V—and it's not impossible.

Don't doubt yourself. You haven't made any wrong decisions. You've made choices that follow your heart. Now, you just have to take action. Everyone who plays cards doesn't get to choose the cards they're dealt. But you can choose to maintain a stable mindset and turn a bad hand into a good one.

Come on, young man!

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Phoebe Baker Phoebe Baker A total of 8314 people have been helped

Hello. I can sense your anxiety, worry, confusion, and self-blame from your description.

You selected a major that you found challenging during the interview process, and you have some concerns. You're wondering if you'll be able to pass, if you'll fall behind in your major classes even if you do pass, and if this new major is truly your passion.

Additionally, you have reservations about continuing your studies in your original field.

Have you ever felt like you might have made some missteps along the way and are currently feeling a bit uncertain about your next steps?

It's not uncommon to feel lost in life. It's a normal experience, and there's no need to be overly critical of yourself.

It would be helpful for you to identify what you truly want, as well as what you don't want.

It's important to remember that there is no absolute right or wrong in this world.

In this world, there are no absolute right or wrongs. Everything that happens is the result of many factors.

I would gently encourage you not to lose confidence in yourself or feel that you have made the wrong choice.

Regardless of the outcome, it would be more beneficial to focus on what you can do to achieve the desired result rather than constantly doubting and criticizing yourself.

↗️ Life is made up of countless choices.

It might be helpful to pay attention to your thoughts and feelings in your daily life and studies, and to try to respect and trust these feelings.

As you go through this process, you will gradually come to understand your own feelings and preferences better.

When you feel confused, your intuition will likely guide you towards a suitable choice.

For instance, it's possible that some of your concerns about your new major have already provided you with a helpful indication of what to do.

↗️ It might be the case that you're not quite ready to make a choice.

It is possible that psychological conflict and tension may consume a great deal of energy and prevent you from concentrating on doing anything well.

It would be beneficial to try to accept and allow whatever the outcome may be.

Your concerns about your new major indicate that you may be uncertain about your decision.

If the change of major is not successful, it would be helpful to accept the current result and move on from any feelings of self-blame or entanglement with the past.

It would be beneficial to focus on learning your current profession well, create opportunities for yourself to have more choices, and avoid wasting the present in order to avoid losing the future.

If you believe in yourself, you may find that you are able to achieve the results you want.

I wish you the best of luck!

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Brett Brett A total of 5502 people have been helped

Hello, I can see that you're feeling anxious and confused.

First, it might be helpful to accept your own anxiety and confusion. It's important to remember that nobody is always right.

It is admirable when someone is willing to find a way out of a challenging situation. You are such a person, demonstrating a willingness to learn from past mistakes and taking action to address them.

It's possible that you may not have fully understood the major you applied for during the college entrance examination. This is a fairly common phenomenon under the current education model, with many students probably just graduating without thinking too much about it.

And you have chosen to correct your mistakes.

Secondly, if circumstances allow, it may be beneficial to seek guidance from a professional in an unfamiliar field. Individuals who can provide this assistance are often referred to as career planners.

They can be of assistance in helping you to identify the resources you have at your disposal, as well as your abilities. Once you have a clear understanding of yourself and your future prospects, the likelihood of making an ill-advised decision will be reduced.

It might be helpful to consider the advantages and disadvantages of your current situation before making a decision. It's certainly not too late to learn more about the major you're interested in switching to.

It might be helpful to consider whether you have the ability to learn those subjects. It would also be wise to think about whether you are prepared to deal with difficulties.

Once you have made your decision, it would be advisable to give it your all.

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Elise Elise A total of 7853 people have been helped

Hello,

Host:

I'm Zeng Chen, a heart exploration coach. I've read your post and I get that you're feeling confused and anxious right now.

I also want to commend you for being so open about your struggles and for actively seeking help on this platform. I'm sure it'll help you gain more clarity, organize your thoughts, and tackle your challenges with more confidence.

Next, I'll share some thoughts from the post that might help the poster see things from a different angle.

1. Take care of your emotions before you tackle the task at hand.

From the post, I can see that you mentioned that you're not sure if you're ready for this. I feel that... I've made so many wrong decisions, I'm so confused right now, what am I going to do? After reading this, I can understand your confusion.

If I were in your shoes, I'd be at a loss, too, facing these issues at your age.

However, now that I'm an observer, we can take a look at what we can do for ourselves. From the content of the post, I can tell that the poster seems to be in a dilemma, not knowing how to choose.

I can imagine that you might also feel a little anxious at this time, when you're feeling confused inside. When our emotions take over, it's harder to think clearly.

From a psychological standpoint, if we don't express our emotions, it's harder to think rationally. When our emotions are running high, it's more difficult to think clearly.

So, what the host might need to do is learn to express these emotions in a reasonable way and just let them flow. Once we've done that, we can probably face our own problems more calmly and see more possibilities from more perspectives.

2. Think about what you really want.

In the post, you said you don't want to continue studying environmental science. I'm not sure if communication engineering is the right major for you. It's a tough subject, and if you switch majors, you'll fall behind in professional courses. The teacher said this during the interview. It seems like you're not sure what you want to do.

So, let's think together: Do you want to change your major? Or do you really like Communication Engineering?

