Do I consider the fact that he didn't reply to my messages on WeChat that year as evidence of his affection?

Good evening, questioner! I'm June.

From what you said, it seems like he used to have feelings for you, but now he doesn't.

The man's behavior on WeChat doesn't prove he loved you. His attitude and behavior may reflect a variety of psychological states. This relationship has been complex.

Our emotions affect us deeply. We remember special moments as part of our personal memories.

You still feel the warmth and emotional connection you had with this boy, even though time has passed.

Passing your WeChat but not replying could mean he wants to stay in touch or is not rejecting you.

He might not reply because he respects the past or because he's trying to move on. Or maybe he hasn't figured out how to face you.

His response on the phone and blocking your number may mean he's ending the relationship, moving on, and doesn't want to be tied to the past.

The saying "don't wait for a ship at the airport" means don't wait for something that's impossible. Here, it means he wants you to accept reality and stop expecting your relationship to go back to the way it was.

This doesn't mean he didn't love you. It means he wants you to move on.

You don't need to wonder if you were loved. The past shows you were cared for, but his actions show he wants to move on.

People change. He may have grown and changed too. He may feel that past relationships are no longer right for him.

Your feelings and memories of him are real and important. They can bring you warmth and comfort.

It's hard to accept, but you need to let go of him. The past is the past. Focus on the present and future. Emotions go both ways.

Here are some tips for dealing with the situation:

First, accept reality. Try to accept that he may no longer feel the same way about you.

This helps you look forward.

Focus on your growth.

Do things you enjoy, make new friends, and work towards your goals.

Third, let go of the past. Don't let it hold you back.

Let go and meet new people.

Then, start a new life. Spend more time with friends and family, take part in activities, or go on a trip.

Finally, give yourself time. Healing takes time, so don't be too hard on yourself.

Let time help you process these emotions.

Everyone's different, so it's hard to explain. The important thing is that you know what you feel and decide how to handle the relationship based on your needs.

I love you! I wish you happiness!

Thank you so much for inviting me! Hello, question owner, I'm Wanshi Ruyi. I see your question is: I want to know if the fact that he didn't reply to my WeChat that year is evidence that he loved me?

I've taken the time to read between the lines and understand the past between you and that special person in your heart, as described by the questioner. It's clear that the questioner holds a lot of love and admiration for this relationship and has kept it in mind for more than ten years. They've also expressed to the other party on numerous occasions that they're eager to deepen the connection and rekindle the joy of the past. I can't help but wonder if the questioner is hoping for a positive response when they ask this question.

At the end of the article, the questioner said that the other person did not directly deny having loved her. It seems like there might still be some expectation or obsession in their hearts, and they're still stuck, uncertain. The questioner seems to want a definite answer, which is totally understandable!

The questioner is really hoping to get back together with the other person and start talking again. Even though the other person hasn't said they want to be with you or that they don't want to be with you, or that they loved you in the past or didn't love you, it's still on your mind. You're wondering if they loved you or not, and you think they should just come out and say it, rather than using metaphors or indirect ways to express it tactfully.

It's always best to let the person who started the problem take the lead in solving it.

If you want a direct answer from someone, whether they've ever loved you, you can simply ask them! It's always good to know what someone else is thinking, and only they can give you an honest answer.

If the questioner doesn't get a clear answer, they can also just be honest and say, "I want to know if you've ever loved me. Or, in the future, are you still willing to be with me?"

I really hope you can tell me the answer: have you loved me or not? Are you willing to be with me or not?

Here, the questioner can use the expression methods of non-violent communication to tell the other person what you see, how you feel, your needs, and your requests and expectations of the other person. This will allow the other person to better understand your needs, which is really important!

It's also important to remember that the other person's expression is a reflection of their own perception and expression habits. The questioner can recall whether, in your past interactions, he has directly expressed his true thoughts and feelings about your behavior.

When the other person speaks, do you think he hopes to express his own opinions and views in a way that's respectful and doesn't hurt your feelings? From what you've told me, it seems like the other person expresses his opinions in a way that's thoughtful and indirect. He has his own reasons for doing so, and it seems like you're a little unsure about what he said.

