It annoys my husband. Now that we are expecting our second child, what should we do?
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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
We have been married for almost 11 years. We started off with a good relationship, despite the disapproval of our families. Since my husband is the one who moved into the family home, my family was initially against the relationship, but they eventually accepted it and came to terms with the fact that we were together. My family has been treating him well. Perhaps after a few years, due to the circumstances of his work and some family factors, I feel that my husband and I don't have the same good relationship as before. He always says that he speaks for my family, but I am really torn between the two. My husband also has a short temper, and sometimes when he is wrong, he feels that he is being selfish. Now that I am pregnant with our second child, he has cheated on me with a married online acquaintance whom he met and started dating. But when I found out, he said that he was repentant and knew that he had done wrong. But while he is trying to change, I always feel that my husband sometimes speaks even more harshly to me, saying that I don't cherish him and that he is unhappy and annoyed in our family. What should I do? Now that I am pregnant with our second child, I am really annoyed. My husband has known this married online acquaintance for a while, and he said that he would not contact him now while I am pregnant.
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I can't believe this is happening after everything we've been through. I thought we had built something strong, something that could overcome any obstacle. Now with the second baby on the way, I just want stability and trust, but his actions have shattered what we had. How do we move forward from such a betrayal?
It's hard to know what to think anymore. On one hand, he seems genuinely remorseful and wants to change for us and the new baby. But on the other hand, his temper and harsh words are making it difficult for me to believe in his promises. I wish I could feel safe and loved again, but it's not easy when there's so much hurt.
I'm feeling so lost right now. My husband says he regrets his actions, yet his behavior hasn't improved much. It's especially tough because of the pregnancy; I need emotional support more than ever. Maybe I should focus on myself and the baby, and try to figure out if there's a way for us to heal or if it's time to consider my future without him.
The situation feels unbearable. He cheated knowing I was pregnant, which makes me question everything about our relationship. Even though he claims to be changing, the way he speaks to me has gotten worse. I don't know how to reconcile his repentance with his continued negativity. Perhaps seeking advice from a counselor would help clarify what steps I should take next.