Work is annoying, and now exams are crushing me. Listening to my mother's nagging




Exams are a big responsibility, with the risk of failure, but the benefits of success are obvious. Now is not the time to spend all your time studying.
I hope to find a job that is easy to switch to and refresh my mood, but such a job only exists in my imagination. Work is all energy-consuming.
Now I don't know if I can work well. I can't afford to fall behind with work and studies at the same time.
My emotions were all over the place. It was hard to regulate my mood when I was working, and I was annoyed by all the problems. When I wasn't working, I was temporarily under the pressure of debt, and I felt the pressure of being at home all the time when my mother nagged me.
I didn't just study casually, I also wanted to achieve a certain level. Otherwise, it would have been a waste of time.
In short, there is pressure and discomfort no matter what. And the discomfort has to be controlled, otherwise it will affect your studies.
Going to work will definitely cause all kinds of discomfort and interference. This feeling is really bad and I can't integrate it no matter what.
Although it is convenient to live at home, and there is a sharp-witted mother at home, life is not relaxing. Your heart is in your mouth.
It became more and more difficult to persevere as the exam approached. If you don't get accepted in time, the supply of provisions is insufficient, and the expected provisions are almost used up.
The plan could not keep up with the changes, and the changes meant that I did not get accepted as expected. There were also many twists and turns, and I applied for many jobs, but in the end, I could not persist, and it was not good enough.
But I feel so tired. I thought the exam would be a relief, but now it's crushing me. Listening to my mother's nagging
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Comments
I totally get how overwhelming everything feels right now. It's like being caught between a rock and a hard place, with exams looming and the pressure from home not letting up. Trying to find that balance without dropping the ball on either side is exhausting.
The stress of balancing work and studies is no joke, especially when you're aiming for something more than just getting by. I can imagine how frustrating it must be, facing all these challenges and still trying to meet your own standards. It's tough when you're pushing yourself but feel like you're falling short everywhere.
It sounds like you're carrying a lot on your shoulders, and it's understandable to feel drained. The pressure from family, the uncertainty about exams, and the struggle to find fulfilling work—it's a lot to handle. Sometimes it feels like no matter what you do, there's always another hurdle.