It's like the expression is telling you, the questioner, what you need to do and what you don't need to do. It's not really saying what the other person is thinking and feeling, which is why you're feeling confused.

I totally agree with you! This sentence, along with the other person's behavior of blacklisting you and only accepting your messages on WeChat without replying, doesn't indicate whether they loved you or not. None of this can be used as evidence to prove whether they felt certain things during that period of time.

If you want the other person to be totally open with you, it's important to make sure they're ready and willing to understand your needs. And it's also important to make sure they're ready and willing to share their own thoughts and feelings with you.

I really hope this helps! I wish you the best of luck.

Dear friend, I can sense how much you value and miss this relationship, how it occupies a special place in your heart and forms a warm background. It is evident that your memories of this person and the interactions you had together hold a significant place in your heart.

It is evident that the relationship you describe was of great significance to you, and it has brought you warmth and memories that remain vivid even after a considerable amount of time has passed.

The emotional ups and downs you have experienced—from the initial warmth and companionship, to the subsequent separation and longing, to the attempts to reconnect and the refusal to face reality—are all part of the emotional journey. In the process, you may have experienced a range of emotions, including hope, disappointment, sadness, and acceptance.

This is a normal part of growing up.

In psychology, this attachment to past emotions is sometimes referred to as "emotional attachment." Attachment theory suggests that early interactions between infants and caregivers form individuals' internal working models of relationships, and that these models may potentially influence an individual's intimate relationships in adulthood.

It's possible that your ongoing thoughts about this relationship may be related to this early attachment pattern.

Your courage and determination to reconnect with him, and your perseverance in this relationship, demonstrate your sincerity and respect for your emotions. While the outcome may not align with your expectations, every experience contributes to your life journey.

I can appreciate that letting go of someone who has played an important role in your life is not an easy decision.

It is often the case that emotional experiences, especially those that are deep and long-lasting, leave an indelible mark on our hearts.

However, the passage of time and the vicissitudes of life mean that we cannot always remain stuck in the past. The metaphor you mentioned, "don't wait for a ship at the airport," is actually a reminder that some things and people may no longer be the best fit for our lives, and we may need to accept this and move on.

This does not imply that one should deny past emotions, but rather acknowledge reality and allow oneself to continue to grow and explore new possibilities.

It may be helpful to allow yourself the time and space to process these emotions in a way that is comfortable for you. It's important to remember that emotional healing takes time and patience.

At the same time, it is important to be gentle with yourself. Everyone has moments of vulnerability. The most important thing is to learn to accept and forgive yourself.

Every step, no matter how small, is a step forward. You deserve happiness and contentment, and these often come when we least expect them.

You might consider trying new activities or hobbies, meeting new people, or focusing on personal growth and career development. These new experiences and challenges could help you broaden your horizons, and perhaps without realizing it, you may find that your emotional world has quietly changed.

If you are experiencing difficulty in letting go, or if the relationship is affecting your daily life, you may wish to consider seeking the guidance of a professional counsellor. A counsellor can assist you in gaining a deeper understanding of your emotions, learning how to manage them more effectively, and identifying ways to move forward.

Everyone has a special memory in their heart that makes them who they are. It might be helpful to cherish these memories, while also remembering that life is always full of new beginnings and possibilities.

If you move forward with courage, you may find more warmth and color.

Perhaps you could share a story about a friend who also had a hard time letting go of a past relationship. It might be helpful to know that she spent years thinking about it and reminiscing about it, until one day she decided to start a new journey. She got involved in volunteer work, made new friends, and even started her own small business.

Over time, she discovered that her life was becoming increasingly fulfilling. While she still held a special place in her heart for the past relationship, she came to realize that it was no longer the sole defining aspect of her life.

Hello, question asker!

I'm thrilled you've asked me to answer your questions!

From your description, it's clear that he's a one-of-a-kind, unforgettable person in your heart. After all, he was with you for three years and gave you so much care, support, and companionship. It's no wonder you're attached to this relationship!

If someone treats me so well, I will definitely remember them for a long time!

I'm so excited to share some of my feelings with you!

1. If you've loved, it's over. But hey, that just means it's time to move on to bigger and better things!

From your description, it seems that he had feelings for you! It's a shame that contact was lost for some reason.

