Good day, To whom it may concern,
From your description, it seems that you are a young girl who is seeking her boyfriend's care and attention. However, it appears that you have repeatedly failed to receive it, which has led you to break off contact with him.
It seems that you are not entirely satisfied with some of the things your boyfriend has done. You want your boyfriend to care about and take care of you, but he hasn't done these things, which makes you feel uncomfortable and unhappy. You want him to see your feelings of being aggrieved and irritated and understand how you feel.
This is a perfectly normal reaction.
However, your method appears to be interrupting the connection between you two, using his concern and love for you to make him feel uncomfortable, and then he rushes to restore the connection to appease you in order to alleviate this discomfort.
Such a method may be effective, but it is only so if he truly cares about you, loves you, and is willing to take action to make amends. However, it seems that your current method is to achieve this by shaking and disrupting your relationship, which could potentially be damaging.
I believe you may also feel that such behavior has had a negative impact on your relationship with your boyfriend.
Questioner, it seems that your goal is to crave the other person's care and love, but your behavior may be inadvertently hurting the relationship with the other person in order to get it. This kind of behavior may not be sustainable and could potentially be dangerous. It may be worth considering whether this approach is truly aligned with your goal of "getting the other person's care."
If you were to be given another chance, what method would you choose to use?
I hope the above advice is helpful to you.


Comments
I understand where you're coming from. It's frustrating when you feel like your calls aren't reciprocated. I guess sometimes we just need to communicate our feelings more openly and remind each other of what we need in the relationship.
It sounds like you had a tough night. Relationships can be really challenging, especially when you feel unbalanced. Maybe it would help to have an honest conversation with him about how his lack of calls makes you feel. Setting expectations might ease some tension.
Your boyfriend seems to have a different way of showing care. It's hard when both partners don't align on this. Perhaps focusing on the positive aspects, like his parents being nice to you, could lift your spirits a bit. But also, it's okay to voice your needs to him.
It's clear that you've been putting a lot of effort into understanding and adjusting to his needs. That's commendable. However, it's also important for you to set boundaries and express when something is bothering you. Selfcare is crucial too; doing things that make you happy can strengthen your relationship.
Feeling neglected can hurt deeply. It's good that you're acknowledging your emotions rather than suppressing them. Sometimes these situations push us to grow and learn more about ourselves. Maybe this experience will lead to a better balance in your relationship or help you find new ways to fulfill your own companionship needs.