Parents divorced, sister got divorced, suddenly feel very disappointed with life?
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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
When I was young, my parents divorced very early. My sister is eight years older than me and is very strict with me. Things were fine until I went to university. After I broke up with my girlfriend and my sister got divorced, I found it hard to raise my child (my mother and I, as she has not remarried). I suddenly felt very disappointed with life and felt that I could not have the happy life I had expected. I could not study anymore and eventually had to leave university.
Now I am working, slowly starting from the bottom, and I feel much more open-minded.
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Comments
Life has its ups and downs, and it seems like you've been through quite a lot. It's understandable to feel disappointed when things don't go as planned, especially with all the challenges you faced early on. But I'm glad to hear that you're working now and finding your way, showing resilience despite everything.
It sounds like you've had a tough journey, from your parents' divorce to personal setbacks. Yet, it's inspiring to see that you're rebuilding your life step by step. Sometimes we need to hit rock bottom before we can truly appreciate the climb back up. Keep going; every experience shapes who we become.
I admire your strength in facing such significant life changes headon. The path hasn't been easy, but you've shown remarkable perseverance. Starting from the bottom can be challenging, but it also provides a solid foundation for growth. Keep pushing forward with that openminded attitude.
Hearing about your experiences, it's clear you've encountered more than your fair share of difficulties. Despite the disappointments, you've managed to find work and are gradually moving forward. That's a testament to your determination. Remember, it's okay to take things one day at a time.
Your story is filled with moments of hardship, but also resilience and adaptability. Leaving university must have been hard, but sometimes life takes us down unexpected paths that lead to new opportunities. It's great that you're feeling more openminded now; it shows you're growing and evolving.