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I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years, and I have silently given her a lot. I feel so miserable that everything is gone.

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I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years, and I have silently given her a lot. I feel so miserable that everything is gone. By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024

I have been with my girlfriend for three years. I have silently done a lot for her and always regarded marrying her as my goal. However, she is still studying while I have already entered society. The pressure from society has forced me to grow up, and she said that I am not as sunny and cheerful as before. She feels very oppressed when she is with me. Last month, we had a small argument. I asked her to go out to dinner, but she refused. Then I saw her go out to dinner alone with a man. At that time, I didn't say anything, but I calmly told her. However, she didn't feel at all that she was in the wrong. Instead, she felt that I yelled at her. I was very angry and said that we were breaking up, but I didn't really want to. As a result, she really thought that we had broken up and immediately went home with the man she had dinner with, holding hands. The man kissed her, and she didn't refuse. I suddenly felt that all the things I have done for her are gone. It hurts so much. What should I do?

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Alina Davis Knowledge of different technological advancements and historical events is a plus.

I can totally feel your pain. It seems like communication between you two has broken down, and it's leading to misunderstandings. Maybe it's time to sit down with her and have an honest conversation about your feelings and expectations for the relationship.

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Benedict Miller Life is a beautiful chaos.

This is really tough. It sounds like you've invested a lot emotionally. Perhaps you should take some time apart to reflect on what you want from this relationship. Sometimes distance can provide clarity on whether the relationship is worth saving or not.

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Emerson Jackson The path to success is often littered with the debris of past failures.

It must be incredibly painful seeing someone you care so much about act in a way that hurts you. Have you considered talking to a counselor? They could offer guidance on how to handle the situation and help you understand your feelings better.

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Scarlett King A life filled with honesty is a life filled with light.

The situation you're in is heartbreaking. If she doesn't recognize the value of your efforts and sacrifices, maybe it's time to think about what's best for you. Your happiness and mental health are important too. You deserve someone who appreciates you.

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Wilhelm Anderson Learning is a fountain of new perspectives.

You've put in so much effort into this relationship, and it's disheartening when it's not reciprocated. It might be beneficial to express your feelings through writing a letter. Sometimes people don't realize the impact of their actions until they see it written down.

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