Dear Question Owner,
My name is Evan, and I am a Jing Shu-style counselor.
From the information provided, it is evident that the questioner is experiencing negative emotions, including confusion and anxiety. Previously, the questioner also posed questions on this platform, and at that time, it appeared that the anxiety was quite significant.
With regard to the dizziness you are currently experiencing, it appears to be a somatic reaction to stress or pain.
The questioner indicated that he experiences insomnia. However, he noted that he is able to fall asleep more easily when he sleeps with his husband. There are various potential causes for insomnia, which may involve multiple factors such as physiology, psychology, and environment.
Vestibular neuritis can indeed lead to insomnia, as the symptoms of dizziness and nausea caused by the disease can affect sleep quality. Furthermore, job changes may cause work-related stress and discomfort, which is also a possible cause of insomnia.
The questioner's concerns about sleeping in a separate room from her husband and affecting the relationship between husband and wife are understandable. However, it is important to note that psychological factors such as anxiety and worry can also affect sleep quality.
While the questioner indicated that his insomnia would improve following inpatient treatment, it may still flare up on occasion. I would like to inquire whether this flare-up is related to the questioner's work pressure. The questioner can observe and identify the circumstances under which his insomnia will worsen. This observation will assist the questioner in identifying the root cause of his insomnia.
I would advise the questioner to consult with a specialist in a particular field to help identify the underlying issue causing their current situation. Additionally, I would like to offer the following advice:
It is recommended that the patient continue treatment for vestibular neuritis to maintain stability of their physical condition and alleviate discomfort. Additionally, they may wish to explore other forms of treatment, such as traditional Chinese medicine acupuncture or psychological relaxation training.
As an example, the practice of relaxation techniques such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga prior to bedtime can assist in reducing anxiety.
It would be beneficial to improve the sleeping environment. The questioner mentioned that it is difficult to fall asleep when sleeping with her husband. One solution could be for the questioner to discuss with her husband how to adjust the sleeping environment to make it more comfortable and quiet. For example, the use of earplugs to block out noise, maintaining an appropriate room temperature and lighting, or the use of certain devices to help sleep without snoring could be beneficial. This would help to ensure that her husband's snoring does not affect her sleep.
The questioner appears to have adopted a mindset of addressing challenges independently and is reluctant to articulate their needs within close relationships. One approach could be to encourage the husband to share the burden.
It is advisable to adjust your work and rest schedule to establish a regular routine. Attempt to go to bed and get up at the same time every day. Avoid engaging in activities unrelated to sleep, such as watching mobile phones and TV, in bed.
It is recommended that a regular bedtime routine be established, such as taking a bath, reading, or listening to soft music, to prepare the body and mind for sleep. It is advised that caffeine, nicotine, and alcohol be avoided before bedtime.
It is important to maintain open communication with your partner. This will help him to understand your situation and needs. He may be able to adjust his sleeping habits or wait until you fall asleep before speaking.
In any case, the questioner can express their needs in their intimate relationship. In many cases, if the questioner chooses to address these issues independently, it may not be conducive to the healthy development of their intimate relationship. Only an intimate relationship that is mutually supportive can last longer.
It is important to get sufficient sleep at night to ensure optimal daytime performance. If you are not getting enough sleep, you may experience fatigue and lethargy during the day. In such cases, it is advisable to take short breaks, such as a brief nap during your lunch break, to recharge.
Additionally, there are numerous brief rest periods that can sustain energy levels throughout the day with less than an hour of sleep. It is recommended to search for relevant tutorials online. Furthermore, maintaining a positive outlook and good work habits can assist in managing daytime tasks.
When facing insomnia, maintaining a positive attitude and confidence is key. With the right adjustments and treatment, most cases of insomnia can be resolved and individuals can gradually return to normal sleep patterns.
It is also important to communicate and understand your partner. Their support and understanding can help you better cope with insomnia. If the insomnia persists, it is recommended to consult a doctor or sleep specialist, who can provide further help and guidance.
I would like to take this opportunity to remind the questioner that insomnia can be treated, and that many people have successfully overcome this problem.
I hope this information is helpful to the original poster.
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Comments
Life has certainly been challenging lately. It's hard to adjust after such a long time working side by side with my husband. Now dealing with this vestibular neuritis on top of everything, it's like I've lost my balance in more ways than one. The dizziness is less severe now but those moments when it hits again are unsettling. And then there's the insomnia. Sleeping pills help but it's not the same as resting peacefully. My husband's snoring used to be background noise, now it feels like an obstacle. Moving to the study has become my new routine, and I worry how this shift might strain our bond. Yet, despite all this, his support hasn't wavered. We've always had a strong relationship, and I hold onto that strength as we navigate these changes.
It's frustrating to feel like my body and mind have betrayed me. Vestibular neuritis was unexpected, and now even though the worst is over, the lingering dizziness keeps me on edge. Insomnia has crept back into my life, and it's worse this time because I'm afraid of what nighttime brings. My husband's care and comfort mean the world to me, but I can't shake off the fear of sleeplessness. I know logically that this too shall pass, yet the uncertainty gnaws at me. Tonight, with my father in the study, I face the prospect of another sleepless night and wonder how much more I can handle before it starts affecting my work and daily life.
The separation from my husband's department has been tough, especially coming on the heels of my vestibular neuritis diagnosis. Adjusting to intermittent dizziness while trying to maintain normalcy is exhausting. The insomnia is a new hurdle; even though my husband has always been supportive, sleeping apart feels like a distance growing between us. I've relied on sleeping pills to cope, but it's not a sustainable solution. The fact that my father is staying over tonight adds another layer of complexity. I find myself worrying about the future, hoping that I can regain control over my sleep and reclaim some sense of normalcy in my life.
Even though things are difficult right now, I try to focus on the positive aspects. My husband's unwavering support during my illness has been a beacon of light. Despite the physical separation due to different departments and my health issues, our relationship remains strong. The insomnia is troubling, and having to use sleeping pills isn't ideal, but I remind myself that this phase will eventually end. I've sought psychological counseling to address my concerns, which has helped ease my anxiety somewhat. Still, the fear of not being able to sleep looms large, especially with my father occupying the study tonight. I need to find a way to manage my worries and trust that things will improve.
Adjusting to the new work dynamic with my husband in a separate department has been an adjustment, and coping with vestibular neuritis has added layers of challenge. The intermittent dizziness and resulting insomnia have made for restless nights, leading me to seek refuge in the study once my husband falls asleep. Even though he's been incredibly supportive, I can't help but feel a rift forming. The recent bout of insomnia has me concerned about its impact on my daily functioning and worried about where I'll turn if the study isn't available. It's comforting to know that my husband's love and care haven't changed, and I hope that soon I can return to a peaceful night's rest without the aid of medication.