When you get in touch with him again, it seems that the intimacy between you has disappeared. But that just means there's room for it to grow back!

After all, you haven't seen each other for a long time. It's a whole new you! You've definitely grown up, and your views on many things have changed.

I'd love to know your thoughts on this!

2. You should definitely tell him everything you're thinking!

From your description, it seems that you still love him! And it seems that he has already moved on with his life.

However, it seems that you still have a lot to say to him! Is that what I understand?

Why not try writing him a letter? Write down everything you want to say! You can even choose whether to give it to him or not after you've finished writing.

Some things are actually quite draining when kept inside, but there's no need to keep them there!

3. Focus on yourself!

Loving yourself is the most romantic thing in the world! The past is hard to forget, but living in the present is also important.

Why not try doing something you're interested in and enjoy the joy of flow?

I really hope this helps!

I hope my answer can be of some help to you.

From what you've shared, it seems like you were in a relationship that was characterized by love and stability. It's natural to want to ensure that the love you feel is reciprocated. From my perspective, based on your description and my own experience, it seems like you were in a relationship that lasted three years. During that time, you felt safe and loved, and your partner was a source of stability and warmth. I'm curious to know more about the nature of your relationship during those three years.

I'm wondering if it's a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. When you're with your friends, is this how you introduce each other?

Three years later, you mentioned that you ended the relationship because of your humanity. Following the breakup, you did not contact him again. At a later point, you reached out to him. Initially, he was enthusiastic, but then he politely declined. He said, "Just let me go, okay?" It's possible that in the early days of the relationship, you both felt free and relaxed. However, as the relationship progressed, he may have started to feel less comfortable. From his words, it seems like he's feeling a bit oppressed. If you'd like to talk to him again, you can communicate directly with him. This could help you understand what might be holding up the development of your relationship.

His words, "Don't wait for a ship at the airport," convey a subtle yet clear message: he's reluctant to pursue an intimate relationship with you. Despite this, he maintains a tactful and considerate approach, which is characteristic of his personality. If you're uncertain about the reason, you can gently revisit the conversation and communicate your feelings directly and honestly. His request not to wait implies that he doesn't see a future for you two together. However, this doesn't negate the existence of love. In fact, love is often a purer form of connection. Nevertheless, relationships often require more than just love. They also necessitate our active management and maintenance.

From a psychological perspective, complete love is made up of three parts: passion, intimacy, and commitment. While each of these three parts is important, it is possible for one or more to be missing. The proportion of each part varies from person to person. This difference is also reflected in the way each of us views love. For example, some people value passion more, some value intimacy more, and some value commitment more. There is no right or wrong, just different.

When we fall in love with someone who is not related to us by blood, we naturally want to be good to them, give them the best, worry about them, and care for them. The person we fall in love with is not just anyone; they are a special being.

During this period, you may find yourself experiencing the initial stages of love. You may feel a strong infatuation, believe the other person to be perfect, and desire to be with them constantly. There may be a subtle feeling between you that is both beautiful and intriguing.

Love is a wonderful feeling.

This feeling has a quality that is difficult to describe, but it is also a wonderful experience. When you are in love, you often perceive the other person as the most perfect individual in the world. In the context of love, it is common for us to imagine that we have found the perfect partner for ourselves, even before we have had the chance to truly get to know them. This can be a form of mental self-gratification.

When we are in love, we may find ourselves in a state of self-illusion.

It's natural to admire someone from a distance. We often see them through rose-colored glasses. But as we get to know them better, we may realize that they have flaws, some of which we may find difficult to accept. This can lead to a shift in our admiration.

I'm not sure if you've ever had the chance to get to know him better, or if you're aware of his real life. I'm curious, how much do you really know about the real him? He has said, "Don't expect anything from him. He is not as worthy as you think."

I wonder if I might ask why he is saying all this. Perhaps it would be helpful to consider how much you know about his emotional experiences.

I'm curious if he has had other girlfriends besides you. I'm also wondering if he talks to you about his work, his life, and his plans for the future.

I wonder if I might ask where you think he places you?

