After opening the studio, I felt very stressed and irritable.




After opening a studio last year, I felt a lot of pressure. I had to figure out and handle everything myself. I partnered with a friend for a month, and I trusted her, but because of my trust, I lost a lot of money, and the money I lost went into the pockets of this friend I trusted, which I really couldn't accept. In order to get my money back, I was under even more pressure, racking my brain for ways to make money. During this period, my family was constantly putting pressure on me. While I was starting my business, they often asked me for money. Whenever I said I didn't have any, they would scold me for not making any money with this studio, and they would compare me to other people. This was what I found most objectionable. I wanted to find emotional comfort, but I didn't expect my boyfriend's lack of care and lack of motivation to make me even more annoyed. He doesn't consider my feelings when he talks or acts, and he doesn't even understand when I'm angry during my period. My boyfriend's mother also likes to talk about me. I can't tell anyone what's on my mind, I can't let out my anger, and I don't know where to go to vent my grievances. In short, I'm very irritable, and now the slightest noise can set me off!
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Comments
I can totally relate to feeling overwhelmed when starting a new business. It's so disheartening when someone you trust lets you down, especially when it involves money. Recovering from that kind of betrayal is tough, but focusing on what you can control might help ease the pressure.
It sounds like you're going through a really rough patch with not just your business but also personal relationships. It's important to find a support system that understands and respects your feelings. Maybe talking to a counselor could provide some relief and guidance.
The stress from family and financial issues can be incredibly draining. I wonder if setting clear boundaries with your family about finances could help reduce the pressure. It's hard, but sometimes we have to protect ourselves from negative influences.
It's heartbreaking when the people closest to you don't offer the support you need. Finding a community or group where you feel understood can be a lifeline. Sometimes even online forums can provide the emotional comfort that's missing elsewhere.
Feeling unsupported by your boyfriend must be really tough, especially during such a stressful time. Communication is key; maybe having an honest conversation about how his actions affect you could lead to improvements in your relationship.