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By Anonymous | Published on December 18, 2024
Hello, dear question asker! I'm sending you a big, warm hug! It's so sad to hear that you've been through two relationships that ended in heartbreak. It's clear that you haven't done anything wrong, but it's still so hard to be rejected when you feel like you're doing everything right.
It's easy to think that meeting these kinds of people all the time is bullying and playing you, but it's important to remember that you have the power to choose who you let into your life. Both relationships started in a muddle and ended in a muddle. It's natural to want to jump right in and get to know someone, but it's also good to take a moment to think about how to screen before diving in headfirst. Having a process for selecting a partner can help you make the best choices for your heart.
When we look for a partner, we usually think about lots of different things. We consider the person's social value, emotional value, and personality to get a sense of who they are and whether they're a good match for us. If you rush into things, you might end up with some unexpected consequences.
So, why is it that girls who don't have the love and support of their dads are more likely to be targeted by scumbags? Well, if a girl has had the good fortune to grow up with her dad showing her love and affection, she'll know instinctively when she meets a suitor in the future whether they're genuine or not.
On the other hand, a girl who doesn't have a lot of love from her parents might not have a good understanding of love. She might not have felt the love of a man for her, and yet she might really crave love inside. So as soon as she meets someone who flirts with her, her heart will be stirred, and she will take even the slightest sign of affection as love.
It's so sad to see girls like this being targeted by scumbags. They're easy to get to because they lack the love and guidance they need to know better. It's so important for girls to have a father's love from an early age. It helps them to learn how to love others and to maintain a normal intimate relationship. When they don't get this, they're more likely to be exploited by scumbags.
If a dad shows his daughter enough love and support, she'll be able to face problems with confidence and maintain her independence in the face of interpersonal conflicts. But if a dad blames or suppresses his daughter, he won't be able to play this role. A daughter who has been neglected or suppressed by her dad for a long time might subconsciously believe that she's not good enough. When she enters an intimate relationship, she might subconsciously think, "Is there something wrong with me that caused them to leave?"
It's so important to love and accept yourself, otherwise you'll end up being hurt again and again by someone who doesn't deserve you. If you're in this situation, it's time to stop filling the gaps in your life with one bad relationship after another. You deserve better than that!
It's time to take a good look at your heart, acknowledge your own shortcomings, and learn to love yourself. When you're strong inside and know you're worthy of love, you'll have the ability and courage to love others. You can do it!
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I can understand feeling like you're stuck in a cycle of bad luck, but it's important to remember that your future isn't set in stone. You have the power to make different choices and surround yourself with people who respect you.
It sounds like you've been through a lot. It's tough when things don't work out as expected, especially when it comes to relationships. Maybe it's time to focus on what you really want for yourself and seek out people who align with those goals.
You're only 22, and there's so much life ahead of you. These experiences, while painful, are part of growing up. Try to learn from them and move forward with more confidence in your own judgment.
Feeling used can be devastating, but don't let these experiences define you. Consider talking to a counselor or someone you trust about how you're feeling. They might help you gain some perspective and support.
It's heartbreaking to feel like everyone is against you. But not all people are the same. Try to build a support network of friends and family who care about you and want the best for you.