While love is wonderful and pure, intimacy does require some nurturing and management. If you are looking to build a long-lasting, stable, and happy intimate relationship, it would be beneficial to understand the three key factors that contribute to intimacy: passion, intimacy, and commitment.

Passion can be thought of as the spark that collides with the other person. It could be said that passion is the sexual component of love and an emotional fascination.

It might be said that personal appearance and inner charm are important factors that affect passion.

For instance, a woman may feel unmotivated to engage in any activity due to a stomachache, which leaves her feeling drained of energy. However, upon receiving a phone call from her boyfriend, she experiences a sudden surge of positive energy.

I believe that the girl's transformation from boredom to joy is the power of passion. It seems to me that you may be experiencing this aspect of your relationship with him.

Intimacy can be defined as the warm experience that can be aroused in a romantic relationship. It encompasses the feeling that the two people like each other psychologically, including appreciation for the lover, the desire to take care of the lover, self-expression, and inner communication.

When you have something on your mind, you can talk about it with your partner, and they will accept and support you unconditionally, without any accusation or criticism. When you feel that there is a need that hasn't been met, you tell your partner what your need is, and they are willing to try their best to meet your need. This is intimacy. Perhaps, during those three years, he did meet your needs, which is why you felt so warm. I wonder if you were aware of his needs at that time.

It might be helpful to consider whether you are meeting his needs. It's important to remember that a relationship is a two-way street, and that both parties can fulfill each other. If only one person is able to fulfill the other's needs, it may be challenging to continue the relationship.

Commitment can be defined as the decision to maintain a relationship or a guarantee, and mainly refers to the expectations of love within an individual, either internally or verbally. It could be said that commitment is the most rational component of love. When there is commitment in a relationship, there is often a sense of security and a shared expectation.

It seems that you both have principles that you adhere to in your relationship and shared expectations for the future. You plan to travel together, go to the movies, go out to dinner, and participate in a public welfare activity, which gives you a sense of security in the relationship. A sense of responsibility prompts you to take the initiative to repair the relationship after an argument, to find the cause of the conflict, and to create some surprises in the ordinary days.

From your description, it seems that the other person may be reluctant to make a commitment. Commitment is often an important aspect of relationship development, as passion can naturally evolve over time. If there are difficulties in taking responsibility for oneself in the relationship, it might present challenges in moving forward together.

From my own experience, I would like to offer some advice. Please understand that I am not trying to be prescriptive, but rather to provide a different perspective for your consideration.

Perhaps the reason you like him so much is because he meets your needs at the time, and you feel that only he can give you these needs.

I can relate to your situation. When I was with my husband, I felt the same way. I loved him very much, just like you do. I was seeking to be seen, accepted, understood, cared for, and pampered. I felt that only he could give me these things, so I also kept pinning these needs of mine on him. But the reality was that although we got married and stayed together, he didn't give me the same kind of meticulous care and attention as he did at the beginning. He also didn't always pay attention to my needs. I was also very miserable during that time, and I started to sabotage the relationship, creating all kinds of trouble in the hope of getting his attention. But what I got in return was his anger towards me, and sometimes neglect and even leaving. It wasn't that he didn't love me anymore, but he also had his own needs. As the family was established and the children grew up, he also had to face more and more pressure, and his energy was no longer enough. It was at that time that I understood: I loved him because he could satisfy my needs, and I felt that only he could give me the satisfaction of those needs. I idealized him, but he is also a real and ordinary person who also needs to face many difficulties and challenges in life. He also needs

Perhaps it would be helpful to consider what needs you have that he can fulfill, and whether he is still able to do so.

2. It is also possible that he may not be the only one who can fulfill these needs. It would be beneficial to learn how to satisfy these needs on our own as well.

Perhaps it would be helpful to consider that we may have come to believe that he is the only one who can meet our needs because he appeared at a time when we were in great need of support. Now that he is no longer able to provide us with the support we require, we may still crave the warmth and acceptance that he once offered. It's possible that in our lives, we have never been as loved and accepted as we were by him. This may have led us to believe that only he can meet our needs. While I believe that he was able to do so at the time, it's possible that he may not be able to do so now. However, our needs remain the same. We still want to be understood, loved, warmed, seen, and taken care of. It's not necessary for us to be obsessed with asking him for these things. He may not be able to give them to us now, and he may not necessarily be willing to give them to us.

