How can you commit suicide without being discovered?

Good morning. I extend my warmest regards from afar.

It is important to recognize the deep sense of grievance, anger, helplessness, and longing for understanding, acceptance, and equal treatment that arises within oneself when one is treated unfairly by one's parents.

The reason for your distress at the hands of your parents is that you have identified with and internalised their treatment of you. This may have led you to believe that you are not good enough. This is also the reason why you are unable to express your true feelings when you feel extremely hurt after being treated unfairly by your parents.

It would be beneficial to identify the underlying needs that may be driving the suicidal ideation, such as a desire for value, care, or concern. It is crucial to determine whether there are alternative ways to respond to and satisfy these needs in a more constructive manner.

It is important to understand that the way your parents treat you is not a reflection of your worthiness or wrongdoing. Rather, it is largely influenced by their own inner sense of inadequacy, which they unintentionally project onto you.

One possible course of action would be to compose a letter to your parents, in which you candidly convey the distressing emotional impact of their unfair treatment and express your desire for a different approach. This could help them recognize the harm their words and actions have caused.

Additionally, you may wish to consider treating yourself in a manner that aligns with your desired treatment, acting as your own ideal parental figure and compensating for any unmet needs resulting from your parents' actions.

My name is Lily, and I am the Q&A Museum's resident expert on all things audio. I extend my warmest regards to you and the entire world.

Greetings, question asker. My name is Jiang 61.

I am gratified that you were able to articulate your concerns in a timely manner and obtain assistance without delay.

From your description, it is evident that you are longing for a sense of belonging and security, which can be conceptualized as a "home, this warm haven." However, in the context of your actual circumstances, it is not possible to attain this state of comfort and stability.

As a result, they may experience profound distress and even perceive the meaning of life to be lost.

You have stated that you believe your sister will take care of you if you are injured. Consequently, you feel that your parents will reprimand you and physically punish you if you are hurt accidentally. This has led you to feel that you do not wish to live anymore.

I empathize with your frustration and extend a virtual embrace, with the hope that it will provide some measure of solace. I also hope that our analysis and advice will provide some degree of respite.

First, we will undertake an analysis of the reasons behind the disparate attitudes of your parents towards you and your sister.

First, it is possible that you are a male child. Alternatively, you may be a female child who is somewhat mischievous. In the context of the typical family unit, it is expected that boys will be strong and capable of supporting the family in the future. They should not be indulged or spoiled.

A boy who is overly delicate will not have a future. Therefore, in their opinion, incidents that occur by chance are inconsequential and do not require inquiry.

In the case of more mischievous girls, the assumption is that the injuries were the result of carelessness and that a beating will serve as a deterrent.

Secondly, it is possible that your sister is more introverted and sensitive, and that she is perceived by her parents as requiring more care. It is therefore plausible that the same situation occurred with both of you, but that your parents responded in markedly different ways.

It is important to note that the aforementioned neglect also has a significant impact on the emotional well-being of the child. The lack of attention and care from parents can lead to feelings of neglect and abandonment, which can have long-lasting effects on the child's psychological development.

It is necessary to analyze this situation from another perspective, namely that of the subject in question.

The following assertion is made: "I think." It is believed that the parents in question do not care for their offspring to the extent that is deemed appropriate. When the subject encountered a problem similar to that experienced by their sister, the parents not only demonstrated a lack of care for the subject, but also resorted to scolding and physical punishment.

In other words, this is merely your perspective, your interpretation of your parents' actions, rather than an accurate reflection of their thoughts and beliefs.

One might inquire as to why this is not the parents' perspective. It would be beneficial to consider other aspects of life and to reflect on the attitudes that parents hold towards their children. Do parents consistently demonstrate a lack of care for their children?

One might inquire whether the parents have ceased to care for the child.

It is not always the case that the way in which parents care about their children is evident to them. It is therefore important to be able to recognise and appreciate this care when it is demonstrated. In some cases, this may take the form of scolding, which can be seen as a more direct way of expressing care.

The parents' perspective is that they are responding to a perceived mistake by issuing a corrective measure with the intention of fostering future behavior modification. This approach may not align with the child's needs and expectations. What the child requires and is prepared to accept is a more compassionate and thoughtful approach.

The phrase "I think" leads to the assumption that it is not possible to treat one's parents in the same manner as one's siblings. This discrepancy is a significant source of distress. How, then, can this internal imbalance be resolved?

Firstly, it is important to allow your parents to comprehend your requirements and convey to them the extent to which you feel disheartened by their reprimands and in need of their affection and guidance. Once your parents have a deeper understanding of your emotional state, they will be more inclined to alter their approach.

Secondly, it is imperative to detach from your fixation and cultivate resilience. When you are resilient, you will not be unduly troubled by responsibilities such as caring for your sister and disregarding your emotions.

One might posit that these experiences are, in fact, a deliberate exercise that your parents are subjecting you to.

Third, it is important to demonstrate understanding and empathy towards one's parents, particularly in light of their status as first-time parents and the inherent challenges associated with this role. While their parenting style may not be optimal, it is evident that they are striving to provide the best possible care and guidance for their child.