Often, people change majors not because they like the new one, but because they don't want to stay in the original one and don't like it. So, the major is just for "escaping" and not for liking.

So, the host might also want to think about this. Do you have any thoughts on changing your major?

3. Take a look at what resources you have at your disposal.

It's great that we have our own ideas and ambitions. But we also need to think about whether it's currently possible to make them happen or choose a different major.

We need to look at what resources we have available to us to see if we can make it happen. This is something we need to evaluate.

No matter how good an idea is, if it's not realistic, we won't be able to achieve it. That'll just lead to more frustration.

We need to bring together the resources around us and see what resources can help us the most. For example, there are lots of psychological teachers at many universities, so we can go and talk to them.

It would be great if you had the resources of a professional career planner. We all need to learn how to make the most of the resources around us to help ourselves.

4. Sometimes in life, it's not about being "correct."

Often, we need to get it right. It can give us a lot of security and achievement. But sometimes, if we're too obsessed with getting it right, it can hinder us.

From some points of view, life is a continuous process of trial and error, and learning from our mistakes helps us to grow.

And there's no such thing as a completely correct existence without some incorrect aspects to it, right? It's just like the Taiji diagram mentioned in our I Ching.

So, we need to take a step back and look at our previous plans with a fresh pair of eyes. We should identify the parts that aren't working and then make the necessary adjustments, rather than doubting ourselves and denying ourselves.

I hope this is helpful and inspiring for you.

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Flora Flora A total of 1892 people have been helped

Dear questioner, I am happy to answer your question.

It is often said that choosing a major that aligns with your interests is crucial when entering college. This decision can greatly influence your overall satisfaction with the learning process and your ability to grasp the subject matter quickly. However, if you do not feel a strong connection with your chosen major, it might prove more challenging to fully engage with the material. It is understandable that, at the beginning of their academic journey, many students may not have a clear understanding of the various academic options available to them. This can lead to decisions being made based on factors like test scores, rather than a genuine interest in the subject matter. It is not uncommon for students to discover that their initial choice of major does not fully align with their long-term interests after enrolling in college. In such cases, it may be necessary to pursue a different major, which often requires additional studies to obtain the necessary qualifications.

It is not uncommon for students to feel frustrated in this situation. Ultimately, the decision to change majors is up to the individual. If you are considering a change, it is advisable to take the exam without delay, as there is only one opportunity to do so. Otherwise, you will need to continue in your current major. Here are a few suggestions that may be helpful to consider.

It would be advisable to make a decision as soon as possible.

If students find themselves in this situation, it is important to make an informed decision as soon as possible. There is only one opportunity to change majors during the second semester of the first year, so it is crucial to consider all options carefully. If they miss this opportunity, they will have to continue studying in their chosen major until they graduate. It is, therefore, essential for students to reflect on their preferences and make an early decision.

2. It would be beneficial to continue studying hard.

If you discover after starting college that your chosen major does not align with your interests, you may wish to consider maintaining your grades and avoiding failure in any courses. This approach could potentially facilitate a smooth graduation. Additionally, major-specific learning can often be relatively straightforward, even if you do not particularly enjoy it. Attending classes and listening to lectures could be beneficial in this case.

3. It is possible that the job will not be related to the major.

It is becoming increasingly clear that the major you study in college may not be directly related to your future work. This is something that students should be aware of when making their choices. If you have chosen a major that you are not particularly interested in, there is no need to feel regretful or sorry for your decision. You can always audit other courses on campus and take courses that interest you, as long as you remain on track to graduate.

It is, after all, a path you have already chosen, and it may not be easy to give it up. Even if it doesn't match your expectations, it might be helpful to persevere and see it through.

I hope things work out for you!

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Orson Davis Forgiveness is a gift that keeps on giving, peace and love.

I can totally relate to how you're feeling right now. It's really tough when you're not sure about the path you're on. Maybe take a step back and think about what aspects of Communication Engineering drew you in the first place. Sometimes, exploring those interests can help clarify if it's the right fit for you.

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Natalie Anderson Learning is a habit that enriches life.

It's okay to feel uncertain; changing majors is a big decision. What helped me was talking to students already in the program. They can give you real insights into what it's like daytoday. Also, consider reaching out to a career counselor who can offer professional advice tailored to your situation.

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Yvonne Anderson The man who is swimming against the stream knows the strength of it.

Feeling like you've made wrong choices doesn't mean you're stuck. You could look into taking a few courses in Communication Engineering without fully committing. This way, you can gauge your interest and ability in the subject before making a bigger move. It might also ease the transition if you decide to switch.

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Leo Davis Diligence is the pen that writes the story of success.

The pressure of catching up can be overwhelming, but remember that everyone has their own pace. If you do decide to change, maybe start by bridging the gap with some preparatory work or summer classes. That could make the transition smoother and build your confidence as you go.

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Ignatius Davis A learned person's mind is a repository of ideas from different disciplines.

It's important to listen to your gut feeling. If Environmental Science no longer excites you, it's worth exploring other options. Just because the road ahead looks challenging doesn't mean it's not worth taking. Think about what you're passionate about and what kind of work you see yourself doing in the future. That might guide you to the right choice.

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