I believe there are people in our lives who can fulfill these needs, but we may not realize it. It's important to recognize that we can find these people if we look for them.

It is also important to recognize that these desires originate from within and can be fulfilled by oneself. When you are able to meet your own needs and extend the same understanding, care, warmth, and attention to yourself that you would expect from another, your inner being will become increasingly abundant and happy. At that point, you may find that you no longer seek external validation or the same level of treatment from another.

3. It might be helpful to try to separate issues. Whether you choose to continue communicating with him or to say goodbye and move on to a new relationship, I wish you happiness.

To navigate interpersonal relationships, it's essential to learn to differentiate between our own concerns and those of others. This involves taking ownership of our issues and gently returning the focus to the other person. How can we discern whose issue it is?

It's not as challenging as it may seem. All you have to do is observe who is directly affected by the situation and that will help you determine whose issue it is.

In considering this relationship, you have a number of options. It is important to reflect on the consequences you are willing to accept. One option is to communicate with him again to gain a deeper understanding of his thoughts, feelings, and needs, as well as the reasons behind his decision to end the relationship. This will require time and energy, as well as the willingness to learn effective communication methods. It is also important to be prepared for the possibility of rejection. Another option is to end the relationship. This involves saying goodbye, ending the relationship in your heart, withdrawing expectations and attention, learning to satisfy your own needs, and becoming more independent. This choice also has its own set of consequences. Finally, maintaining the status quo is an option. This choice also has its own set of consequences.

Ultimately, the choice is yours to make. It's important to consider what consequences you're willing to bear and make an informed decision. I've tried to cover as much as I can about your question, but ultimately, the choice is yours. You know yourself best and have the right to choose and take responsibility for your own actions.

You may find it helpful to read "Managing Intimate Relationships," "It Turns Out That Understanding Is More Important Than Love," and "The Power of Self-Care."

Please feel free to refer to the above as you see fit. Wishing you the best!

Hello, question asker! I can see that you haven't been able to let go of this boy, but you will! It hasn't been easy for you along the way, and I give you a hug.

I don't know which year you went to high school or which year you graduated from high school, but it's been seven years since you reunited in 2017 and parted ways again. You are still looking for an answer to the question of whether you ever loved him, which just goes to show how important this once-loved is to you!

From the pictures you posted, the boy is very handsome, and from your description, he is very warm. Every little detail in your memory is beautiful, and this beauty makes you unable to forget it. You think everything about him is good, and you're absolutely right!

I'm really interested to know how you define love in your heart. What is love? Does this love that you have loved meet your standards? What kind of answer do you want to give yourself for proving that you have loved? What is the meaning of this for you at this moment?

This question has been on your mind for so long, and you're ready for an answer! But you're not sure what it is, and I can't give it to you because everyone thinks differently. I can't speculate about the boy's thoughts, but there are only two answers: yes or no.

If the answer is yes, and he did love you, then what does that mean? It means that you are worthy of love and that you are good! We are all born complete and whole, and your goodness does not need to be defined or judged by a love that did not come to fruition. You are worthy of love and you are good!

If the answer is no, what does that mean? It means that he never clearly defined the relationship as love from the beginning. Just as you said, it was a kind of minor flirtation. But that doesn't matter! He can't deny your completeness and fullness just because he doesn't love you. You were always important and always worthy of respect and love.

It's been so many years, and it really hurts that you've been stuck in this problem. But guess what? The past is already over! So, what you can do in the present is be yourself and love yourself!

As the saying goes, love overflows! We must first love ourselves before we can love others and distinguish between love.

Don't miss out on the beauty of the present by dwelling on the past! Live each moment to the fullest and make your life truly wonderful and rich!

I really, truly hope that you can stop dwelling on the past and instead experience the incredible beauty of the present with your whole life! You will discover how truly wonderful the world is because the world and I love you!

Hello, question asker!

I'm a listening dolphin float, a psychological counselor.