Topic Master, I would also like to suggest that you consider the positive aspects of life and that you seek the advice of a professional teacher if you encounter an obstacle that seems insurmountable. With the right guidance, you can overcome any challenge.

The path to happiness is always available to those who seek it.

It is my sincere hope that you will find happiness.

I extend my sympathies to the original poster. Being treated unfairly must evoke a range of negative emotions, including frustration, sadness, and a sense of helplessness.

This is particularly the case if the aforementioned treatment has been ongoing for an extended period of time.

You must be experiencing a high level of depression and sadness.

Indeed, you have demonstrated admirable restraint and tolerance, and I commend you for that.

I hope you can take a step back and reassess your expectations of your family. You are still young, and even if you feel your family is biased against you and does not love you, you must love yourself.

I am experiencing feelings of sadness and depression due to my continued optimism regarding the future. Despite the lack of tangible evidence to support this hope, I am confident that a logical rationale can be identified through a calm and analytical approach.

Let me analyze it with you.

If you do not have hope, you will not be disappointed or sad. People throughout history who have no desires or ambitions do not care how others treat them as long as they are free and carefree. Consequently, they are less likely to give up on themselves due to unfair treatment by others.

Expressing your thoughts and emotions in a forthright manner indicates that you are still open to exploring alternative solutions.

It is important to note that when individuals are emotionally distressed, their ability to reason is significantly impaired. Therefore, when experiencing such emotions, it is crucial to release and soothe them as much as possible while avoiding making any hasty decisions.

The majority of individuals express regret over the decisions they make at this juncture.

Additionally, as a minor, my brain development was not yet complete, and my emotions were prone to fluctuations and easily influenced. It is therefore important to learn ways to release emotions effectively. The following methods may be helpful: 1. Distraction 2. Music, baths, singing 3. Good sleep 4. Chat with someone you feel at ease with It is important to find a method that suits you.

I previously enjoyed painting by myself, taking my painting board into the house and working for an entire day. I would then gradually calm down, and I encourage you to find your own way of doing so.

Indeed, I have experienced negative and desperate thoughts on numerous occasions.

On one occasion, I experienced a profound sense of isolation and despair, feeling that I was misunderstood in this vast world. In that moment, I heard a voice, solemn and unexpected, inquiring, "How long will you remain mired in this problem?"

I was taken aback and immediately checked to ensure I was not hallucinating and that I was alone. I then proceeded to calm down gradually.

My original intention was to ascertain the source of the sound and its origin.

Then I had the insight that throughout history, there have been individuals who have achieved a high level of happiness. I will identify the common factors among these individuals and then determine how to apply the principles of happiness to a broader population.

The concept originated more than ten years ago.

I conducted extensive research, uncovering valuable insights about the world, life, and myself.

I came to recognize that the worldview I was taught as a child was not necessarily applicable to my current circumstances.

Furthermore, I am aware that previously I lacked self-awareness and an understanding of the world. These highly negative thoughts are, in fact, pessimistic emotions that hijack our thinking, causing us to make some subjective judgments and analyses and then draw a biased conclusion.

This sentence may appear somewhat complex, but it can be distilled to a simple premise: allowing emotions to prevail will result in a loss of reason. During such instances, thoughts lack logical coherence, and acting on them will likely lead to regret.

It is essential to make your decision when you are emotionally stable and at peace. Only when you are at peace can you hear the voice of your heart.

Each individual has their own perspective on the subject of life.

I will not impose my views on you if you are uncertain. You may wish to visit a funeral home or the critical care unit of a hospital to gain an understanding of the situation. I am confident that you will find it moving.

Given the challenges of arriving on Earth, it would be prudent to make the most of your time here by striving to succeed in the game.

I believe that life is a game that must be won. We only have one chance, so we should make the most of it and work hard to succeed. Then, we will receive a wonderful reward.

If you avoid confrontation at all costs and are inclined to abandon the task at hand, you will miss the opportunity to resume the process at a later point in time.

However, after viewing the TV series "The Beginning," I also believe that if a problem is not fully resolved, we are likely to experience an infinite loop with that problem. Each time this occurs, it will become increasingly challenging to overcome it. Therefore, it is preferable to be slightly more resilient this time and identify a solution for each problem individually.

In retrospect, you are compelled to admire your own achievements.

After all this, I am unsure if I have provided any comfort or inspiration. In fact, I would like to offer you a hug.

I imagine you must have felt particularly sad and lonely when you typed these words.

I would like to suggest that you get a good night's sleep, eat something nourishing, and calm your emotions. You may find that this idea will cause you regret later on, as an irrational thought is trying to influence your life decisions.

Once you have regained your composure, you will be able to appreciate your own value.

There are numerous promising opportunities for future experiences that could be both beautiful, touching, and surprising.

If you are not afraid of death, then what are the potential risks associated with living?

It would be prudent to adopt a more fearless approach, living a more down-to-earth and brighter life.

Rather than focusing on your own achievements, it would be more beneficial to consider how you can contribute to the wider world. Ask yourself regularly, "What can I do for the world?" and "What can I do to make the world a better place?"

What you put into the world will come back to you multiplied.

By extending more tenderness and love, you will receive a greater return in the form of love and tenderness. The first step is to be open to seeing the love and warmth in life.