Can online emotions be genuine? Is the honeyed tongue full of lies?

Hello, question asker!

First, let's embrace the confusion and anxiety of the questioner! From your description, it seems that you're questioning the reliability of your online fast food-style heartthrob. You're feeling a bit disillusioned about the gap between his persona and the real person, and you're ready to let go, but you're a little reluctant.

The questioner has taken the initiative to come here for help, which is a great first step! Let's explore these doubts together.

First of all, a fast-food-style crush may be based on the perfect person you have imagined endlessly. From the beautiful singing voice, to the sweet words, and the seemingly enjoyable time spent together in just five days, it seems to have made you fall in love! You're imagining that the other person is as perfect as you imagined, and feeling like you have fallen.

Feelings can be wrong, and if they are based on wrong information, they can be even more wrong. Just like many online scammers who call themselves "uncle" but are actually old men with smelly feet, they are just perfect human beings.

When you think about the situation, were you imagining things and being over-excited, or was it really a million miles from the truth? Either way, be careful of being deceived!

Second, it's time to level up your judgment skills, distinguish right from wrong, and never let your guard down! The online community is a microcosm of society, with all kinds of people. It's totally possible that someone is deliberately trying to scam you, especially if they lie a lot and their words are inconsistent.

And don't forget to protect the security of your personal information, such as addresses, etc., when you're surfing the Internet!

And finally, if there's a spark and you feel it's not quite right, then go for it! End the relationship and move on. Love affairs shouldn't be rushed, and you can't force it.

I'm so excited to share my thoughts with you! I really hope you find them helpful. Wishing you all the best!

Hello! I'm thrilled to answer your question. I hope my suggestions will be helpful to you!

When we meet people online, it's important to decide whether we're looking to make friends, have fun, chat about our shared interests, or even go on a date!

It's important to understand the difference between friendship and love!

At the beginning, we may still be able to clearly distinguish between the two, but as we spend more and more time together, we fall in love and develop feelings for each other. Before we know it, our friendship has turned into love! In this transition, it's important to distinguish between the views on choosing friends and choosing a spouse.

It's also a great idea to check in with your partner to see if their feelings have shifted from being just good friends to something more.

Once we've undergone an emotional transformation and no longer just get along as good friends or as online acquaintances, it's time to consider whether to further change our relationship! There are two exciting directions we can think in.

One of the best things about being in love is that you enjoy it!

The second is that we fall in love with the goal of getting married!

There's a world of difference between the two, and of course there must be a transition. Let's take the beginning, for example. You just want to have an online relationship, and you think that the person on the other side is your type or has a certain quality that makes your heart flutter. So the two of you reach an emotional agreement and become boyfriend and girlfriend! But at this stage, the two of you are still just attracted to each other, so you haven't thought about the future yet. But in the process of falling in love, as you become more and more familiar with each other, the relationship deepens, and you start to think about whether you want to spend the rest of your life together. At this time, we go back to considering our views on marriage. At this step, we sort out and improve our views on love and marriage!

Love and marriage are two different things, and both are wonderful! When it comes to love, all you need to do is consider whether you like the other person, whether they like you back, and whether you want to have a sweet relationship.

The latter is definitely worth more consideration! There are so many factors to consider, such as whether online dating is realistic, whether long-distance relationships are acceptable, or whether the two families can get along.

In general, for us at this stage, it is to distinguish between the person we met online, whether our conversations or time together are just at the friend level, or whether it has gone further. If the other person has clearly expressed their feelings, and you are a little bit attracted, and both of you are interested in this, then we can have a little bit of an ambiguous stage, and then the two of you can communicate and understand each other to cultivate the relationship, which is really exciting!

Or to clarify your feelings. I think these entertainment activities on the Internet are just for entertainment, and I don't think in terms of love or romance. Then we can just enjoy the entertainment, and clearly inform the other person that we have no such plans on the Internet, just want to play games or surf the Internet.

Absolutely! It's totally possible to meet your true love online. In fact, there's a couple in my neighborhood who met playing games and now have a great relationship and a cute little baby. Online dating can definitely lead to a happy ending! The essence of our relationships is still based on mutual communication and understanding.

I really hope that through self-reflection and a deeper mutual understanding, you can become more self-aware!

The world and I love you!