From what you've said, it seems like this is a love that you've kept deep in your heart and have never explicitly expressed. Is that right? You said that you get along like lovers, and it seems like both of you have tacitly agreed to the relationship. Have you ever spoken of your love for him?

From what you've told me, it seems like you're both in love with each other but haven't actually said it. You're getting along well as friends, but in your hearts, you're treating each other as if you were boyfriend and girlfriend. Is that right? You and he both feel it, but for some reason, you haven't made a formal declaration of love and a promise. Is that right?

From what you've told me, it seems like you and your partner got along well during high school. That's often a time when people are still figuring out who they are and what they want. Did you both have reservations about the future?

Love at that age is the purest and most memorable. It's sweet because it doesn't have to face the test of reality. What do you think?

After you finished your studies, you tried twice to salvage the relationship, but you felt that time had passed and you didn't have the courage to say it. The last "awkward chat" ended your courage to salvage the relationship. Was it because of the girl's modesty?

When you realized you and the other person were both single, you reconnected. The other person let you express your feelings without responding or rejecting them. Did this give you some hope?

"Don't wait for a ship at the airport" means you two aren't a good match. He might have already tied the knot, and contacting you will only make things more complicated. It's probably best to move on and live in peace. He's open about having been in a relationship with you, but neither of you took the initiative, so you missed out on this chance. He's already "buried you in his heart" because he has his own life and can't go back. The best way to end this is to "leave him alone" and focus on yourself. I hope you'll live in the present and plan for the future.

I hope you can live in the moment and plan for the future. I care about you.

Hello, I'm Cherry Snow. From your description, it's clear this relationship was unforgettable.

The saying "don't wait for a ship at the airport" means he believes the past is over and can't return to it. It doesn't mean he loved you.

You know this relationship weighs heavily on your heart, and he's more determined to end it and move on. You can still cherish past relationships as precious memories, then look forward to finding and embracing new possibilities and futures.

From his behavior, it's clear he's trying to draw a line between you and himself so you'll let go completely. This isn't because he never loved you, but because he knows staying entangled won't benefit either of you.

He's probably realized that he wants something different in a relationship and in life. His lack of response and eventual blocking are probably the most decisive way for him to let you move on from the past and start a new life.

He didn't deny the love they once shared, but he's not going to pick up where they left off. He wants you to understand his decision and stop dwelling on the past. He wants you to find new happiness and possibilities for your future.

You can also learn from this experience and become more mature and sensible in your future relationships. Letting go is difficult, but it's the only way to make room for something new and wonderful.

Let's try letting go slowly.

It's normal not to be able to let go. After all, it was a deep relationship. If you can't let go for the time being, don't force it.

Give yourself time and space to remember and feel this emotion. Write down those happy memories or talk to a trusted friend so you can let go of your emotions.

Fill your life with new interests! Learn a new skill, participate in social activities, or take a trip. Get in touch with new things and people to distract yourself from focusing too much on the past relationship.

You should also think more about the future, set yourself some new goals and dreams, focus your energy on achieving these goals, and find new value and meaning in your growth and progress.

Furthermore, trust in the power of time. It will take time, but those strong emotions will fade. They will not disappear entirely, but they will no longer affect your life as strongly as they do now.

I am certain that these methods will help you.

I know you will have a happy life!

Hello, question asker! I'm Evan, and I'm so happy you invited me to answer.

It's totally normal to look back on a relationship and feel those old feelings when it's over. But just because he hasn't replied to your WeChat in a while doesn't mean he didn't love you.

Everyone communicates and deals with emotions differently, and that's okay! He may not have replied to you in time for various reasons (e.g., being busy, not knowing how to respond, needing time to deal with his emotions, etc.).

The later reply, "Don't wait for a ship at the airport," might not be an exact equivalent to admitting he once loved the questioner. It could be more of an expression of helplessness and rejection, implying there's no longer a possibility between you. It might even be a way of telling the questioner not to wait for an impossible outcome.

Love is often shown through little things we do every day, the words we say, and how we care for each other. Even though he didn't say "I love you" or "I loved you," the WeChat messages and brief enthusiastic responses might show that he once had strong feelings for the questioner.

