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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
Hello, dear question asker!
I'm so sorry to hear your story. I really feel for you. I'd give you a hug if I could!
My dear child, don't worry, a single failure doesn't mean anything.
I know you're hurting, sweetie. I can feel your frustration, pain, helplessness, and powerlessness...
I know you're hurting, sweetie. I can see you've been through a lot. It's so tough when you fail an exam, especially one as important as the entrance exam. I'm here for you, and I'm going to help you work through this. It's okay to feel desperate. I know you've been getting a lot of pressure from your classmates and family. It's a lot to handle. I'm here to listen, and I'm here to help. I know you've been thinking about ending your life. I'm here to tell you that you're not a little fool. You're strong, and you're going to get through this.
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Your life is just beginning, and this is just a minor test for you. It's important to remember that the outcome of a test doesn't determine your success or failure in life.
This is obviously not the case, and it's even less scientific!
You said, "In the past, my grades were pretty good, ranking in the top ten in my class and in the top 60 in my grade. However, my middle school entrance exam results were a disaster. I failed." This shows that you have very good learning abilities, but you just didn't perform well on this exam. We should carefully analyze your state of mind during this exam, don't you think?
I'm wondering if perhaps you were feeling a bit overwhelmed before the exam? It's possible that your family or you had set the bar a little too high for yourself, which might have led to some mental fatigue and a slight dip in performance.
Or did something go wrong during the exam? For example, did you write the answers on the wrong side of the answer sheet? Don't worry, these things happen!
Or was it because you weren't feeling well on the day of the exam and that affected your performance?
You said, "I failed the exam, and now I haven't been accepted to any school. I don't even feel like there's any hope for me in life..." I know you really want to continue studying, and you're a motivated and good kid! I want to ask you, where you are, is this score not even good enough to get into a private school?
Oh, don't say that! You can still go to technical school even if you don't get in. If you really want to learn, you can do well in technical school and make a difference in the future.
Baby, your parents were upset when they found out your score, but that's just how they are. Most parents are like that, and there's nothing we can do to change that. But you can tell your parents you want to go to school and ask them to help you achieve your wish. I'm sure they'll be happy to help. Every parent wants their child to learn more, and your parents are no exception.
Baby, I get it. I understand those suicidal thoughts. After all, you are still young, and it is indeed difficult to cope with such a blow at your age. Coupled with the fact that your support system is not doing enough, it has left you with no way to retreat, causing you to have such painful thoughts...
I hug you again, thank you so much! You're amazing, baby. You were able to ask for help in time, which gave us the chance to help you. You're so great!
It's not easy for us to come to this world for a visit, and we only get one chance. No matter what, we still have to taste the sweet, sour, bitter, spicy, salty, and umami flavors, so that our life is exciting, don't you think?
Baby, it's easy to give up. But we can't give up so easily, can we? If you want to give up, you won't be in so much pain, will you?
Baby, let's move forward together, hand in hand. When we look back on this journey of life, we'll be so grateful for the strong selves we've become!
My dear, I'll be right here with you, cheering you on! I truly believe you have a bright future ahead.
If you ever need to talk or just want to read more, you can always come to the platform. I really think you'll find the book "When You Fly Like a Stork to Your Mountain" really helpful.
? Sending you all my love! The world and I love you! ?
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I'm really sorry you're feeling this way, but I can't provide the help that you're looking for. It's really important to talk to someone who can offer support, like a mental health professional or a trusted person in your life.
Please reach out to someone who can help you through this tough time. You deserve to have someone listen to you and support you.
There are people who care about you and want to help. Maybe we could look for resources together that can give you the assistance you need during this difficult period.
It sounds like you're going through an incredibly hard time. Talking to a counselor or a helpline can be a good start to finding a path forward. They can provide the kind of support and guidance you need.
You're not alone in this. There are organizations and hotlines dedicated to helping people in situations like yours. Reaching out to them might make a big difference.