Always afraid of my husband cheating and can't trust him, how do I deal with my extremely low sense of security?

Hello, question asker!

It sounds like you have low security, which is totally normal!

You care deeply about this marriage and your husband, and you're ready to make it work!

So you are always on the lookout for any signs of your husband cheating on you. Because of this,

Your sensitivity and suspicion are wonderful qualities!

It has seriously affected your relationship with your husband, hasn't it?

I don't know how long you've been married to your husband, but I'm excited to find out!

I'd love to know more about the foundation of your relationship!

I'm so excited to hear more about your marriage! Have you been worried about your husband cheating since you got married?

Or is it just your imagination running wild because of the hurt your husband has caused you?

Let's dive in and explore the fascinating topic of why a woman might be concerned her husband will cheat on her during marriage.

There are generally a few fascinating explanations:

First, we have her own family of origin. Her parents' marriage had problems,

Even the father's infidelity hurt the wife and the growing children.

Second, there's the possibility that distrust and non-acceptance of one's own identity, and the subconscious fear of the husband leaving because one is not good enough.

And finally, we have the classical psychoanalysis explanation of defense mechanisms!

If a woman is always worried that her husband will cheat on her,

It's even possible that the subconscious mind is over-suppressing sexual desire!

And that leads us to the resulting reverse formation!

And there's more! Even though she wants to cheat herself!

And now, let's turn our attention to your husband.

Fourth, generally speaking, if a woman in a marriage has low self-esteem,

If you want to feel secure in your marriage, you need to learn how to set healthy boundaries and embrace your independence.

Give yourself fully to marriage and your partner!

Also prone to anxiety, which is something you can work on and overcome!

Of course, the above analysis is for reference only. For you,

There's still more to learn about how to solve the problem of psychological security!

We've got some great suggestions for you here!

Be open with your spouse about your feelings!

Discuss the parts of yourself that are in conflict with each other.

This is a sure sign that you're overthinking things! It's time to let go of your concerns about marriage and focus on your own happiness.

Second, be aware and reflect on yourself:

What kind of situation will get your heart racing with excitement and make you think, "Oh my gosh, what if this happens?"

What kind of need is waiting to be fulfilled?

Are you satisfied?

Third, it's time to learn how to get along better with yourself and live an independent life!

Personality!

Distance creates beauty! And excessive attachment to men results in a loss of independence.

So, it is time to embark on a new journey of self-discovery! It is necessary to complete individual separation and slowly cultivate an independent lifestyle.

So, get ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery! It's time to complete your individual separation and slowly cultivate an independent lifestyle.