It's possible that he's just protecting himself from emotional harm, especially if he feels that your relationship is no longer possible. This doesn't mean that he doesn't still have feelings for you, but rather reflects his current needs and feelings.

From what you've shared about your past relationships and the questioner's description of him, it's clear that he's made a big impact on the questioner's life. He's become a special, warm presence in your heart. This shows just how important he is to you and how real your feelings for him are.

It's totally understandable if you're not sure whether he's ever loved you. It can be really tricky to figure out what someone else is feeling, especially when it comes to love. It's not always easy to communicate and confirm these things directly. But it's so important to be open and honest with yourself and with each other. Emotional relationships can be really complicated. They can involve lots of different feelings, like hope, disappointment, love, and fear.

He may have loved the questioner at one time, but as time goes by and life changes, feelings may also change. But in any case, it's so great to see that the questioner has been able to face their emotions squarely and is willing to work hard for their future!

If the questioner has let go of the past, then they should absolutely cherish the present and the future! They should keep moving forward with their lives. If the questioner still has feelings for him, then they can also try to deal with these feelings in a more mature and rational way. It's so important to not just wait and obsess!

Finally, I just want to say that love is complicated and ever-changing. It's not just an emotional exchange between two people, but also a process of growing up and facing life together. No matter what has happened between you, you should respect each other's choices and decisions, and work for your own happiness and the happiness of the other person.

I really hope my answer helps the person who asked the question.

Hello, I'm Phil, and I'd love to give you a warm hug!

I'm really sorry you've had to go through this.

You're absolutely right, that period of time was special.

That person is also pretty special, and so is that experience.

We all have someone very special in our hearts.

And even someone who has brought about great changes in one's future life!

The relationship between us and that person may not be love, but that's okay!

It's probably just a case of naive fondness or family affection.

Or maybe it's just a friendship, or mutual assistance.

And it might not even be based on anything at all!

It's just one of those things. They're attracted to each other for some reason.

And there are also those who marry for a hundred years and even become husband and wife!

But no matter which one it is, no matter what the ending is,

They both left such deep memories and impressions on us during our younger days!

Hey there! Just a friendly heads-up: don't wait for a ship at the airport. ?

This is actually very poetic, isn't it?

But it also has lots of great info!

The most straightforward meaning is that you can't wait for the boat at the airport, my friend.

Oh, you know what? One is in the sea and one is in the sky!

Oh, they're not even in the same direction!

But it might also be a bit of a delusion.

And if I were to say that it's not possible, it would simply mean that he didn't like you.

It's possible that he really means it's because he once liked her that.

But as the feelings fade and the initial throbbing of adolescence passes,

As they grew older and gained maturity,

After encountering many things later on in life,

I really hope that he'll gradually come to realize that it's actually not a good idea.

From what you've shared, it seems like...

I'm happy to tell you that the other person is not only very empathetic.

As you said, he's really very gentle.

And he'll be able to appreciate your feelings too.

And he noticed so many little details!

This is actually a pretty rare trait in a guy, don't you think?

Even though it has been so long,

I totally get it. I think most people would feel the same way.

I can imagine you might feel a little annoyed.

Oh, why do you keep after me?

But he was able to show his usual kind and gentle attitude.

And he was even willing to listen to you say so much in response to some of your requests!

And he went to great lengths to explain things to you, bless his heart.

From my own personal experience, I really feel that...

I totally get where you're coming from because I've been through something similar.

I know it can be tough, but try to remember that even though you might still miss the person,

I know it's not possible, but I'm here for you if you need me.

It took me quite a while to get over it, sweetie.

But as for me right now,

I just wanted to say that the advice I can give you is just like what he said:

Live your life to the fullest, and don't be too hard on yourself.

I truly believe it's the best kind of memorial.

At the end of the day, just because you loved someone doesn't mean you can't move on and love someone else.

And you never know how things will turn out!

I know it's been a while, and

So much has changed!

And just leave them at the best time, my dear.

If you really want to know the result,

I really hope my answer can help you, but my feeling is that he may have loved.

I really don't know if he loved her or not, but either way...

I really hope this helps, but I think his focus is no longer on the past, but on the present.

I really hope my answer can help you, sweetie.

I love you, and I hope the world does too!