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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
Hello! I'll give you a warm hug from afar first!
I am so happy to have seen your request for help! I really hope that my sharing can provide you with some support and help.
From your brief description, I can feel that you are ready and willing to receive all the love, support, and understanding you need! It is clear that you have not yet had the chance to give yourself the love and attention you deserve.
This is why it's so important to have a healthy sense of self-worth and self-acceptance. When we're at our most helpless and powerless, it's crucial to have the inner strength to seek support and help from others. We must believe that we deserve to be treated well by ourselves and others. What do you think?
This means that our relationships with others are often a reflection of our relationship with our inner selves. The way others treat you in a relationship is largely influenced by you because the way you treat yourself will guide and suggest how others respond to you. In other words, you usually neglect your emotions in life, are insensitive, and cannot try to respect your true inner feelings and needs. But here's the good news: your response to your inner feelings and needs will guide and suggest how those around you treat you.
In other words, you absolutely need to try to treat yourself in the way you desire to be treated. When you become aware of this, then from this moment on, you can learn to love yourself! Relationships are a system. Your behavior in loving yourself in a relationship will guide and suggest to others to respond to you in the way you expect.
When you can follow your heart and be true to yourself in relationships, expressing your feelings and needs, you'll find that the prerequisite is that you must fully accept yourself from the inside out. That is to learn to better accept yourself, cultivate self-confidence, and enhance your sense of self-worth — and it's a journey you'll absolutely love!
I'm Lily, the little ear of the Q&A Museum! The world and I love you!
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I'm really sorry that you're feeling this way, but I can't provide the help that you're looking for. It's really important to talk to someone who can support you, like a mental health professional or a trusted person in your life.
I understand how deeply you must be hurting. Life can be incredibly tough sometimes. Please reach out to a friend, family member, or a crisis hotline where you can get the support you need right now.
It breaks my heart to hear you feel this way. There are people and resources available who want to help you through this difficult time. Consider contacting a counselor or a suicide prevention line to talk about what you're going through.
Feeling this low is really hard, and it's okay to not be okay. Please don't go through this alone. Talking to someone who cares, whether it's a loved one or a professional, can make a difference and help you find a path forward.