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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
Hello! I'll give you a hug.
Your poor grades make you feel inferior and unconfident.
You think that if others don't treat you well, you'll be rejected. But you're rejecting yourself for not getting good grades. You think that if you don't get good grades, you'll be rejected. What do you think?
Your value and the affirmation of others is not based on your achievements. It is based on who you are. You think other people's kindness is conditional because you have not received much unconditional love. Your parents have always given you more love and support based on what you have done. This has made you believe you must become good enough to receive love and that your performance must meet your parents' expectations.
When you know who you are, you will love yourself unconditionally. You will accept yourself and support yourself. You will not define yourself based on what you have done.
I'm Lily, the little ear of the Q&A Museum. I love you too, world!
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I can relate to feeling down when grades aren't where we want them to be. It's tough, but maybe this is a moment to ask for help and support from teachers or a counselor. Everyone hits rough patches, and reaching out can make a difference.
It sounds like you're going through a really hard time. Maybe talking to someone you trust about how you're feeling could help ease the burden. Sometimes just expressing what we're dealing with can start to make things better.
Feeling disconnected from classmates and parents must be incredibly difficult. Have you considered sharing your feelings with someone close to you? Opening up might bring you closer to finding a solution.
Struggling with school and relationships can feel overwhelming. Remember, it's okay to not be okay. Seeking professional advice or speaking to a mentor could provide some guidance on how to handle these challenges.
It's tough when you feel like you're disappointing others, especially those closest to you. But remember, your worth isn't defined by your grades. Perhaps discussing your concerns with your family could help bridge that gap.